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I'm not being apathetic, I'm being practical. An investigation will not reveal the truth as to whether sexual misconduct occurred or not. The window of opportunity to make that happened was gone within 48 hours of the alleged misconduct. Further investigations into the allegations against Tommy however I think is warranted. The other to me is like a stinky pot of dung, the more you stir it the worse it stinks and we are not serving the Lord's interest in doing it. Danny is a high profile individual in our church you are right. However, 3abn is not the church and does not receive support directly from the SDA church. This scandal is, legally speaking , nothing to the church. It's a big mess and it is not going to be productive either way it goes.

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i must disagree. I think it is apathy and not practical . Danny does get support from the chruch. He also charges the church and influences Church policies and the electon of church officals. It is not fair to the rest of the SDA chruch and it's members to have a man who is that unaccountable to anyone representing everyone in the SDA church. I should not have to explian to people why danny shelton divorced his wife or be embarrased about it. it seem you are coming from a human legal stand point and that is ok, but we are to by god law. The allgetions are well documented. and the teh people have been vigliant about this. It take a long time to bring some one of Danny's stature to accountable situation. i cite Enron excutive. you tell me how doe it make God look good or the chruch tohave this going on? How is god glorifed by a man dismissing his wife with out any evidence and wittness to back it up and leaving her with out any means of support.
 
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i must disagree. I think it is apathy and not practical . Danny does get support from the chruch. He also charges the church and influences Church policies and the electon of church officals. It is not fair to the rest of the SDA chruch and it's members to have a man who is that unaccountable to anyone representing everyone in the SDA church. I should not have to explian to people why danny shelton divorced his wife or be embarrased about it. it seem you are coming from a human legal stand point and that is ok, but we are to by god law. The allgetions are well documented. and the teh people have been vigliant about this. It take a long time to bring some one of Danny's stature to accountable situation. i cite Enron excutive. you tell me how doe it make God look good or the chruch tohave this going on? How is god glorifed by a man dismissing his wife with out any evidence and wittness to back it up and leaving her with out any means of support.

I suppose you are uplifting the cause of the Lord by keeping this mess going on and on now, right? BTW, the last I heard 3abn was a separate entity from the church and did not receive direct support from the church so if I am wrong about this I will admit it , but please give us some documentation of that fact or else please quit making unsupported allegations.
 
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It depends on what you mean by direct.

A. They are not part of the church. They are a separate ministry/business.

B. They do however have an expressed relationship with the church, as I noted when I posted the state document above. The main part of that agreement is spelled out there.

C. They also show Adventist programming from official channels quite often. Therefore it is not really true to say they have no impact. It might be true to say the church has no authority to do anything. However, the agreement does spell out measures for dealing with conflict. I do not know if any of those have been done in this case.

D. They get money from many ministries that are funded by your offering dollars through the world budget. This is for air time. So no, it is not direct support. But it is support. The amount during the 2000/2001 period can be seen in the document. It is considerable.

E. Donors frequently send money to this ministry in order to promote the church's message. They want it to be the church's message.
 
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I suppose you are uplifting the cause of the Lord by keeping this mess going on and on now, right? BTW, the last I heard 3abn was a separate entity from the church and did not receive direct support from the church so if I am wrong about this I will admit it , but please give us some documentation of that fact or else please quit making unsupported allegations.
I guess you are right.... God is glorified by a man who promotes a pediaphile, sexual assults his step-daughter, Over charges the chruch, abused his step-son and then Dismisses his wife with out cause. Hey I want that Jesus. that is a Jesus I can be proud of. I want people know that. Hey join up you kind to might be molested and abused. and you to can abuse your wife to cover up your sin. Hey any takers. do I see any volenteers? who wants to join. "because Lawlessness shall increase the love of many will grown cold." lawlessness kill love.
 
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I guess you are right.... God is glorified by a man who promotes a pediaphile, sexual assults his step-daughter, Over charges the chruch, abused his step-son and then Dismisses his wife with out cause. Hey I want that Jesus. that is a Jesus I can be proud of. I want people know that. Hey join up you kind to might be molested and abused. and you to can abuse your wife to cover up your sin. Hey any takers. do I see any volenteers? who wants to join. "because Lawlessness shall increase the love of many will grown cold." lawlessness kill love.

Jesus said He that is without sin cast the first stone. Are you sinless icedragon101?
 
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You have obviously sided with Linda on these issues and have a prejudiced outlook. This becomes very obvious to the readers as well. The doctor would not tell the truth if an affair had occurred can't you see that? Likewise Linda wouldn't be telling the truth either. It seems everyone on your side of the arguement is so willing at this point to castigate Danny Shelton and call him a psyhcopath when no clear evidence has been given at all to support any of the allegations so far. What exactly do you hope to gain by all of this? Do you want to see 3ABN shut down? Is that it in a nut shell. If so then I think I can see who is really behind what is going on here.

Now with that said, I am in full agreement that if any criminal act on the part of Tommy can be shown to be true then charges need to be filed immediately and he needs to be removed from having anything to do with children at 3abn. As far as this other stink over the alleged affair of Linda and Danny's discourse with her I would say just drop it. This is something that the more you stir it up the worse it stinks and we are serving no one but the devil by doing it. The marriage is over with and nothing can change that. No one knows for sure who is really telling the truth but God and the participants in this mess. God will be the final judge but to go on and on and on with this is not doing the Christain thing.

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Danny is the one that remarried so quickly after divorcing Linda. It sounds like you just want it swept under the rug. Also, Danny is the one with resources and 'investors' with an interest in keeping him clear from accusations. If there is a bias it would tend to be a bias toward preserving Danny and the 3ABN organization instead of the truth being served.

And this is a seperate issue from Tommy and his major issues!
 
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Danny is the one that remarried so quickly after divorcing Linda. It sounds like you just want it swept under the rug. Also, Danny is the one with resources and 'investors' with an interest in keeping him clear from accusations. If there is a bias it would tend to be a bias toward preserving Danny and the 3ABN organization instead of the truth being served.

And this is a seperate issue from Tommy and his major issues!

I know that I have been witness so many times to things like this and it is a real mess. The truth is no one but the participants and God Himself really know what the truth is on this. If Linda did have an illicit affair then Danny was Biblically approved to divorce her. The reason I think this is what happened is that Danny was re-married by an SDA minister at 3abn. These guys are pious adventists in my opinion. If she didn't then Danny was wrong but the closeness of getting re-married after being divorced is no reason to castigate the man. For heaven's sake this has been going on for over 3 years. It's not like they just moved out from one another and then Danny got him another woman.

Either way this goes it's going to have a negative impact on God's work to spread the gospel and it could end 3abn altogether. Is that what you want Freeindeed? Not me, I know Danny is a sinner but we all are. God has given this ministry so many miracles to keep it going that it has to be supported by the Lord. There is no question about that. If Tommy Shelton is guilty of pedophilia then he needs to be out of there but this mess with Danny and Linda will not be resolved by any of what goes on here. Let those who will investigate it do there job , but in the mean time let's let this thing go for now.

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I know that I have been witness so many times to things like this and it is a real mess. The truth is no one but the participants and God Himself really know what the truth is on this. If Linda did have an illicit affair then Danny was Biblically approved to divorce her. The reason I think this is what happened is that Danny was re-married by an SDA minister at 3abn. These guys are pious adventists in my opinion. If she didn't then Danny was wrong but the closeness of getting re-married after being divorced is no reason to castigate the man. For heaven's sake this has been going on for over 3 years. It's not like they just moved out from one another and then Danny got him another woman.

Either way this goes it's going to have a negative impact on God's work to spread the gospel and it could end 3abn altogether. Is that what you want Freeindeed? Not me, I know Danny is a sinner but we all are. God has given this ministry so many miracles to keep it going that it has to be supported by the Lord. There is no question about that. If Tommy Shelton is guilty of pedophilia then he needs to be out of there but this mess with Danny and Linda will not be resolved by any of what goes on here. Let those who will investigate it do there job , but in the mean time let's let this thing go for now.

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People who live in the public's eye have public accountability with their actions. Those who have been supported by funds from a specific denomination MUST answer to the public of that denomination and others who receive their signal into their homes!

Why would you want it swept under the rug? That doesn not represent Christianity very well, and it doesn't represent SDAism well either. You're trying to say that us discussing it is of the Devil! But you fail to realize that the actions of those public figures may have been inspired by the same entity! God doesn't endorse divorce, nor does he endorse child molestation! It's wrong even though not prohibited by the 10C's!
 
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Jim Larmore said in a previous post, "The reason I think this is what happened is that Danny was re-married by an SDA minister at 3abn."

Does being married by an SDA minister determine Linda guilty and Danny innocent? If that is all you are basing your decision on, then you have missed the target. Linda Shelton has always maintained that she was never unfaithful to Danny Shelton. In her latest letter, she is now requesting that Danny Shelton and company produce their so-called evidence.
 
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People who live in the public's eye have public accountability with their actions. Those who have been supported by funds from a specific denomination MUST answer to the public of that denomination and others who receive their signal into their homes!

Accoutability yes, sacrosanctive crucifiction when you really don't know the actual facts in all of this, no.

Why would you want it swept under the rug?

I'm not saying to sweep it under the rug. I'm saying this discussion on this board is not serving to uplift the creator. Let those who will investigate do their job and then what will happen will happen.

That doesn not represent Christianity very well, and it doesn't represent SDAism well either. You're trying to say that us discussing it is of the Devil! But you fail to realize that the actions of those public figures may have been inspired by the same entity! God doesn't endorse divorce, nor does he endorse child molestation! It's wrong even though not prohibited by the 10C's!

He doesn't endorse a bunch of gossip either and if you don't know for sure all the facts in this that is all it is.

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Accoutability yes, sacrosanctive crucifiction when you really don't know the actual facts in all of this, no.



I'm not saying to sweep it under the rug. I'm saying this discussion on this board is not serving to uplift the creator. Let those who will investigate do their job and then what will happen will happen.



He doesn't endorse a bunch of gossip either and if you don't know for sure all the facts in this that is all it is.

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Nobody knows ALL the facts, but that doesn't mean that we can't judge something to be right or wrong. I can think of other public TV evangelists, and other public Christian figures (music artists, etc.) who have stepped down from their ministry until they get everything sorted out in their personal lives before resuming their public ministry again. Maybe Danny should do the same until all is resolved. Maybe someone else SHOULD take over the operations at 3ABN. Maybe the whole thing should be shut down. I don't know. But the fact is that there is controversy over his actions and he remarried almost immediately after he divorced Linda. As a pastor I would NOT condone his actions, even if he was perfectly in the right, which is undetermined at this point in time. However, there sure is a lot of smoke in the air and not talking about it will not clear it up.
 
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I know that I have been witness so many times to things like this and it is a real mess. The truth is no one but the participants and God Himself really know what the truth is on this. If Linda did have an illicit affair then Danny was Biblically approved to divorce her. The reason I think this is what happened is that Danny was re-married by an SDA minister at 3abn. These guys are pious adventists in my opinion. If she didn't then Danny was wrong but the closeness of getting re-married after being divorced is no reason to castigate the man. For heaven's sake this has been going on for over 3 years. It's not like they just moved out from one another and then Danny got him another woman.

Either way this goes it's going to have a negative impact on God's work to spread the gospel and it could end 3abn altogether. Is that what you want Freeindeed? Not me, I know Danny is a sinner but we all are. God has given this ministry so many miracles to keep it going that it has to be supported by the Lord. There is no question about that. If Tommy Shelton is guilty of pedophilia then he needs to be out of there but this mess with Danny and Linda will not be resolved by any of what goes on here. Let those who will investigate it do there job , but in the mean time let's let this thing go for now.

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I will be honest with you and say that some of the things on forums that I saw were not handled well. The somewhat elaborated fictional accounts that were meant to get folks all riled up were disgusting to me. But actual letters from actual employees who weigh in, or legal documents, or the agreement signed by Linda to gain her silence and pay her money, etc. those are all real evidence.

Now you say that we will not solve it here. That may not be true. Recently 3ABN has admitted that they are trying to deal more with these issues becuase of the reduction in donations. Individuals must choose whether to support a group with their funds or not.

And pressure that is brought to bring accountability in this regard might not be all bad. Certainly what we saw is that it was grass roots efforts on forums that changed this debate like never before in the Adventist church, and kept it alive all this time.

I personally do not want to see 3ABN go under. We have it on our cable systems in a lot of areas now, on radio and low power radio stations. It has way greater saturation than the hope network. To lose access to all of those areas now that they are secured would be unfortunate.

But I would like to see these issues resolved too. If some news organization were to pick this up and run a national story on 3ABN allegations we would all be hurt. We are directly tied to them by putting them in our neighborhoods. And we would all be embarrased and the mission tainted if they fall big time.

So I do hope that the church investigates. I do hope that pressure causes some reforms or at least seeing if there needs to be reforms.

Not to mention that so many of my member who are faithful givers are upet by all this and don't know what to do. They just want to know what is right so they can keep supporting the work. And who do they ask when they wonder about the situation? Often the pastor or other members.

Now I can give them my own opinion or I can steer them to the letters and let them decide. Some would rather not see the letters. So I don't push it. In fact I don't bring it up at all unless they get something in the mail or hear something and ask. But these folks honestly want to put their money towards a cause that God can bless. And this information helps them evaluate that question.
 
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Let those who will investigate do their job and then what will happen will happen.


The problem is that it doesn't seem there was a group that would investigate other than the local 3ABN run and built church.

The church as a whole, who is entered into a cooperative agreement with them, should have exercised their right to work out a dispute with them and resolve these issues, giving a report on the findings.

This is not a secret thing. They told of her sin all over the network and through letters, while at the same time having her waive her rights to say anything negative about them. To say that they are then protecting her by not giving their detailed evidence is not protecting her at all. First because it does not show that she was really guilty. Second because we may all imagine far worse than it was. They already branded her an adulteress. How will the proof of that hurt her?

Now she has called for the evidence, all of it, to be presented. They better bring it forward or there won't need to be an investigation to show that they are in the wrong.
 
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this is what I think needs to happen. don't think it will
Here is a proposal I suggest.

If 3abn want to restore crediblity to is ministry the the following happen

1. appoint a panel of 21,
2. Let there be 3 division, one by the chruch, 3abn supporters and 3abn critics.
3. Let each do an indepentdant evalauation
4 . then let them issue a joint document raising issues and question and reccomendations of the findings

The Church should....until this is resolved.
1. Ban all demoniationally paid employees from appearing on 3abn, in person or through programming.
2. ban all member from appering on 3ban in person or through programming.
3. And employee that appers with out the consent of The SDA church will be terminated
4. Any member appearing on 3abn will have there membership revoked for a period of at least 2 years.
5. 3abn will be banned from any property the chruch owns
6. ALL Financial support from the denomination will cease immedately including all offering and funding for programs . since 3Abn is a for profit bussiness they should be able to fund themselves.
7. In order to avoid a conflict of intrest, Members of the comittees will not be major donor to 3abn or empoloyees or board members or personalities of 3 abn. They can not have ever appeared on 3 abn.


these are just a few suggeston to help bring about a resolution. the integerty of the chrurch, 3abn and the reputation of the people and christ own reputation is at stake. is at stake
 
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The goal of the ban is to Bring 3ABN in line adn hold them accountable to someone in the Chruch for there actions. It is also to restore crediblity to the 3abn name plate so 3 abn won't go under and be damaged.
 
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We must remember that in scripture it is said that the Lord sets up and takes down kings. The Lord sees whats going on. HE set up 3ABN not Danny. Danny was merely a pawn he used to set it up. And yes, Satan hates 3ABN because it IS spreading the gospel. and he will do anything to tear it down. Not only does he have it in turmoil, he has all of you in turmoil talking about it and letting it take up so much of your time and energy. Really, is it that important? Yeah it stinks real bad! But put it in perspective. Its the Lords station, he will do what he needs to do. If he wants 3ABN on the air, it will be on the air, if he doesnt, it wont. If he wants Danny not to head it out anymore because of sins he has committed (adultery, pride, false witness,etc) then he will take Danny down and replace him with someone who can be trusted in that position. The Lord is in control. Lets let him work it out.
 
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We must remember that in scripture it is said that the Lord sets up and takes down kings. The Lord sees whats going on. HE set up 3ABN not Danny. Danny was merely a pawn he used to set it up. And yes, Satan hates 3ABN because it IS spreading the gospel. and he will do anything to tear it down. Not only does he have it in turmoil, he has all of you in turmoil talking about it and letting it take up so much of your time and energy. Really, is it that important? Yeah it stinks real bad! But put it in perspective. Its the Lords station, he will do what he needs to do. If he wants 3ABN on the air, it will be on the air, if he doesnt, it wont. If he wants Danny not to head it out anymore because of sins he has committed (adultery, pride, false witness,etc) then he will take Danny down and replace him with someone who can be trusted in that position. The Lord is in control. Lets let him work it out.
And that's if the SDA gospel is the same Gospel that Paul was preaching. If it's not, then it will eventually fall away.

Even if 3ABN is absolute apostasy, God will use it for his own good purposes. No worries! God is sovereign! He is in absolute control. He has NO rival!
 
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Yes, Linda Shelton wants the proof against her be made public.

Here it is at the following link:

http://www.save3abn.com/news-releases-make-evidence-public-07-02-14.htm

Here is the text of that letter from the above link:

February, 2007

My warmest greetings,

A couple approached me with tears in their eyes and said, "We have just missed you and we wanted to see you to make sure you were okay." As I saw the pain in their eyes over the events that have transpired in my life in the last few years, it was as if my heart was pierced again. "We are just so happy to see you smiling, in church and still serving God." Our meeting took place a few months ago at the Bible Chapel Seventh-day Adventist Church where I am a member. I enjoyed my visit with this caring, Christian couple, along with the compassion and love they showed toward me.

Some people act surprised that I am still a member of the SDA church. But why? God is still the same awesome God that He always has been, the incredible Bible truths embraced by Seventh-day Adventists are still just as true today as they ever were, and although a "thousand shall fall on my right and a thousand fall on my left," nothing will ever change these facts. We must hold firm to our faith during troubled times!

Many have written to me over the past many months asking me to update my website. This I have prayerfully considered for quite some time, nearly a year. Quite frankly, I just have not known what to say. I feel that this scandal has made a large, festering, open wound in my Church. Perhaps the truth revealed will ultimately bring the healing that everyone needs. Then we can grieve together and move on. I am certain, in essence, I have died a thousand deaths over the events of the last couple of years. But, with the Lord's blessing, I will try to address issues which have been brought to my attention in the kindest manner possible.

For the first time in nearly three years I will not simply deny the accusations, but will directly address certain issues. I do not take pleasure in speaking of these things. I think I have always been the one who would rather receive hurt, than be the one to inflict hurt upon others. But during the course of this last year I learned some valuable lessons through Dr. Mable Dunbar of Polly's Place Network; she has been an incredible support and help to me. Mable is a woman who truly loves the Lord and is not afraid to stand up for what she believes is right, even if a whole army would stand against her.

Polly's Place Network is a ministry which empowers abused lives and aids them through their difficult circumstances. It is a marvelous organization and so needed for this age when Satan has focused his wrath upon breaking up the security and circle of love God intended for our families. I videotaped some interviews for Polly's Place at the SDA Conference office in Spokane, Washington with several individuals who had been through incredibly painful situations. Each of them, in essence, had the same healing story. It was when they were able to come forward and express the truth about what happened to them that their healing came. Inspired by these individuals, now I can accept and believe it is God's job to protect the ministry I have loved and co-founded, and it is my right and my healing to tell the truth about what has occurred.

I am co-authoring a book and its purpose is to share the silver lining of the amazing lessons the Lord has taught me through this crisis. I feel the Lord has lifted a veil and allowed me to see the world that He sees, a world far different than we see. I see that the darts of false allegations that Satan has thrown toward me and my ministry were not directed solely for my downfall, but the aim was much wider. Although I was the apparent target, Satan was attempting to destroy the ministry I loved and co-founded and cripple the witness of the Seventh-day Adventist Church. My perspective has been forever changed through my experiences and my book will give me the opportunity to share these lessons more fully with all of you. (I will keep you posted as to the release date of this book.)
John Knox once said, "Kings [or leaders] have not an absolute power to do in their government what pleases them, but their power is limited by God's Word; so that if they strike where God has not commanded, they are but murderers; and if they spare where God has commanded to strike, they and their thrones are criminal and guilty of the wickedness which abounds upon the face of the earth, for lack of punishment." John knew his Bible. It is a Biblical principle that if we see a wrong and only look the other way or feebly say, "I will let the Lord deal with that one," then that wickedness is applied to our slate, plain and simple.

The most devastating blow a televangelist can get is the false accusation of adultery. Although I have already made this statement on my website I want to address those of you who have loved and valued my Christianity, integrity and my ministry for the 19 years that I was at 3ABN. I want to clearly emphasize that I was 100% faithful to my husband. I loved, trusted and believed in him to a fault. Imagine my shock when I realized that the false allegations in the form of libel, slander and defamation directed my way were initiated by two of the closest people to me on planet earth; one was my beloved partner and the other was my closest lady friend. I loved them both and trusted them both to the point that their close communication did not bother me in the least. I know that sounds naive, but I did not believe that Dan would do anything that would harm the ministry we had built together.
In 2004 there was a tremendous outcry at my departure. There was suspicion over how swiftly I was fired from my position and divorced. There was suspicion over the fact that I never had the opportunity to talk to the Board and defend myself. There was suspicion over the fact that every trace of my presence was completely cleared out of the campus of 3ABN, even before my termination, as well as the website, television and radio broadcasts. I was made a sacrificial lamb in a scheme calculated to remove me from both my home and my ministry through an orchestrated campaign of malicious lies circulated around the globe. No words can begin to describe the absolute agony this has brought to my life, but there are other victims as well, and may God bless and spare the young lives and tender souls who have also felt the stinging thrust of this sword of scandal.

It has completely broken my heart to see the emails and letters which have come from the Chairman of the Board, Dan and others at 3ABN, to hear of the television and radio programs where erroneous references have been made to the situation, to watch the ministry that I helped build with much devotion used to destroy me and also to hear of the reports of what is being said on the SDA chat sites about me today by those bent on my destruction ... nearly three years later.

It was the false accusation of adultery which caused the loss of my marriage, my reputation, my employment, and everything else. I challenge the 3ABN Board to produce the "irrefutable evidence" which caused a co-founder, a lifetime Board member, Vice-President and Secretary of the Board to be removed in that May 2004 meeting! I am asking, no demanding, that the information be made public at my request! Cast aside those pretended desires to "spare me"! The world is waiting with baited breath!

The stakes are high. I, as well as others, have personally experienced electronic surveillance, email theft, interception of cell phone calls, post-divorce entry into my private residence to the point where charges were filed with the police. It is not easy to live your life when you feel that you can never know for sure if you are being followed, watched or recorded ... even now. I have had invitations to do ministry thwarted because of continued allegations by those, who, like wolves in sheep's clothing, attempted to stop my ministry.

I want to make this absolutely clear: I left my home because I was not safe, I was not welcome. I was witnessing the murder of my reputation and ministry day by day. I stayed as long as I felt I could. I hoped, believed and prayed that things would change but they only got worse. The statements made that I left my husband for another man are absolutely and totally false. Any thinking person would realize that I had everything a Christian woman could have wanted in this life: a husband I loved and the opportunity to minister to millions of people about the tremendous love of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, though the ministry that we spent so many years building together. Although two of the people who I loved best have called me "Gomer," yet a more accurate term would be "Hosea," which I would only discover later. But I prefer simply, Linda, "SAVED by the Blood of the Lamb!"

I do not visit the chat sites. This has been a mega-trial for me and my way of coping has been to try and focus on other things. I realize that the individuals which make up our Church need healing from this disaster too. And perhaps the chat sites have served to help people give expression to their frustrations and hurts in this situation. I am grateful to each of you who have prayed and interceded for me. It has meant so much during my dark days. You'll never know just how much!

Now my kids are grown and I am alone ... but not really alone, although I have no husband. Now I belong to everyone and everyone belongs to me! And I still sing, "Thank you for being my family, thank you for being my friends: May God bless and keep you in all that you may do until we meet again!"

It is my goal to just make your journey and mine a little lighter and brighter. I have faith that the Lord still has a work for me to do, a new ministry. I am ready and available for church services, weeks of prayer, concerts, etc. as the Lord opens the doors. I do not know what my future holds, but God does and that's enough for me.

Just in closing I want to make an appeal to you to get out your binoculars, dust them off, bring them into focus and then search. Love your neighbor enough to be a Good Samaritan. When he is broken and bleeding in the middle of the road, focus your binoculars with the love of Christ, but don't stop there; reach out and meet his need in his time of crisis. Christianity is not something that "just happens." True Christianity occurs when a decided action is taken ... when we search, when we fill a need, when we mend a broken heart and when we are just "there" for hurting people.

There are a lot of them. But there are too few Christians who focus their binoculars with love.

Thank you for being my family! Stay close to the Shepherd!

Blessings to you and yours,

Linda Shelton
 
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We must remember that in scripture it is said that the Lord sets up and takes down kings. The Lord sees whats going on. HE set up 3ABN not Danny. Danny was merely a pawn he used to set it up. And yes, Satan hates 3ABN because it IS spreading the gospel. and he will do anything to tear it down. Not only does he have it in turmoil, he has all of you in turmoil talking about it and letting it take up so much of your time and energy. Really, is it that important? Yeah it stinks real bad! But put it in perspective. Its the Lords station, he will do what he needs to do. If he wants 3ABN on the air, it will be on the air, if he doesnt, it wont. If he wants Danny not to head it out anymore because of sins he has committed (adultery, pride, false witness,etc) then he will take Danny down and replace him with someone who can be trusted in that position. The Lord is in control. Lets let him work it out.

I think this is the right way of looking at all of this. I appreciate your post here. When we see what is happening at 3ABN to me it's obvious that satan is behind all of this. I don't know who is at fault or who isn't. I just know that when I watch this network and what it is accomplishing world wide then it has to be from God. Not to mention the many many miracles that has brought this ministry to fruition and has maintained it to the present day.

God Bless
Jim Larmore
 
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