I hate to reopen the whole 'atheists and christians have the wrong impression of each other' debate, but something my friend said a while ago bothered me greatly and I wanted some feedback.
So my friend and I was walking through the mall randomly hitting on any subject from anime to world events, when my being an atheist was brought up. It was a passing comment on my part, but it made her bring up that her pastor had just done a sermon on atheism and that the cause was bad experiences with christians or exposure to hypocritical christians that turned us away from our faith.
I wasn't expected it.
I just told her that her pastor might believe that, but that it wasn't acurate. Atheists are people and like everything else are varied in reasons and motives. She just shrugged her shoulders and let the subject drop and we moved on to next topic, I may have convinced her but I'm not sure.
It wasn't untill later that I realized how bothered I was by that sermon. It was in a way unintentional insulting (not that I hold that against my friend). It would require you to immediatly assume someone was at a point Christian, then assume they need an emotionally charged reason to turn away from their faith, rather than coming to the conclusion that there is just not enough evidence to back the claim.
My father is the only atheist I really know, and he never talks about religion(or much of anything really). I have been surround by very good religious people that have excelled in life and are most christian's ideal(from mormons to methodists, penecostals to catholics). I have seen a chruch rise to an occasion during a disastor and bring a small town much needed aid. I've played at a chruch with church kids and enjoyed many activities there and done church community service.
And it still isn't enough to believe, it irrelevent to the issue of belief even.
So anyones thoughts on this topic are appreciated. Sorry to be so long winded but this has been under my skin for awhile. Should emotional reasons be the deciding factor in defining reality?
So my friend and I was walking through the mall randomly hitting on any subject from anime to world events, when my being an atheist was brought up. It was a passing comment on my part, but it made her bring up that her pastor had just done a sermon on atheism and that the cause was bad experiences with christians or exposure to hypocritical christians that turned us away from our faith.
I wasn't expected it.
I just told her that her pastor might believe that, but that it wasn't acurate. Atheists are people and like everything else are varied in reasons and motives. She just shrugged her shoulders and let the subject drop and we moved on to next topic, I may have convinced her but I'm not sure.
It wasn't untill later that I realized how bothered I was by that sermon. It was in a way unintentional insulting (not that I hold that against my friend). It would require you to immediatly assume someone was at a point Christian, then assume they need an emotionally charged reason to turn away from their faith, rather than coming to the conclusion that there is just not enough evidence to back the claim.
My father is the only atheist I really know, and he never talks about religion(or much of anything really). I have been surround by very good religious people that have excelled in life and are most christian's ideal(from mormons to methodists, penecostals to catholics). I have seen a chruch rise to an occasion during a disastor and bring a small town much needed aid. I've played at a chruch with church kids and enjoyed many activities there and done church community service.
And it still isn't enough to believe, it irrelevent to the issue of belief even.
So anyones thoughts on this topic are appreciated. Sorry to be so long winded but this has been under my skin for awhile. Should emotional reasons be the deciding factor in defining reality?