It suddenly came to me just now a related verse to my question in post #150:
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46 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him.
47 Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you.”
48 He replied to him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?”
49 Pointing to his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers.
50 For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.”
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We know that Christ was speaking to people, just as in Luke 11, who most of them would not yet understand at that time Who He was, the Messiah. They did not know, and some thought Him a prophet, for instance. Later it would be clear that Peter recognized He was more than only a prophet, this would become evident later in Matthew 16.
I do *not* think this diminishes the importance of Mary at all, not even the slightest bit. She was even before the angel visited her a pure vessel of righteousness and correct relationship with God we can just piece together even from the text and her responses, such as the
Magnificat. Because of her direct and prolonged relationship directly with Christ first hand, we can at the minimum expect her to be far more advanced than any of us or anyone we have known in her qualities and gain in wisdom and love, as the expected outcome. Saying that I do not even hint that more cannot be, but rather that this is already clear from the text, even for someone not hearing more yet than is in the gospel texts.
This passage from Matthew 12 though seems to relay a similar message as that in Luke 11 v 28-29, which itself has a word He chose in it: "more", specifically "more blessed". That's especially dramatic in Luke 11 for us, we who know Mary is not only blessed by the powerful and wonderful blessing of a truly righteous child of great quality, alone -- as many in the crowd listening at that moment may have thought (is that correct?), but more even.
He would know.
He would know that we would read this later, knowing Whom He is....