Well then.. What do you make of this scripture...
47 Then one said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy brethren stand without, desiring to speak with thee.
48 But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my mother? and who are my brethren?
49 And he stretched forth his hand toward his disciples, and said, Behold my mother and my brethren!
50 For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven, the same is my brother, and sister, and mother. - Matthew 12
Jesus was in a clannish culture, they were focused on nationality and family relation
Jesus needs to break the Jews of this misguided notion
so Jesus shows the connection between believers
now, this does not mean that Jesus came to do away with respect for family, Honor Your Father And Mother has not been struck from the 10 Commandments
so the relationship between believers is the relationship between family members
Now, Mary is doubly blessed
being part of the Family of Christ by blood/natural means
and being part of the Family of Christ by being a fellow believer
Luke 1:46-55
46 And Mary said My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord;
47 my spirit rejoices in God my savior.
48 For he has looked upon his handmaids lowliness;
behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed.
49 The Mighty One has done great things for me,
and holy is his name.
50 His mercy is from age to age
to those who fear him.
51 He has shown might with his arm,
dispersed the arrogant of mind and heart.
52 He has thrown down the rulers from their thrones
but lifted up the lowly.
53 The hungry he has filled with good things;
the rich he has sent away empty.
54 He has helped Israel his servant,
remembering his mercy,
55 according to his promise to our fathers,
to Abraham and to his descendants forever.