We Baptist may have more feelings about this that other Dnominations. I do have a strong feeling about it but would like to hear your feelings.
Let me give you the example I experienced personally. A good friend married just prior to being drafted into the Viet Nam War. When he came home he found his wife had left him for another man and was carrying the other man's child. No manner of pesuasion could get his wife to return to the marriage. They had a simple ,what we call, a nofault divorce. My friend continued with life, becoming a very active Christian, working His days off with a Ministry for Prisoners and their families that he felt led to organize. He worked alone for a few years many times being of greater help to grieving famly members at times than he was to prisoners. He never missed vistng a jail or prison at least one day a week. Some time during all this he met a good Christian Lady and they married with the encouragement and good wishes of his local Church, which hepled support his Ministry.
I entered the picture with a gspel singing group that visited one of the correctional centers that he did, I also was head of the my Churches Missions and funds for Missionaries . To get through this quickly, I ask that my friend be accept as a Misionary to prisoners and all ageed. Hard imes hit the Curch and we had to drop the prison ministry and a few others but with the undersanding that they would be returned in the order they were dropped when out finances got better, they did and my friends turn came to be picked up by the Church again, having a new Pastor at the time he demanded my friend not be funded because he had been divorced and he had been named as Pastor of a small Church he re-opened for those prisoners and familys that didn't atend Church anywhere else. He hadn't been ordained,he didn't consider himself a Pastor but he lost our funding because he had been called a Pastor. His home Church even dropped him and about the same time I gave up my position and left my Church. as my friend wrong, was I wrong? I can'tget spell check so forgive any type 0's.
Let me give you the example I experienced personally. A good friend married just prior to being drafted into the Viet Nam War. When he came home he found his wife had left him for another man and was carrying the other man's child. No manner of pesuasion could get his wife to return to the marriage. They had a simple ,what we call, a nofault divorce. My friend continued with life, becoming a very active Christian, working His days off with a Ministry for Prisoners and their families that he felt led to organize. He worked alone for a few years many times being of greater help to grieving famly members at times than he was to prisoners. He never missed vistng a jail or prison at least one day a week. Some time during all this he met a good Christian Lady and they married with the encouragement and good wishes of his local Church, which hepled support his Ministry.
I entered the picture with a gspel singing group that visited one of the correctional centers that he did, I also was head of the my Churches Missions and funds for Missionaries . To get through this quickly, I ask that my friend be accept as a Misionary to prisoners and all ageed. Hard imes hit the Curch and we had to drop the prison ministry and a few others but with the undersanding that they would be returned in the order they were dropped when out finances got better, they did and my friends turn came to be picked up by the Church again, having a new Pastor at the time he demanded my friend not be funded because he had been divorced and he had been named as Pastor of a small Church he re-opened for those prisoners and familys that didn't atend Church anywhere else. He hadn't been ordained,he didn't consider himself a Pastor but he lost our funding because he had been called a Pastor. His home Church even dropped him and about the same time I gave up my position and left my Church. as my friend wrong, was I wrong? I can'tget spell check so forgive any type 0's.