Venting Thread

[Toro]

Lol I think it's because I try to limit my computer time. I probably could spend like all day on here if I let myself

Well, you need to post moar!

 

[Toro]

I dislike this new firefox thingy........ why didnt they leave the search thing as it was. This constant popup offering a different browser every time I enter something in the search bar at the top. When I already have a default search engine..... its annoying.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

I'm so tired from work today.

 

[TraciDee]

I think I need to back off this site a bit. In fact, I need to back off the Internet quite a bit.

I feel like when I move to the next place I need to start over, and this will not be a part of that life.

 

[vanillaicecream]

I think I need to back off this site a bit. In fact, I need to back off the Internet quite a bit.

I feel like when I move to the next place I need to start over, and this will not be a part of that life.

I'm so sorry to hear that trace. Makes me wanna pack up and leave cf too. For the SECOND time.

 

[William67]

Spaulding, Traci, and now Vanilla? C'mon.

 

[ks777]

Spaulding, Traci, and now Vanilla? C'mon.

pfft they'll come back, they always come back

 

[TwistTim]

Not sure where else to put this.... why would the young lady at the chic-fil-a care if I knew she had a dinner date or was hanging out with her friends? She made a point of telling her friends she was going to dinner, but then told me, "You did not hear that!" while I was waiting for my lunch Saturday night.... just confused as she has only been slightly friendly in the past, nothing to indicate interest.

 

[anewman1993]

Alright Ive talked about this a few times and its making me angry/frustrated/sad to no end so I'm going to go ahead and post it.

I meet a really nice girl and really liked her. Prior to her I had never been on a date or kissed. We talked for about a month and half and went on 2 dates. Everything was going really well and I was pretty confident it was headed towards a relationships. But she started acting a little dodgey, couldn't ever meet up and didn't have time to talk on the phone (which less than 5 days before on the date she told me to call anytime and that she would always talk to me if I call ). Finally I straight up called her out on it and what was going on, we had a really honest talk. I said I liked her, she said she liked me (and even went on to explain WHY). But that she was going through a bunch of stuff right now, and was stuck in a hard place. And she ask me to stand by her while all of it was happening (she wouldn't tell me what IT was). Anyway, I told her I would, but that I wasn't staying in limbo forever, and I had no interest in just being her friend. I took her at her word, that was about a week ago.

Last weekend she went on a date with another guy.

Obviously, I'm angry, because she probably lied to me and DEFIANTLY lead me on by acting like it was headed towards a relationship.

Ive been leaving her on her own and giving her space since our last text conversation. Honestly, I'll probably text her at some point durring this week asking if she ever got "everything figured out" which she will probably reply that she hasn't. At that point, I'm calling her out on the crap, telling her I'm not going to stick around like I said, because I'm not just going to be some guy she put on the backburner and is constantly leading on while going out with other guys. Its not happening and I'm done.

The only reason I want to send that, is so I can have some kind of closure, because honestly, I'm still hurting pretty bad right now, because I thought this was headed to a relationship, it was my first experience romantically with a girl, and I really need to get rid of uncertainty, and I would rather us leave on bad terms than constantly be wondering if I misread something.

I'm stuck at home over the break and no one is in town from college so I have nothing to do but sit at home and stew over this. Which is NOT helping at all.

 

[cristianprince67]

Hey that's a really good idea for a thread. I just don't have anything to complain about. I'm feeling pretty good.

 

[vanillaicecream]

Bump.

 

[scraparcs]

I'm so sorry to hear that trace. Makes me wanna pack up and leave cf too. For the SECOND time.

Third? Fourth? I lost count years ago. I'll be back, if I get around to going.

 

[vanillaicecream]

There. Now let it go.

(My version of venting.)

 

[GQ Chris]

I wish I had something in my life to be happy about. These last few years have been really hard on me, it seems like almost every single door is closing in on me. Honestly I don't know if I'll live to see the end of the decade, I just really hope I manage to pull through.

There's gotta be at least one thing?

 

[LittleLambofJesus]

Originally Posted by vanillaicecream

I'm so sorry to hear that trace. Makes me wanna pack up and leave cf too. For the SECOND time.

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Third? Fourth? I lost count years ago. I'll be back, if I get around to going.

Don't leave!!!!

Btw, can I have yer blessings when ya leave?



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[ReesePiece23]

I'll probably text her at some point durring this week asking if she ever got "everything figured out" which she will probably reply that she hasn't. At that point, I'm calling her out on the crap, telling her I'm not going to stick around like I said, because I'm not just going to be some guy she put on the backburner and is constantly leading on while going out with other guys. Its not happening and I'm done.

The only reason I want to send that, is so I can have some kind of closure, because honestly, I'm still hurting pretty bad right now, because I thought this was headed to a relationship, it was my first experience romantically with a girl, and I really need to get rid of uncertainty, and I would rather us leave on bad terms than constantly be wondering if I misread something.

I'd strongly recommend against this. It's not only a complete waste of time, but you'll also make an ass out of yourself. Don't let her see that you've allowed her to get to you - in the realms of dating, this should be as standard. Even if a girl has big time wound you up, NEVER let her know it. Because in her mind, if you're getting upset over the trivial stuff, then how are you going to handle the REAL challenges that come with marriage.

Chalk this one down to experience and take what positives out of you can. Next time, don't put your full heart and soul into a girl. I've told you before. Your main focus should placed upon you, and your personal development. You'll look back and regret it if you do or say something silly now. Just move on.

 

[William67]

I'd strongly recommend against this. It's not only a complete waste of time, but you'll also make an ass out of yourself. Don't let her see that you've allowed her to get to you - in the realms of dating, this should be as standard. Even if a girl has big time wound you up, NEVER let her know it. Because in her mind, if you're getting upset over the trivial stuff, then how are you going to handle the REAL challenges that come with marriage.

Chalk this one down to experience and take what positives out of you can. Next time, don't put your full heart and soul into a girl. I've told you before. Your main focus should placed upon you, and your personal development. You'll look back and regret it if you do or say something silly now. Just move on.

^^^^ This. And by texting her, youre giving her all the power and some women "feed" on that.

 

[Elizabeth8393]

I'm getting really sick and tired of places that are hiring rejecting my application when I am more than qualified to work there!!

 

[sundewgrower]

^^^^ This. And by texting her, youre giving her all the power and some women "feed" on that.

I appreciate the post.. I was sorta trying to put a finger on something that happened, and that's what happened.

 

[CCHIPSS]

I'd strongly recommend against this. It's not only a complete waste of time, but you'll also make an ass out of yourself. Don't let her see that you've allowed her to get to you - in the realms of dating, this should be as standard. Even if a girl has big time wound you up, NEVER let her know it. Because in her mind, if you're getting upset over the trivial stuff, then how are you going to handle the REAL challenges that come with marriage.

Chalk this one down to experience and take what positives out of you can. Next time, don't put your full heart and soul into a girl. I've told you before. Your main focus should placed upon you, and your personal development. You'll look back and regret it if you do or say something silly now. Just move on.

I got to second this. Do you trust this girl? Or do you trust God?