Its kinda weird posting this here but I want to know.Would you ever have a relationship with someone who has a problem with inappropriate content? What if you found out your current SO had a problem with it?
I'm a 21 year old guy, Ive struggled with inappropriate content addiction all my life, honestly I never expect to be "free" of it, I hope that one day I will have managed to live a life without it, but realistically temptation is always going to be there and I will fail, because I am human. Hopefully through the power of god one day I will be able to go long periods of time without looking at it, but I fear the draw is always going to be there. That doesn't mean I want to have sex before I'm married, I'm dead set on waiting no mater what, or that I don't love god, because I do, or that I would every consider cheating on someone at all.
I guess I have this fear that I'll be in a relationship with someone, they find out (I'm not going to lie about it, if you can't share your struggles with someone you probably shouldn't marry them and thats the point of dating for me, find someone to marry, though obviously you would be pretty far into a relationship to share that kind of stuff), that when they find out they will act disgusted or break up with me right there. I wouldn't really blame them, I don't know if I would want to date someone who had a problem with alcohol or drugs or lying or whatever. Or even more worrysome is that I would be in a relationship with someone who saw nothing wrong with it at all, or didn't think it was a big deal.
I just am curious, I'm always going to struggle with this, so I wondered if that completely ruled me out of many christan womens minds.
Please gentle, but honest with me.
I'm a 21 year old guy, Ive struggled with inappropriate content addiction all my life, honestly I never expect to be "free" of it, I hope that one day I will have managed to live a life without it, but realistically temptation is always going to be there and I will fail, because I am human. Hopefully through the power of god one day I will be able to go long periods of time without looking at it, but I fear the draw is always going to be there. That doesn't mean I want to have sex before I'm married, I'm dead set on waiting no mater what, or that I don't love god, because I do, or that I would every consider cheating on someone at all.
I guess I have this fear that I'll be in a relationship with someone, they find out (I'm not going to lie about it, if you can't share your struggles with someone you probably shouldn't marry them and thats the point of dating for me, find someone to marry, though obviously you would be pretty far into a relationship to share that kind of stuff), that when they find out they will act disgusted or break up with me right there. I wouldn't really blame them, I don't know if I would want to date someone who had a problem with alcohol or drugs or lying or whatever. Or even more worrysome is that I would be in a relationship with someone who saw nothing wrong with it at all, or didn't think it was a big deal.
I just am curious, I'm always going to struggle with this, so I wondered if that completely ruled me out of many christan womens minds.
Please gentle, but honest with me.