RT is a form of legalism that robs God of his compassion for the lost. Scripture says the Kingdom of God is at hand, indicating the opportunity for salvation is available. RT nullifies this, with the traditions of men making the statement to no effect (legalism) and since according to RT God has provided no avenue of mercy for the lost, the doctrines rob God of His compassion for the lost, rather it is a "what ever will be, will be" doctrine.
More insulting, demeaning statements about Reformed Theology, made with no thought of how it will be received. Then there is the fact that RT, as Van states it, bears little if any resemblance to the actual doctrines. He accuses RT of legalism, with no corroboration. He accuses RT of nullifying the Gospel, again with no corroboration. These are serious charges, and to make them with no proof, no support other than "Van says so" is irresponsible, and should be viewed as nothing more than trying to put Reformed Believers on the defensive, to sidetrack the discussion.
Van said:
Yet another ad homenim argument, Van is condescending, a whiner and on and on. Folks, ad homenims disparage the person offering a differing view of Soteriology in an effort to discredit his or her position. The argument is a logical fallacy.
Van seems to be unwilling to examine his own methods, or his own delivery, and tries to justify himself by claiming that any rebuke of his sharp, insulting, and disparaging words are an ad hominem attack on him. Van apparently believes that the end justifies the means, so saying insulting things about RT, insulting RT believers and accusing them of dishonesty, deception, and the like are OK, because in his mind those things further his desire to shout down any mention of Reformed Theology.
Folks, do you notice that in the multiple times I have pleaded with him to tone down his rhetoric, stop the insults, stop the accusations, he has never once acknowledged that he has even considered that perhaps I might have a legitimate issue with these things, or offered an apology, even half-hearted, for offending anyone? Instead, he justifies his behavior as being "necessary", and believes that he is being "unfairly" criticised for defending Truth, as he sees it.
Van said:
At the end of the day, Reformed Theology is a mistaken view of scripture in my view.
At least he adds the words "in my view". That's a start, although we already knew that. How could we not?
Van said:
Many students of the Bible agree with this assessment, although very few, if any agree with all of my positions.
An empty statement, built on the logical fallacy of "ad populum", followed by an acknowledgement that he is pretty much alone in some of his views. Funny how he doesn't see that as a "Red Flag"
Van said:
Study the Bible, study the verses and passages that do not mesh with RT, such as 1 John 2:2 and the RT claim that Christ died only for the church. Or Matthew 13:20-22 and the RT claim the unregenerate are unable to seek God or understand the gospel, or receive it. And Matthew 23:13 and the RT claim that in order to be seeking God and entering the path that leads to life, a person must have been altered by irresistible grace. Note these folks were entering, yet they were turned away by false doctrines.
Van said:
Or James 2:5, and the doctrine that God does not choose folks based on their characteristics.
If you approach studying the scriptures with the bias that you're looking for scriptures which don't support RT, you're not studying the scriptures with a heart open to learn from God. Too many people spend their time looking for "proof texts" to support a position they've already decided is true, based upon faulty reasoning, and the doctrines of men.
Van said:
I love my brothers and sisters who have accepted the doctrines of RT,
I'm sorry Van, but I don't believe it, based on the insulting and dismissive way you've treated Reformed Believers in these forums. Your words do not line up with your actions. I have asked you, pleaded with you, to show some respect for the beliefs of others, and to not insult them as you have Reformed Believers, and I see less respect shown to us than you have shown to KCDAD in another forum, who doesn't believe the Bible is reliable or trustworthy, and has accused us of holding the Bible to a higher standard than we hold God, which I'm sure you agree is a thoughtless charge.
So, at the end of the day, your actions speak far louder than your words.
Van said:
but I humbly submit that the doctrines hinder the ministry of Christ.
This flies in the face of the documented fact that the most successful evangelisitic ministries are Reformed, and/or Calvinist. The Reformed churches are very focused on evangelism, in reaching the lost with the Gospel, which is the mandate that Christ gave His Church. To make the ridiculous charge that Reformed Theology hinders and discourages evangelism is not borne out by the facts.
Van said:
I understand the model of meekness, that I must be willing to take shots and not return fire, to do unto others as I would have them do unto me, and so I post the truth as God has given me the light to see the truth, with no malace or pettiness, just a heart-felt desire to build up my brothers and sisters in their knowledge of the truth so they can be effective Ambassadors of Christ.
And you short-circuit any possibility of that by making false accusations of deception, dishonety, and insults against Reformed Believers and Reformed Theology, which is tantamount to trying to demand, to force people to accept your view.
Van, you must face the facts that you have insulted Reformed Believers in these forums, disparaged their beliefs rather than discussing the actual doctrines and debating in an honorable and respectful manner. You must face the fact that no matter your intentions, you have caused anger, strife, and needless argumentation, with the way you have tried to frame the argument by insulting, demeaning, accusing Reformed Believers of deception, dishonesty, and false witness, and making declarations with no support that RT is false doctrine, a mistaken view of scripture, etc. You say you love the brethren, but your actions do not support that claim. Your responses to me as I bring up these issues is ample proof of that.
I am a Reformed Believer, and you have insulted me, falsely accused me of dishonesty, deception, and bearing false witness. I am asking you to acknowledge that you have acted and spoken without thought as to how it would be received, and to apologize to the Reformed Brethren in these forums for the harsh and disrespectful words you have posted, and for the anger and frustration and strife you have caused, inadvertently or not. Acknowledge that you have not built up the Brethren, but rather have tried to tear them down, and tear their beliefs down. Acknowledge that you have not treated them as Christ would, and commit to not acting in that way any longer.
I will admit that I have lashed out in anger at you, frustrated by your attitude and your harsh words. I acknowledge that I was wrong to do so, and I am trying to refrain from doing so. I apologize for any harm that has caused. We can disagree respectfully, and deal with the actual disagreements rather than trying to gain advantage over the other with harsh words, false accusations, and the like.
The ball is in your court, Van.