All I can say is that I am thankful beyond words that my experience doesn't match what is said here.
Our priest is absolutely wonderful, on so many levels. He's a wonderful teacher, extremely good from a pastoral perspective, both where individuals are concerned and with the personality conflicts that can arise in meetings, has good ideas for helping integrate the outsiders that visit, and more. He's also an awesome liturgist.
It's easy enough for me to say that he's good, but he's really my first priest. But others in the parish who have been through MANY priests all say the same thing - that he's the best they've ever had.
The only thing I regret is that the Bishop notices such things, and has the whole diocese to worry about. Which means continually added responsibilities for our priest, and I also suspect they may want to move him to a larger community.
What I wish they would do instead is send him junior priests to mentor, which would lighten the load for him, as well as benefit the new priests. But since we pay his salary, insurance, etc. I know for a fact that our community can't afford a second priest.
I can't comment on anyone else coming out of Holy Cross. As far as comparing it to St. Tikhon's or St. Vlad's, I also wouldn't know. I only know folks online from those, but they mostly all seem good too.
I DO have some things about the ethnic Greeks that make me sigh sometimes. Our parish is a mixture. We do have extremely devout persons there, who (to me) really seem to embody an Orthodox ethos. We have a lot of more moderate ones. And we have some that do seem to be more concerned with being Greek than being Orthodox. Our parish is largely direct immigrants from Greece though, so I have some degree of sympathy for them. Many don't seem to realize that various denominations actually have different beliefs, and so they do believe the purpose of their parish is for Greeks.
I think what frustrates me more at times is that sometimes cradles fail to appreciate what they have as a result. Of course, some of that opinion may be the result of viewing things through a residual lens of convert zeal. And to be honest, I could just as easily go to a Baptist/Methodist/Catholic/whatever church and find people who were basically born into their denomination and simply attended it without giving too much thought to distinctives. So again, I don't want to be too hard on them. But I am just saddened to see that some folks neglect, and really have no interest at all, in some of the tools that could benefit them spiritually. I guess that would be typical of almost any group of people. (Then again, one of my former "churches" was actually a school of ministry who opened their services to the public. While some of their doctrines were wrong, I must say that nowhere else have I ever seen such widespread zeal. If THOSE folks ever became Orthodox - wow. But anyway, because I have that experience, I may just be desiring to see everyone so dedicated again.)