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DeanW, it's not all that strange, I'd be okay saying that some Athiest hate the concept of God or believers, if that's what you're needing to hear, people always try to prove God isn't real though.
If they hate the concept of God and those who believe, it's very similar. More or less they can hate what they don't believe by hating the ideas behind it, and people associated with it. However, It's my belief that what atheist or skeptics are doing is focusing primarily on some of the bad aspects of faith-based communities. Abraham Lincoln once said "If you look for the bad in people, you will surely find it". and I think this is what we see with many Atheist.
This is hilarious to me, Since it's the Christians I see wallowing in sin. I see Atheist as loving people. Being the good example.They hate for a few reasons; 1. They don't have the spirit of God. See to man we judge things based on our standards, but to God anyone who denies Him is evil and they are a child of the devil.
2. They want to live in sin and the bible says that the wicked hate the light for fear of their sins being exposed. Sad thing is they have Jesus and He is strong enough to forgive them and wash them white as snow...
3. They are living with a rebellious spirit / antichrist spirit.
This probably isn't the right thread to discuss this, but just to answer your specific question it says the grounds for divorce are sexual sin.
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Just as a disbelief in something doesn't make it false. It's completely disrespectful to tell a believer they can't make the sun purple by believing it. That member came into the room saying they think we should all just love each other, but absolutely no consideration for what they believe. It's the argument of many Atheist that Religion or God is damaging, but what about the other way around?
I mentioned earlier that I was Agnostic, I was actually leaning towards Atheism for a good while but I learned that the character defects they complained about in Christians and other believers, were very much true for them.
I think love is a good message cannotbechanged, there couldn't be a better one. If that's what God has done for you hold onto that tight.
Don't go too far with it. They can leave their husbands and be estranged. They just can't marry again. Which is still totally bonkers, but there is a way out even within the rules of Christianity.It offers no way out for abused or raped wives.
But the truth is If we hate the gospel then we do hate God, for he is The author if this offensive system.
Just as a disbelief in something doesn't make it false. It's completely disrespectful to tell a believer they can't make the sun purple by believing it.
This is hilarious to me, Since it's the Christians I see wallowing in sin. I see Atheist as loving people. Being the good example.
I don't wallow in sin, the bible says since I've accepted Christ I'm dead to sin and alive to Him. Besides I don't drink, do drugs, watch filthy tv or listen to filthy music, I don't curse, I don't wear pants, I don't cut my hair, I do what I can not because I have to but because I want to.
I was like you once... I felt like I had more in common with the atheists and so forth until I realized I had the spirit of rebellion, I casted it out and continued serving the lord.
At the end of the day the atheists are not saved, they need prayer, there is only two places we go after death - heaven or hell and if the atheists don't get right they will unfortunately go to hell.
Actually the Bible does not say she has to stay with him and continue to be abused. I have a feeling that those counseling places you mention don't say that either. There is a difference between divorce and separation. There is nothing in scripture that would prohibit an abused woman from separating herself,from,the abuser.The only reasons mentioned are sexual infidelity and leaving the faith. So physical violence? Nope, stay with your husband. In fact, a great many Christian counseling websites will explicitly recommend exactly this - that you try to reconcile with your husband over anything that isn't sexual infidelity. But an otherwise well-meaning and devoted husband having one beer too many and hooking up with someone at a party, which he immediately regrets and wants to make up for? That is better grounds for divorce than, say, beating you bloody once a month.
And how about Ephesians 5:22-24:
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
So... yeah. The bible does teach women to subjugate themselves. It offers no way out for abused or raped wives.
Coincidentally, most of the husbands who do this don't quote the rest of the verse either. I'm not talking theory here, I'm talking practice.Also you didn't quote the rest of the verses where the husband is told to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her. Sacraficial love. He is to put her needs before his. Doesn't quite meet the treating the woman like a doormat philosophy that you portrayed.
You are very confused... you know very well that these religious texts say horrible things about non-believers, they even say we deserve to die.
But you have the audacity to say we have been disrespectful by telling a person that you can't make the sun purple? You claim that we are merely looking for reasons to hate religion and that we cannot even tell obvious truths to believers if you are fond of those believers. Seems you already had your mind made up before you created this post and you created merely to stroke your ego and take up for your sad little friends that can't suffer anyone ever disagreeing with them no matter what they say.
When a believer tells a non-believer they should burn in hell we need to see the big picture and not be upset, when a non-believer says the sun isn't purple it's way out of line. You are committed to protecting religious privilege.
You seem to misunderstand.... I answered YOUR question to help you get what you needed to hear. I don't need to hear anything. I already know what's happening and that we do not hate a make believe god.
These religions are full of scriptures that say to kill kill rape torture kill kill torture kill. It's pretty simple why people folks hate it. If sit around telling me that I do not deserve to have the same rights you do, I'm going to get mad.... it's really simple.
http://www.quotes.net/quote/47707In view of such harmony in the cosmos which I, with my limited human mind, am able to recognize, there are yet people who say there is no God. But what really makes me angry is that they quote me for the support of such views.
This is hilarious to me, Since it's the Christians I see wallowing in sin. I see Atheist as loving people. Being the good example.
Is it also disrespectful to stop a 5 year old from jumping off a building even though they sincerely believe they can fly?
That's weird because most Atheist I know are very supportive of Muslims rights.No.
Is it disrespectful for an Atheist (who claims to be for equality) to murder a family of three?
https://newrepublic.com/article/121...rders-show-atheism-has-violent-extremists-too
Actually that's not disrespectful, I'd describe it as insane. This happens on both sides, my point has been that violence has less to do with God, and more to do with the people who carry it out.
You could pray all you want. The Atheist I know don't have a problem with. I know all about Christians helping people, while they want to force their views on you. I also know some Christian want Atheists to go to hell and laugh about. They try to shun people they believe are evil and gay, atheist. But they seem fine about other sins. I know all about Christians being rude to people. So I guess their are bad on both sides. But at the end of the day. People searching for God will walk away from bad Christians and not bother going back.I have to disagree, although people are indeed diverse I've seen a lot of hurt coming from the Atheist end of things. For informational purposes Christians generally believe we're all sinners but that prayer can be benificial and healing, and it is for many of them. Prayer for me is something that I've usually done for others, those that I care about and I believe that's a good thing. There is a dark side to Religion, but from my experience it's usually the other way around (in that it's a good thing), church groups help in the community and it's vital to their own wellbeing as well.
I added the bolding for emphasis. Stop perpetuating this myth. No one here is claiming that. Saying there is insufficient evidence to believe, or even that there is no evidence to believe is not the same as saying there is "no doubt" that there isn't a god. The vast majority of atheists are fine with saying "I don't know" when it comes to the origins of things.Atheism suggest that there's no doubt there isn't a God, I find that to be an arrogant approach given the limitations of our minds, and how incomplete our understanding of the Universe really is.