You are contradicting yourself by saying the hijab made out of silk is for prostitutes... Then you admit that it is not such a good "method" against either prostitution or agaisnt adultery... so its usage is moot... either way... How can it make a woman modest if a silk one proves to make her a prostitute? Then I was right all along that it does not matter... A woman dressed modesty would be better yet than a woman with a "fancy" hijab...It can be made of silk for the ones who cares about materials but not spirits. A prostitute can wear Hijab and walk on streets trying to fish for men and money, taking Islam as a protection. She can trick people but she can't trick the Almighty. But people will still look at her as a very religious woman.
A respectable woman can walk without Hijab and she can wear decent clothes also but in her way she will encourage men to look at her and she will be in prostitution, seduction business without being involved in a relationship.
But what if we take the Hijab and let a respectable woman wear it. Won't the image of perfection is complete, pure and decent from inside and outside.
And you keep on taking us back to the starting point.
What's inside reflects on the outside. Inside belongs to the Almighty and outside is the humans way to judge you.
Freedom is to move and to act without stepping into someone's property.
Hijab means to wear it around your neck and to cover your ears and hair with.
No showy parts of the breast, no short sleeves, no tight shirts or dresses to show the details of your body, no tight jeans and short T.Shirts, no belly showing, no shorts, no micro skirts, no short skirts.
And all the above you can wear with limitations infront of your family and your friends ( girls) and you have no limits with what you wear infront of your husband.
This point lead us to talk about men. It is not only the woman who is asked to be decent and pure while men are free to do whatever they want. They are also asked to treat the woman with respect but not with a big question in the mind which is what will happen after talking to her?
A decent woman can't walk properly if men are staring at her. A decent woman will be embarrassed if men are saying words that describe the woman's beauty which is an impolite action to be done.
Beautiful women and the attractive ones know themselves and don't need reminders.
Just save your energy for your future wives.
This has to do with following a plan that you may not understand or you may feel it is not necessary with no extra explanations to you. Be humble and obey the Creator's commands.
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And no one want that experience to go through.
No one enters the Heaven with a pepper size of Vain in his/her heart.
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My God does not "obligate" me... So leave Him out of it... You just admit to that fancy hijab can be as vain...so point is moot. Your curses sound pretty much moot as they do not relate to what you believe... or rather trying to apply Mulsim standards about the usage of hijab to me... That is not going to persuade me that hijab is ok to be obligatory.
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Otherwise, we don't need teachers, doctors, granparents, lawyers...etc to ask them for an advise. Hijab is a Holy advise. And Holy means not mistaken and the danger it is warning you from is beyond your imagination.
"holy advice"? why God did not tell that to Adam and Eve or even Moses? he waited until 6th century AD to tell your prophet....strange you do not wonder why?
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Religion should not 'fence you in" actually religion should 'bring you out' not to be "afraid of others and suspicious of others" quite the opposite.The reason we have walls should be against heat and cold and the elements. We need no walls if we are truly humans and we use our logic not to harm others.
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Jungle men are the ones who go around with very little and most they do not. Topless men...really why God is not "upset" with men who are topless?? why in Islam i see topless men and women in hijab? why God would be so one sided? Bikini and head scarf....hmmm... that is a very interesting thought... I wonder if mulsim women are allowed to go to the beach... Can men control themselves around those women? or they blame it on the hijab and they become like animals? Man can go to the beach ...but women cannot?Then why do people wear clothes? If it is only to protect their private parts then let them be just like the jungle men and put big leaves on their private parts and that's it.
You wear clothes to cover your body. Then why a topless man regarded as an impolite man?
Why wearing very short skirts is regarded impolite?
Do you think theat the Almighty doesn't know that there will be times when women will wear such undecent clothes?
But He gave you the command to the part ( the head ) to cover and of course you will match the head cover with decent clothes. Because it is not acceptable to walk with bikini and a head scarf.
The Almighty gives us headlines and we should of be able to understand what's the good thing to do and how to interpret those commands.
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what else? Giving up hijab for the sake of "seeing" and "walking" normal without fear of falling down it someone trips.... that is all. Women can voluntarily wear head scarf but...to enforce it is not a piety symbol as it is obligatory. I think that the more the women will be given a choice the best it will be for the people who are not Muslim to understand islam.... as their first question about Islam is its laws and prohibitions its legalism...So.... you are protecting yourself with the hijab as so that men will not be that? ARe men wild animals? I think not...
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Would you please switch your attention to my words and read the article as one piece because you will be lost if you keep on picking sentences to understand them the way you like. When I brought the example of animals as what we take them as brainless creatures, they know more than humans and they have a natural protection to them although they walk with same kind animals. The protection I am talking about is not only the men with negative thinking toward women, but I am talking about what else we will give up after Hijab?
wow ....what a generalization!!!! the hijab does not persuade a woman not to become a prostitute since there are prostitutes who wear them.......but the ones who do not wear it they are all that?Women who decided to give up Hijab are single moms, their daughters are pregnant illegaly, they live with their boyfriends as a husnband and a wife, some of them have abnormal relations even with animals? What else do you want us to give up after Hijab? Forbidden Videos are made of forbidden relationships for everyone to watch by the ones who don't wear Hijab. What else do you want us to give up after Hijab? Night clubs for naked people were built. Night clubs for stripteasers were built. Is that the freedom you are talking about? The Freedom of disease and sickness?
You blame us for being so decent with Hijab and so uncivilized by not opening such places for everyone to go to and then new big hospitals are built to cure the mistakes of freedom. Billions of doctors work in laboratories to cure the results of your sins.
Now you quoque with the "hospitals"... You already admitted that the hijab does not make a "desent" woman and that women can be as bad and wear hijabs... Now you go back again to "defend" the hijab as the salvation of all ills... How come you have crimes then...esp. family crimes and prostitution etc... if hijab is the cure??
Hijab is a sing of chastity for women and also a sign of slavery... for them as they abide to that custom not out of their own free will but the will of men... ********************Is that the aim of life? To live to have pleasures and to get sick and die.
What a nice dream for a narrow minded people.
Hijab is a sign for chastity, I lived a clean life and I will die pure. In the Creator's will- Insha' Allah.
I am not taught that the world is my enemy... I am told that I came to love the world and my fellow man not to look upon them with suspicion.
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You are taught to fall in love with every cute man you see with no limits.
You are taught to not drink alcohol until you reach 21.
You are taught that virgin girls are stupid and the girls who have more than one relationship are clever ones.
Your knowledghe is the knowledge of Desires that won't be full and will always seek for more. Your knowledge is the knowledge of ( How to Go to Hell?).
Because Hell out of anger asked the Almighty to fill it with sinners and can't get enough till the Almighty put His foot in it to enjoy torturing the sinners.
This knowledge just took you to the extreme. Churchs are built for girls to marry girls and boys to marry boys. Is that a Holy knowledge?
Why decent clothed buisness woman go to work and have forbidden relations in the bathrooms?
Did the decent clothes stopped them from being sinners.
It is the belief and nothing but the FAITH which will make you obey everything the Creator asks you to do without questioning.
You all lived you lives and enjoyed every second in it but this joy you had will be a forward price you payed to not have the after life joy unless the Almighty forgives you after stopping all the bad deeds and starting a new clean life.
Your "you"s are very inflamatory and I would recomend you refrain to be personal here.... My personal life has nothing to be spoken off but again that is like you.....To attack personally so that you discredit the person you converse with.... How typical ....hmmmm...
All the ills you describe about Chritians are your last try to defend Islam by accusing Christianity... go on... as whatever you say is not any significance to the topic.
Christianity has nothing to do with you defending the hijab as you have in your society as many ills... Did hijab helped with your prostitution? NO
did it help with family cirme? NO
Did it help with adultery ? No
no need to go on... Human nature does not chage because of hijab. It is rather better to "teach" men to control their instincts from a young age to respect someone's private life and space than to "cover" the women....
That is totally Off topic another attack on my life...I can see that you have a sense of humor but I can't laugh because the situation is more serious than any can ever imagine.
When the Almighty is angry, no one will do anything more than what have been done.
And I also can see that your only concern is life. How to live, how to enjoy life, how to be happy, how to keep everything you want, but a very simple thing to do you are not ready to do for the Sake of the Almighty.
Then maybe you need more disasters in your life to learn.
No.... I can only see some fanatical statements and denial to see how the rest of the world sees Islam... i do not blame you though as you have no choice but to defend it... by doing so though you have to realize you perpetuate a wolrld of oppression for women who are told to wear burcas and they live a life of that of an animal seeing the world through a cloth.... how fair is that?Blessed people are the ones who obey without questioning and cursed ones can't get the devil out of their minds and he speaks in their behalf.
Well, if the helmet is my Hijab then this means that I am driving a dangerous vehicle on a road that is not gauranteed to be safe.
Can't you see the similarities?
Oppression of women is old their liberation from oppression is new... You got things mixed up here....I am not that sort... of woman. I do believe in equality but not in movements. So then again you are judging me too...So, we are back to the point of Prejudice idea of tell me what you wear and I will judge you. If I speak then it is me, my personality, my faith, my knowledge , my wit speak but not my 2008 Hebbie Hijab.
Your ideas are so old. And they are held by the women who are fighting for their rights and reached nowhere because they are trying hard to copy men. And there is a big huge difference between them. But those kinds of women can't see it.
I am not a "westerner" I am also a Greek and consider myself traditional.
The last ones to call for woman rights are the religious Christian ladies, nuns, religious Jewish ladies and real Muslim ladies.
Would you please tell me why?
Or poor ladies, they don't know what's good for them.
Oh, they are so pathatic. Let us let them take off their veil and Hijab to let them be free.
Let them tie their hair up and fly into the sky with their helicopter bony tails. Let them be free.
To Be Continued. In the Almighty's will.
Because "women's lib" as movement has nothing to do with women in the society (now someone will come and dispute this for sure...but ah...whaterver) We, women who are not of that movement can be also advocates of women's equal treatment... You do not have to be a feminist to advocate humane ways of treating women in a global sense...
No nothing about the hair etc... it is about dignity...![]()
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