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How we say things, or write them, can violate a basic premise of Torah - that we should love others as we love ourselves.![]()
HI Tish,
I say there is nothing wrong with the rules, and that the sub-forums are already in place to make concessions for the "problems" pointed out by the two who are complaining.
I think that the history of this forum has always been one of making concessions for the varying positions on MJism, and therefore the complaints we are seeing is really just a lack of compliance with those concessions.
Tal is basically making his points based on his own religious ideals- but we have a sub-forum that is perfect for him already. I think he has been judgmental on others here and this was never meant to be a place where conversation and opinion was to be dominated by one or two people judging all others, as if they had some kind of authority at all.
There are other forums that these would-be judges of the brethren would not be tolerated at all. There are others where they already post and are tolerated.
My solution is this:
- There are already sub-forums for those who believe they are more "observant" than others. People who wish to discuss this kind of thing or be encouraged in their walk towards that should merely post there. This is not difficult.
- Don't change the rules at all- just encourage 1) tolerance and 2) posting in the appropriate sub-forums. Enforce the breaches of the rules already in place and all will be well.
- If people find that the Christian Forums MJ forum is too lax for them, then they ought to consider whether or not they are suited to it. Rather than force everyone else to make even more concessions for the few, perhaps it's just not the right place for the kind of doctrinal tyranny they are standing for.
The concessions have already been made. The forums are in place. Why all the shouting and crying?
My solution is this:
- There are already sub-forums for those who believe they are more "observant" than others. People who wish to discuss this kind of thing or be encouraged in their walk towards that should merely post there. This is not difficult.
- Don't change the rules at all- just encourage 1) tolerance and 2) posting in the appropriate sub-forums. Enforce the breaches of the rules already in place and all will be well.
- If people find that the Christian Forums MJ forum is too lax for them, then they ought to consider whether or not they are suited to it. Rather than force everyone else to make even more concessions for the few, perhaps it's just not the right place for the kind of doctrinal tyranny they are standing for.
The concessions have already been made. The forums are in place. Why all the shouting and crying?
Seeing that many wish to make the topic about Torah observance - a tenet of Messianic Judaism IN THIS FORUM AND BY THIS SOP - I think part of the solution in the larger sense is making plain that the SoP/Torah Observance is to be enforced within the larger framework of Christianity - as CF (Christian Forums) was originally set up to be about. People bring up the issue of icons/claiming that others are somehow "violating them" or not being allowed to share their thoughts if and when it disagrees with their views on observance of Torah.My solution is this:
- There are already sub-forums for those who believe they are more "observant" than others. People who wish to discuss this kind of thing or be encouraged in their walk towards that should merely post there. This is not difficult.
- Don't change the rules at all- just encourage 1) tolerance and 2) posting in the appropriate sub-forums. Enforce the breaches of the rules already in place and all will be well.
- If people find that the Christian Forums MJ forum is too lax for them, then they ought to consider whether or not they are suited to it. Rather than force everyone else to make even more concessions for the few, perhaps it's just not the right place for the kind of doctrinal tyranny they are standing for.
Wrong... I believe it is against the rules for you to judge my Torah observance.But: (1) You are not Torah observant and (2) your beliefs in most matters are very Protestant Christian. You're exactly the type of person he's writing about.
Indeed.It's just absurd.
Good point.Our we straining a gnat but swallowing a camel?
Easy G (G²);62088768 said:
I'd say I'm with the second group as well as others who've already shared- not against Torah Observance (i.e. Celebrating Festivals, Shabbat/Sabbath being enjoyed, studying Jewish culture, seeing the Laws/Commands Christ called for and that the early Jewish community walked in, etc.) - but at the same time, understanding like many mainstream/founding groups of Messianic Judaism have noted that the Messianic Judaic movement was never meant to either be seperate from Christiantiy or in competition with it - or DENOUCNING/Deriding it and all who are Christians. I am in agreement with the Messianic Jewish groups talking on focusing on the Grace of God when it comes to Torah Observance/all on a differing level of journey and not waging war with the Church as if it's godly.....or allowing Anti-Christian ideology to be allowed as if it's Jewish since it's not and other leaders in Messianic Judaism have noted it.
There were multiple forums made/time and effort given to allow for diverse thought to occur - be it the Bridge Builders Forum or the All Things Torah - and the main one all post in was for fellowship/answering questions - regardless of whether or not all agree. That hasn't been done since all giving differing answers from their differing experiences often get at each other's throats - and it is said both here/elsewhere that Christianity is the problem/not to be promoted for those who are Messianics. That doesn't line up with what most Messianic Jews have noted and it's something that many in Jewish culture have been turned off by. Moreover, it doesn't line up with CF - and that's something that can be problematic.
I think it can be solved if others learn to get along - not by constantly telling others they're not "observant" enough on the boards - but by learning to disagree agreeably when seeing that there is diversity. I also think it can be solved when others aren't allowed to say things and the mods are effective in keeping others (more so from GT) from coming in/denouncing all things in Messianic Judaism or saying all things with Torah are pointless.
I think it can also be seriously solved by doing what is done on all other forums and seriously shutting down talks that basically say Christians are the enemies and that the Church doesn't serve the Jewish Messiah or that Christianity is a problem since that is something Messianic Jews have noted to be problematic - and it puts us at odds with the mission of CF in what they ask for site wide. Unless it is the case that the Messianic Judaism forum is something that is going to be exclusively be allowed to be blantantly against Christianity. Messianic Jews and Messianic Gentiles are Christians and that shouldn't be discouraged or belittled.
Well, alright then. I'm of the first group. When we were hashing out examples with you and came up with the "different levels of Torah observance" it was taken for granted that all were observant to a degree.
Example: Biblically kosher, fully Rabbinically kosher, or somewhere in-between those two - BUT kosher to some degree.
We were not saying that those who love to chomp down on ham sandwiches were not welcome in here, just that this is not part of Torah-observance and should not be taught in here. There's a whole slew of congregational and faith areas these people can teach this, leave this one Torah observant.
There are other things but right now I'm having trouble thinking of the wording to use, so I'll wait for a bit.....![]()
Easy G (G²);62088842 said:It really goes back to what was noted before with discussing the things that are appropriate for the forums. If others feel that eating something like shellfish is totallyg against what the Lord says, they can post more so in the "All Things Torah" forum with others who have the same mindset - but they should not be allowed to denoucne other Messianics/Jewish leaders in the Messianic organizations (i.e. MJAA, UMJC, IMJA, Tikkun, Ariel Ministries, First Fruits of Zion, etc.) that note that there are differences of opinion on what the food laws are for, when they apply and what the scriptures say for Messianics in Acts 15. There has always been historical discussion/debate amongst Jewish culture since the days of Christ when it comes to interpretation - and that is something that has to be honored, IMHO, if we're to honor who Yeshua is ...and what the apostles stood for.
They didn't wage war against the Church - nor did they wage war on Christians (seeing that they were also called such according to I Peter 4 and Acts 11) and it doesn't honor them for the same to be allowed so in the name of "observance of Torah."
If others feel that someone's too strict because they feel all Messianic believers should attend synagouge on Sabbath - whereas some feel (in their own study) that one should simply stay home and rest - and both are able to back it up/living out what they see from the scriptures - there can a simple recognition of differences and simply realizing what is. Don't allow others to say what can be demeaning to Jewish believers when saying "You're just Christian" or saying "True Observant Messianics don't do as Christians did" since that's not what most Messianics hold to anyhow - even though they differ from mainstream Christianity on multiple points. That would honor other Jewish believers in Messianic Judaism who have noted such authoratively for ages and keep us in line with the heart of Christian Forums.
In another example, if someone in their journey truly feels that they must wear a talit during service or a head covering, there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that and letting them agree with others who do so. Those who do not should not tell those people that they're just "legalists" for doing so - or that they need to not do that. For that's what they do in their own Messianic Jewish fellowship.
In the event that there's disagreement, just as the SoP notes, people can choose to simply walk away and agree to disagree agreeably - but there shouldn't be bickering or commentary allowed that attempts to insinuate others not agreeing them are not observing Torah/loving God's Law and studying it. That wouldn't be consistent with what is taught overall in Messianic Judaism as it is...and such cases have occurred before where others disagreed and things went well because they simply knew how to talk to one another.
Fellowship threads have been made multiple times in the fellowship forum and others have often enjoyed participation on it since it gives common ground - and that is something that makes a difference. If necessary, there's also the option of what was voted on long ago when it came to a variety of icons to identify others - such as what was discussed in the thread where a solution was reached.
Just a note and please let me know if I heard both groups correctly ......
Ez you don't like it when folks bash Christians in MJ right?
and assuming others in your group agree lemme ask the first group if they feel they are doing that?
And another question for the first group... Did I hear you all correctly that you don't like the anti Torah teaching coming from some Christians specifically? Or Does Ez have it correct that you also don't like Christians in general?
This is a great place to be specific so when you say Torah observance on many levels , that is fine and you would just like there to be "some" observance in common did i hear you right? that it doesn't have to be to a certain level to be accepted right?
And what about those who have no level? Just don't teach against it? Did I hear that correctly?
Is there such a thing as kind of pregnant? Nope, you either are or you are not. You may be just 1 week pregnant or ready to deliver - either way, you is pregnant. But like I said before, I couldn't care less how observant one is or isn't, it just shouldn't be allowed to teach in MJ that observing Torah is not necessary in the walk of a Messianic. How many other forums are there here in CF where that teaching is not only allowed but applauded? Let this one be TO through and through, please! And the very basics of MJ is a kosher lifestyle, honoring and guarding the Shabbat, observing the feast days as best we know how - more than that will come as each person grows in Messiah.
Dislike Christians? Anyone who would like to throw that off on me or some others on this forum would be nothing less than a liar, and a very bad one at that! I do not dislike Christians, I don't think anyone else here does either. That's just downright insulting that someone would try to give you that impression! I freely admit that I dislike what I call churchianity but that has nothing to do with how I feel about the people.
Not true at all you're comparing apples to oranges. The fact is believers are suppose to exemplify love of God and neighbor. I heard Tim Hegg say unquote ' I know people who keep more Torah than those that keep the Sabbath, wear tzizit and keep kosher...'
So TRUE. Yeshua issue was that the teachers of the law were dragging people to hell. Yeshua even said to obey those that sit in Moses Seat yet he said the teachers of the law were dragging their students to hell. Why?
I don't like it when people bash Christians too. I have more often than not most people who associate themselves with being Messianic bash Christians. Notice I didn't say Messianic Jews. The likes of the MJAA don't bash Christians, in fact they have close relationships with many churches and organizations. I find that's it's almost 100% non Jewish Messianic who bash Christians because there is resentment.
So there is kind of pregnant too, I suppose?
Never mind.
You guys do what you want. It's not worth the headache.
While I agree with your factual observations, I would have to take exception to you ascription of motivation.
I started as a Christian, and a rather zealous one, at that. The closer I drew to Jews and Judaism, the more I perceived that their were fundamental assumptions in Christianity that worked contrary to that movement--ideas that needed to be unlearned.
It was R. Kendall Soulen's book, "The God of Israel and Christian Theology", that finally demonstrated to me that the whole of Christian theology is founded upon supercessionism.
My theological emphasis is not driven by anti-Church motives, but by pro-Israel feelings. The recognition that the Bible is only and entirely about the Israeli empire, rather than a non-Israel Gentile community we call "the Church", is key to developing a consistent Bible-based theology.