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It's not Christian like. Sorry you've had those experiences. A lot of men are superficial as a whole... but the bible talks a lot about the true qualities to look for other than superficial ones. Talks about a woman who is meek, talks about inward beauty over outward. Proverbs 31 woman is who I personally look for, a meek woman... plus I think everyone is beautiful who exudes inner beauty anyway, like, physical often comes from the inner.

Many woman who the world finds beautiful I don't because their inner-self comes out into their physical looks in some ways.

I couldn't agree more. I strive everyday to be a Proverbs 31 woman. Not for the sake of attracting someone but to serve the Lord. It has always been a desire of mine, and not as easy as I thought it would be. And yet I've been taught so much alredy.
 
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Both genders can be pretty superficial when it comes to outer beauty.

Which is natural, it's part of the evolutionary process. Only thing that makes me angry is when body positive movements try to have double standard with the genders.

Youthfulness is very important to me, as it statistically is for most men. I don't take it well when a woman who has a history of rejecting men for their lack of height tells men that they need to be with women their own age.. (talking 30s and up here, lol.)
I really do think (true) beauty is something that comes from personalities more than it does by physical symmetry and other things of that nature.

I've seen many women that get the attention from most guys but since I can see past the physical symmetry aspects and see their hearts/souls more clearly than others, the physical beauty part gets thrown out the window and does nothing for me other than to gain my attention momentarily.

But find me a woman whose meek, is similar to me personality wise, loves God and serves God with all her heart... would be very hard for me to see something not beautiful about her, even if her physical aspects have flaws.
 
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Lol, actually I had a woman here who wanted to meet me in a hotel.
Well duh, you're in the band Pentatonix... she needed to get in the circle.

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After working quite heavily for an unexpected 10 hours today, i now find myself stuck at a stand-still in traffic this very moment on the way home. And somehow i'm not even really feeling annoyed. I guess i have managed to keep myself entertained and Zen calm by singing along with U2 and Tokio Hotel all this time. ^-^
 
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Even if you made all the money they make?

-prods meh's values with a stick-

Do they make a lot of money? I have no idea who they are. Many bands are quite poor.

And yeah, I don't like their aesthetic at all. I'd rather be poor. Lol.
 
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Do they make a lot of money? I have no idea who they are. Many bands are quite poor.

And yeah, I don't like their aesthetic at all. I'd rather be poor. Lol.
fast forward to 3:00
 
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Meanwhile, in Mojo-land- My parents wedding anniversary is on Valentine's Day, and after eight years of never even having a late payment, our landlord told us they're selling the house and we have to move.

And coffee shop girl is still trying to play games.

She sounds like a very silly little girl. Just ignore her.



*sigh*...I miss London

Come back soon, we're waiting for you.
 
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I am just chilling out watching Youtube videos at random, going from one to another, and out of the blue the title of a suggested video off to the side catches me most unpleasantly off-guard: "How Resident Evil 6 is Awesome".

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After working quite heavily for an unexpected 10 hours today, i now find myself stuck at a stand-still in traffic this very moment on the way home. And somehow i'm not even really feeling annoyed. I guess i have managed to keep myself entertained and Zen calm by singing along with U2 and Tokio Hotel all this time. ^-^

Ouch. I know I would be frustrated and muttering a prayer. Traffics makes me severely sick.

OMM: It's a wonder how much the flesh fights against the Spirit. I am trying to start a new routine of coffee and Bible when I wake up. God first, God first, God first...
 
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Ouch. I know I would be frustrated and muttering a prayer. Traffics makes me severely sick.

OMM: It's a wonder how much the flesh fights against the Spirit. I am trying to start a new routine of coffee and Bible when I wake up. God first, God first, God first...

Well, you've already put coffee before the bible...
 
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Well, you've already put coffee before the bible...

It's a new routine I am doing starting today, so yeah. I failed that. Starting a new routine can be difficult for me.
 
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I love London too @TX_Matt, its awesome.

Regarding education @LizzyMae i think if you want a degree then go for it am 31 now, and at uni and i have to say it has honestly changed me as a person for many reason, i don't know what it's like in the states but I don't know people can't take your education away from you, and knowledge weighs nothing. Personally University opens door and opportunity for you, and were i want to go and do, I need a degree, i did have a "good" job before uni, but i wanted something for and something that i wanted to do.

Regarding dating sites, i have been offered all sorts and been on a few dates but nothing came from it, you do get guys who message you, then disappear or the convo just runs dry. Also I went on a date, i do think i wasn't skinny enough for him, but you know what i couldn't care less, i love me, this is me, and i know am a tad overweight and am sorting that BUT if they can't see me i really don't want to be with someone like that, my ex when i was skinny super skinny still told me i was "fat" it was never "enough" so you have had a good duck there. I have came off dating sites because i know its not what god wants me to do, he actually told me to come off them, so i did, it will be god's will who i end up with, i just pray about it and know at this moment i am enjoying being single, yes sometimes I am like gosh I wish someone who here to enjoy this with, or just hold me when I have a rough day....
 
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There's a girl at work who looks like @LizzyMae ,and wears the same glasses, too. And her name badge says Lizzy... Where's the CF Conspiracies thread when I need it?....
 
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There's a girl at work who looks like @LizzyMae ,and wears the same glasses, too. And her name badge says Lizzy... Where's the CF Conspiracies thread when I need it?....

Plot twist now. My name isn't really Lizzy!

DUN DUN DUUUUUUUN!

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