Godisgood12 said:
Is it cause of the Ma Sons part? Or is it a man thing only?
It's a fraternity, a brotherhood which views itself as a place for men to congregate and learn its principles. Thus it limits itself to men.
I've been flashed rings at certain times. Is that some sort of secret language? ... If I am a mason, what would a ring flash mean to me?
Masons often wear rings to advertise their membership. Military academy grads do the same, and are often referred to as 'ring-knockers' due to their perceived practice of calling attention to their schools.
For a Mason, any notice of his ring would most likely lead to him determining if the person noticing it is another Mason. He could find out by a variety of ways, but a popular one is asking him: Have you done any traveling? The proper response would tell him what he wants to know.
If so, how come masons lie?
Because they are human. It's a generalized failing among all of us, and one that requires constant attention on our parts to avoid.
Where do I draw the line between, pretending to be special and actually being special?
Why would you want to be? And in whose eyes? Years ago, 'special' was seen as a good thing; today, it often refers to a mental condition that implies intellectual deficiency. How you view yourself is a key consideration. Can you see yourself honestly? Can you see where you need improvement and see what you can do about it? Can you see where your actions are leading you into trouble, and change those actions?
I think the average Mason sees himself as special, in the positive sense, because his fraternity has told them that he is. I've noted elsewhere that I think the Mason is a cross between a parrot and a peacock, with the latter caused by his overwhelming, and unfounded, pride in being a Mason. It's part of the mystique, so to speak, of Masonry.
A Christian does not see himself as 'special' in the secular world; rather, he sees himself as a sinner who has been saved, and as one who is not left to his own devices, but now following God's lead in what to do with his life.
Is a 33rd degree mason the highest or is there a higher degree unspoken of?
Supposedly a Master Mason is the highest degree, but the Scottish and York Rites both have higher degrees which build upon Blue Lodge Masonry. The Scottish Rite (Southern Jurisdiction) for example, identifies the 32nd degree as the Sublime Prince of the Royal Secret. One assumes he now knows more than a Master Mason. Such a man would be seen as holding a higher degree in SR Masonry, but not in Blue Lodge Masonry, as he remains a Master Mason. It suppose the point here is that the concept is situational in a large sense.
Masonry, though, is a very authoritarian society. To a large degree, Masons sort themselves out by their accomplishments, usually along the lines of memberships they belong to and offices they hold/have held. In any Masonic fora, you'll see the man's signature section loaded up with his credentials, much like an academic would do. The more he lists, the greater his status, one assumes, based on his Masonic accomplishments.
In the Blue Lodge, a Worshipful Master carries far more authority than does the Master Masons in his lodge. As he is elected by that membership, he executes his authority much as our elected representatives do, or should do. Any Past Master would therefore be seen as 'more worthy' than another Mason due to the fact that he had held the WM office. The same would hold true with a Grand Master. But in a sense, they're still just Master Masons, though I believe their accomplishments would entitle them to more respect and deference from the other Masons.
A 33rd degree comes in the Scottish Rite, and is by invitation only. To other Scottish Rite Masons, it is more a mark of accomplishments than that of authority, in that a man must have devoted much attention to the SR to be selected. Either that or have friends in high places. Cordially, Skip.