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I think this is the right way of looking at all of this. I appreciate your post here. When we see what is happening at 3ABN to me it's obvious that satan is behind all of this. I don't know who is at fault or who isn't. I just know that when I watch this network and what it is accomplishing world wide then it has to be from God. Not to mention the many many miracles that has brought this ministry to fruition and has maintained it to the present day.

God Bless
Jim Larmore
Do you believe Satan is behind lying (cover-ups), stealing (the reputation of those involved), adultery (who did what here?), and child molestation (different issue, same 3ABN)?

Or, in your opinion, is Satan only behind those who want the WHOLE truth to come out and for justice to be served to those who are actually in the wrong?
 
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Spiritual Adultery is a term used by Kay Kuzma to justify the divorce of danny shelton. Kay got the term from a counsoler. I have read the author and it goes something like this. Spiritual adultry happens when 2 persons spend time together and bond emotionally together in there spirits. They begin to share in a way that is inapproate for married persons. (I am paraphrazing from memory. ) It should be called emotional adultery if any thing. it is more like emothinal bonding. It was just a made up excuse to for danny to divorce his wife.


I've been thinking about this for a bit, and it doesn't sit well with me. My mum is a twin sister, and she has an emotional bond with her twin that, by this view, should be called spiritual adultery. Now I am not saying I believe my mum is guilty of this, I am just testing out the view of "spiritual adultery" to its logical conclusions.

In this 3ABN case, the accusation is on a woman for talking with another man (an outside opinion) who listened and supported her. Well, married people do that all the time when they ring their parents, or siblings, or best-friends. I believe it to be not only common, but healthy to somtimes seek outside advise and support. My point is that the accusation lends itself to be viewed as an excuse.
 
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Do you believe Satan is behind lying (cover-ups), stealing (the reputation of those involved), adultery (who did what here?), and child molestation (different issue, same 3ABN)?

Or, in your opinion, is Satan only behind those who want the WHOLE truth to come out and for justice to be served to those who are actually in the wrong?

If you wanted nothing but the truth and justice you wouldn't be about keeping this mess stirred up on this forum. I have never observed anyone who was genuinely interested in obtaining the truth of a matter do that by spending his investigatorial time dialoging with those who really don't know the facts.

You may want to think about that.

God Bless
Jim Larmore

BTW, this is going to be my last reply on this thread. I'm just as guilty as you are when I respond to your slanderous posts.
 
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If you wanted nothing but the truth and justice you wouldn't be about keeping this mess stirred up on this forum. I have never observed anyone who was genuinely interested in obtaining the truth of a matter do that by spending his investigatorial time dialoging with those who really don't know the facts.

You may want to think about that.

God Bless
Jim Larmore

BTW, this is going to be my last reply on this thread. I'm just as guilty as you are when I respond to your slanderous posts.
This forum has absolutely nothing to do with the truth about Danny and Linda's divorce, Danny's remarriage immediately after, or Tommy's molestation issues. We didn't invent the problems, but we are the 3ABN viewing public who heard and read the PUBLIC statements made concerning Linda. We are also the ones who pay the 3ABN bills through our subscriptions and tithe money. I would say that we all have a vested interest in seeing these serious issues resolved in a way that will reflect positively on Christianity so as to not impede any further the work of preaching the Good News about Jesus Christ and what he has done for us.

Jim, there are consequences for our actions and burying our heads in the sand does not make the problem disappear. They made it public, and now they must deal with the consequences for the actions they each chose. Making this your last post on this 'little' forum doesn't have anything to do with a resolution being found for those involved.
 
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Danny Shelton using 3ABN publically accused Linda Shelton of unfaithfulness over the airwaves resulting in shockwaves that have been rippling ever since.

This forum and other forums, along with the http://www.save3abn.com site are presently the only means of responding to such public accusation.
 
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The stink, as you call it, began when Danny Shelton divorced Linda Shelton for doing something in face of the fact that Linda Shelton says that she was never unfaithful to her then husband, Danny Shelton.

The stink gets stronger when it is Danny Shelton who remarried only a couple of days after the divorce was declared valid by the State of Illinois, whereas Linda Shelton remains unmarried to this very day.

As far as what you refer to as inconsistencies goes, there is more to come that sholud answer your questions.
YOU SAY DANNY RE-MARRIED JUST DAYS AFTER HIS DIVORCE. WHERE DID YOU GET THAT INFO? IN AN ADVENTIST TODAY ARTICLE - (***atoday.com/email/2006/03/23/) - IT STATES THAT DANNY RE-MARRIED MARCH 8TH OF 2006 AND HIS DIVORCE FROM LINDA WAS IN JUNE OF 2004. CAN YOU EXPLAIN?
 
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YOU SAY DANNY RE-MARRIED JUST DAYS AFTER HIS DIVORCE. WHERE DID YOU GET THAT INFO? IN AN ADVENTIST TODAY ARTICLE - (***atoday.com/email/2006/03/23/) - IT STATES THAT DANNY RE-MARRIED MARCH 8TH OF 2006 AND HIS DIVORCE FROM LINDA WAS IN JUNE OF 2004. CAN YOU EXPLAIN?

GOSSIP does have a cruel way of distorting the truth, doesn't it?:sigh:
 
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YOU SAY DANNY RE-MARRIED JUST DAYS AFTER HIS DIVORCE. WHERE DID YOU GET THAT INFO? IN AN ADVENTIST TODAY ARTICLE - (***atoday.com/email/2006/03/23/) - IT STATES THAT DANNY RE-MARRIED MARCH 8TH OF 2006 AND HIS DIVORCE FROM LINDA WAS IN JUNE OF 2004. CAN YOU EXPLAIN?
Yes, I can explain that.

Here is what Linda Shelton said about this at her website:

1) For over one year my attorneys have been contesting the validity of the Guam divorce. Dan's attorneys have been seeking to attest the validity of this divorce. This divorce was just recently validated by the court. A sizable portion of our personal property has not been divided yet.

Here is the timeline regarding all of this:

1. On June 4, 2004 a separation agreement between 3ABN and Linda Shelton was signed.

2. The divorce of Danny Shelton and Linda Shelton was effective on June 21, 2004.

3. In July, 2004 Brandy Elsworth arrived at 3ABN.

4. On February 8, 2005 Linda Shelton files to contest the divorce in Franklin County, Illinois seeking a larger marital settlement, as Illinois is not a community property state as Guam was.

5. About February/March 2006 the court in West Frankfurt, Illinois declared the Guam divorce valid in Illinois.

6. On March 7, 2006 a marriage license was issued to Mr. Danny Shelton and Ms. Brandy Elswick, one day before the wedding.

7. On March 8, 2006 Danny Shelton and Brandy Elswick were married at 3ABN.
 
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We must remember that in scripture it is said that the Lord sets up and takes down kings. The Lord sees whats going on. HE set up 3ABN not Danny. Danny was merely a pawn he used to set it up. And yes, Satan hates 3ABN because it IS spreading the gospel. and he will do anything to tear it down. Not only does he have it in turmoil, he has all of you in turmoil talking about it and letting it take up so much of your time and energy. Really, is it that important? Yeah it stinks real bad! But put it in perspective. Its the Lords station, he will do what he needs to do. If he wants 3ABN on the air, it will be on the air, if he doesnt, it wont. If he wants Danny not to head it out anymore because of sins he has committed (adultery, pride, false witness,etc) then he will take Danny down and replace him with someone who can be trusted in that position. The Lord is in control. Lets let him work it out.


Danny in not a King. I know by the 'it's the Lords station" it is run by human beings and is the Lords station ONLY as the people submit to what the Lord wants.
 
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Here is the evidence packet, that I alluded to eailer, All statements were verified before they were put on the net. I ave just assembled them into one orginized. the evidence is complete as of 8-1-2006, any new statements are not posted here

Linda Shelton Evidenced

posted 07/29/2004​
A LETTER FROM LINDA:

Hello my friends,

May God's richest blessings be yours today! I have missed the times I have had sharing with you, sitting on the front porch with Fluffy and Sheltie. (They send their greetings!) But some very unfortunate events have occurred. Many of you are asking "what happened??" In a nutshell, God's Word says it best. "I hold not Your peace, O God of my praise; for the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful are opened against me; they have spoken against me with a lying tongue; they compassed me about also with words of hatred; and fought against me without a cause. For my love they are my adversaries; but I give myself unto prayer. And they have rewarded me evil for good and hatred for my love." (Psalm 109:1-5) This has been undoubtedly the most trying experience of my lifetime. Yet I want you to know that for three difficult months I stayed, I prayed and I fought this spiritual battle. I wanted to have the assurance that when the time came to lay down the sword, that I had given it my best. This does not mean I made perfect decisions in every circumstance of this crisis. But it does mean that by His grace, I did the best that I could. This is something I cherish right now, and it gives me peace. For whatever reason, God has allowed this. I don't question Him, I thank Him. He's still holding the steering wheel of my ship, so wherever we go, we go together. He has led me into the wilderness, I've faced the "terrors of the night," but right now He is my peace, my safety net and my Friend. And as always, He is teaching me lessons that are "out of this world!"

Let me be frank and honest with you concerning the rumors. Have I been unfaithful to my husband of 19 years? Absolutely not. Did I do something immoral? No way!! Weren't there many, many people that I counseled with concerning this problem? The only formal counsel I ever received during this entire episode was that of my local pastor, a husband and wife team of counselors and the Chairman of the 3ABN Board. That's all. But the problem was bigger than the counsel could relieve. But... "All my bones will say, "Lord, who is like You, Who delivers the afflicted from him who is too strong for him, and the afflicted and the needy from him who robs him?" (Psalm 35:10)

I truly believe that sometimes we get to be like greenhouse Christians. Our environment is controlled, our needs are provided and our future is secure ... perhaps too secure. Then our loving heavenly Father shakes things up a bit to help us realize once again what it feels like to be vulnerable, desperate and even ... condemned. He helps us to feel exactly like those we are trying to reach for Him. And oh, what a valuable lesson it is. So although things have been shaken up a bit at 3ABN, let's pray for God's ordained ministry, let's support it and let's learn the lessons God wants us to learn right now. We need to remember that "the enemy is the enemy," not each other.

When I first saw the rumblings of these rumors taking off like a rocket, I was devastated. I could almost literally see the foundations of my 19 year ministry crumbling to the ground. I wanted to work for Jesus but it seemed as if this tidal wave of rumors had finished me. So I considered other options like going back to school (yuck) and even starting my own business. But the Lord has clearly shown me that He's not finished with me yet. He has a plan. So right now I am in my "listening mode" waiting on the Lord's instructions. I'd like to THANK you so much for the warm blanket of prayer that surrounds me now, and that has surrounded me throughout this crisis. Your prayers make all the difference in the world. THANK YOU!! Stay tuned to my website for updates, and thank you also for your support of my "sprouting" new ministry through the CD's, cassettes and songbooks. May God bless you abundantly more than you can ever ask or think!

His love & mine,

Linda Shelton​
A LETTER FROM LINDA:

August 18, 2004

Hello my friends,

I am overwhelmed!! Thank you so much for your cards, letters and gifts. Your love, prayers and encouragement mean more than you can possibly imagine...especially right now.

Many people have been asking "Where is Linda Shelton?" Well, she's been tucked away in the woods here in Southern Illinois nearly three months. It's been a wonderful quiet retreat where I can heal from the scars of spiritual and mental warfare. On 3ABN I've always been one to try to bring out the good things about trials...never dreaming that one day that my entire life would be pulled up from the very foundations. Truly it seems an impossibility that one can lose so much so quickly. It's not my intention that this letter result in your pity and sympathy, but it is my intention to give you, as my friend, perhaps a clearer picture of what happened. I signed a severance agreement with 3ABN. This limits me as to how detailed I can explain my story... but with God's blessing, and the unction of the Holy Spirit working on your heart, I believe I can say what needs to be said to clear up a lot of questions.

My story begins many years ago when I was only 24 years old. I was married with two small babies, Alyssa and Nathan. A literature evangelist came to my door, and after a pleasant visit she invited me to church. Three months later I was baptized as a Seventh-day Adventist Christian. These truths set me free to the highest degree and I was spiritually floating on "cloud nine." Yet Satan was angry. My family, at the time, had a twisted view of the SDA church, and additionally the family was heavily involved in politics. My choice was not, in their opinion, politically correct. The pressure on my husband and marriage resulted in a divorce. I was devastated. I lost my husband, my home and my security. I ended up living in a public housing facility which was completely contrary to the lifestyle in which I had been raised. Although this was an incredible blow, the lessons I learned during this time were priceless. I learned about what was really of the utmost importance in life. Still yet, it was a Gethsemane experience.

Time passed. Ten days after his vision to build 3ABN, Dan and I were married. It was an amazing experience to literally watch the hand of God build this network. It was an incredible privilege to be able to participate in a ministry that was ordained in the courts of heaven. But the battles still came...the evil one was angry with such an incredible evangelistic tool. One battle which literally brought me and kept me on my knees, occurred in 1995. After enjoying the custody of both of my children for many years, my children's father took me to court when my son, Nathan, was only 15 years old. Nathan was quite enamored with the newly acquired attentiveness he was getting from his father, so he wanted to live with him. I told Nathan that I could not, with a clear conscience, and would not place him in such an environment where smoking, drinking, etc. existed. We were in court for 3-1/2 days. Some questions I was asked were "Why couldn't my son play ball on Friday nights like all of the other boys his age?" And "Why couldn't my son eat meat like other young teenagers his age?" The opposing attorney was very successful making me, Nathan's Mom, look like an unbalanced religious zealot. I begged God to intervene. After I cried a barrel of tears I heard a still, small voice say "Just as Abraham placed Isaac on the altar, I want you to place Nathan on the altar." I said, "Please God, anything but that." But finally after crying another barrel of tears, with God's help I was able to place Nathan on the altar. The years that followed were much more than heart-breaking. Nathan become involved in alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, etc.. Many times I lay in bed numb and fearful that I would wake up to the news that something happened to Nathan during the night. I begged God to intervene. He did. He saved Nathan's life on not just one, but many occasions. Still yet, this was much more than a Gethsemane experience for me. In the last eight years it has not always been easy to sit on the porch and share the devotions the Lord gave me because of what was happening with my son. But somehow just speaking the Bible scriptures and making the effort to encourage someone else who was hurting always, but always strengthened me.

After 8 years of prayer the turning point came. God impressed an SDA doctor from Norway to visit 3ABN the last part of December. He said he didn't know why he was there...but he does now. I met him briefly and the conversation turned to Nathan. I explained to this doctor how Nathan had a $20,000 plus habit last year that had left him skin and bones. The doctor asked to see him and miraculously I was able to get Nathan to see him. He invited him to Norway to treat him with IV's filled with natural remedies which would cleanse his body then build it up. Again, miraculously Nathan agreed to go. He left around the 20th of January. A friend of mine and myself joined Nathan for about 3-1/2 days the first week in February to give him support. Incredibly, there was a visible difference in Nathan after only 10 days. When I returned I regularly called this doctor for progress reports. Although February was probably the busiest month of travel for Dan and myself, on March 7, 2004 I was accused of committing spiritual adultery with this doctor, because I spoke with this near stranger to me on the phone. Later untruths were spoken by one close to me and a simple situation escalated quickly into a nightmare. Things went from bad to worse to sinister. I literally fought the dragon from March until a separation became vitally necessary around the 1st of June. In a short time my job, my marriage, my ministry, and my reputation were gone...and not in this order. There are many details...but this is my story. Let me add here that before God there was no romantic notions on my part, nor on the part of this doctor, during a time filled with accusations and condemnation.

Although this has been a real Gethsemane experience for me, folks, I still love Jesus and I feel that I am on top of the problem, rather than the problem being on top of me. I praise God for all the precious memories of the past and I look forward to a life of ministry in the future. (I told the Lord that under the circumstances with the "reputation thing" that He's going to have to open up the doors. He's told me He would.) Additionally about my precious son, Nathan still struggles with some drug use, but praise God, he's fighting it...and he's going back to Norway in September for more treatments. Folks, I just want to encourage you to stay CLOSE to Jesus. The whirlwind can come when you least expect it to knock you off your feet...and where will you land?? Now is the time to lean hard on those everlasting arms, now is the time to spend time in God's Word and now is the time to make Jesus your Best Friend! May He bless you abundantly more than you can ask or think!! My prayers are with you!!

His love & mine,

Linda Shelton​
 
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Danny Shelton Evidence
Statement 1
We do not want our side on the chat rooms, but I do think that you should not
encourage your supporters to get involved in something they know nothing about.
Danny Shelton​
Hi, my name is Danny Shelton and I work for 3ABN. It's not a credit your Black SDA that it appears to be nothing more than a tabloid gossip page.
Not one of the people that I could see commenting have even attempted to contact me, that I know of, about all the things they are judging me of.
You do have some people in the "know" that you could find out some info from if it means that much to you. Pastor John Lomacang has spent many hours counseling with Linda and me and even made some recommendations to the board about our situation which the 3ABN board took very seriously.
As of late Pastor Mark Finley has counseled with both Linda and Me. He agrees with the decision the board has taken on this issue and so does Pastor John. Several others have also counseled us and all agree with the board's action.
Paula and Curtis have indeed been back to do more programming without me or Linda. Their program stands on it's own.
No one has been hurt like Linda and me have been through this whole situation. We still love each other and spend considerable time together.
This situation at 3ABN cannot be judged by onlookers as though you have the truth. Much of this is so personal you will probably never know what has really happened.
We encourage people not to take sides, except to support the work of God on this earth.
If 3ABN is of God it will continue to bring about good fruit.
If it is of Satan it will bring about bad fruit. You be the judge.
Please continue to pray for both Linda and me as we both want 3ABN to succeed in taking the gospel to the world.
Thanks for listening​
Statement 2

Danny Shelton Responds to Dr. Arild Abrahamsen (the accused other man - see his statement blow)​
posted on BlackSda.com 07/17/2006​
Calvin, I'm very disappointed that you would read a letter from this so called Dr.
and support it without even attempting to find out if it is true. This is not the
Christian way. This Dr. knows nothing of me except what Linda has told him. We
have only talked a few minutes throughout this last 2 1/2 years. This letter is a
lie and I'm surprised that you would stake your credibility online to take sides
with them. He and Linda did have an affair. Why do you think that the pastor who
counseled us, John Lomacang, the 3ABN board, including the Illinois Conference Pres.
ect support me. They know things you do not. We are not out to hurt Linda. If you
read the chat rooms it's She, Johann, Arild and Derrell. Not 3ABN people talking
about this situation. Besides we have been divorced for over 2 yrs.
Yes, she doesn't use her real name on your chat room but we know who she is.
The way you are going about this is not Christ like. If you want to know the truth
you are supposed to try to find out. Otherwise it is just gossip. What a shame
that your chatroom is being used to try to destroy the work of the gospel rather
than to spread Jesus to the world. This Dr. does not tell you that he has told John Lomacang,​
Brenda Walsh, and even his own Norwegian Conf. Pres that he, the Dr.,​
believes that Linda is in love with, him, but that he is not in love with her.​
He told this while we were married. He was trying to save his own name. But now, 2 yrs​
after our divorce, he has a lot to gain to try to keep Linda's ministry going. In fact,​
$100,000. In 2004 instead of encouraging Linda to stay with me, They bought a house together. He put up $100,000 and she put up the other approx. $100,000. Yes, the court papers say it is a 10 year loan, but the Dr. knows
that the nearly $250,000 that that 3ABN gave Linda as a separation agreement is
about depleted. Linda has said that she is not going to work. She said, and I
quote, "I'm not going to cook hamburgers the rest of my life." She wants people to
support her financially. The Dr. has to help her in order to get his own money
back. Please call John Lomacang, before you ruin your own credibility and hear another
side of the story.
XXXX or XXXX

Thanks,
Danny
 
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The Accused Other Man Evidence: Dr. Arild Abrahamsen
06/20/2006​
Greetings from Norway;

My name is Dr. Arild Abrahamsen. I live in Svindal, Norway. I have been a medical doctor for more than 35 years. I am a member of the Moss SDA Church. I've been the Sabbath School Superintendent for 14 years and the head elder for 4 years, which position I am presently serving. I am the Norwegian doctor who has been slandered by Dr. Walt Thompson, chairman of the board of
3ABN, Danny Shelton, John Lomacang and others.

Since I have observed the situation and the slander only getting worse, I feel it best to share my experience. I share my personal experience, what I have seen and heard. Much of this information has been verified by other sources, which include emails, letters and the personal experiences of
others. I share my experience not to attack any individual or organization, but to bring the truth of this situation to the surface.

I have been shocked to observe the events of the last two years. I have made no public statement until now. I had hoped things would resolve themselves.

I visited Johann and Irmgard Thorvaldsson at 3ABN the last week of 2003. The purpose of the trip was to see them and visit the ministry, which I personally had been supporting for some time. I had never been to 3ABN previously, nor had I met the Shelton's. During this visit I discovered from the Thorvaldsson's that Linda Shelton's son, Nathan, was in a dangerous state of health because of an addiction to drugs and working in coalmines. I offered to see him. This visit resulted in an invitation for Nathan to come to Norway for treatments. Nathan came to Norway around January 20, 2004 along with his friend, Dava Vice. Linda came for a 3-½ day visit to support her son, the first week of February together with Brenda Walsh. This was the last time I saw Linda until the weekend she
was fired.

I had a chance to visit with Nathan regularly. I learned from my conversations with Nathan that the roots of his drug problems were the relationships with his father and stepfather. Specifically he told me that Danny had turned his back on him. I shared this information with his mother on the phone. She told me that Danny said he had no responsibility towards Nathan since he was a product of her first marriage, so she felt she had to do what she could to help her son. There was nothing unusual in the occasional phone reports I gave Nathan's mother while he was in Norway. After Nathan returned home, I asked Linda to keep me updated on Nathan's progress.

I was shocked to discover in early March of 2004 that Danny was threatening to get Linda fired from 3ABN because of some conversations on the phone. In fact, she was threatened immediately with divorce. By this time Nathan had started with drugs again and Linda was seeking advice. I was also shocked to discover that Brenda had started circulating untrue statements as well. (Was it because Danny had admitted to some emotional involvement with Brenda?) I talked to Danny one time on the phone and found him to be unreasonable, unbalanced and very difficult to communicate with. Johann Thorvaldsson, a retired pastor of the SDA Church of 50 years, also was in communication with Danny, both by phone and email. We talked together and shared the same opinion that Danny was acting completely irrational and unreasonable towards his wife. It appeared he was attempting to leave an email trail filled with untruths to verify a position at a later time. The decision was made to stop the communication by phone with Linda.

Some weeks went by. Johann and Irmgard were getting treatments at my clinic and staying in my home during the Easter week in April, so I discovered from them that the situation was not improving for Linda. She was being harassed, threatened, and unreasonable demands by her husband were repeatedly being made to confess things she had not done. By this time, she was also
suspended from her job at 3ABN, an order that was issued and enforced by her husband with no Board action. Things were so bad in the home that she found it necessary to go to her daughter's home in Springfield, Illinois for safety and rest on several occasions. Derrell Mundall, who was traveling often for 3ABN, reports rumors of Linda's so-called "affair" were in SDA churches in April 2004, when Linda was still living with Danny. When he inquired about the source of the rumors, people always pointed to Danny Shelton.

I could see from my 35 years of experience as a physician that Danny was a psychopath. accusations were directed at me that I had done "mind control" over Linda. (Walt Thompson made the same accusations in his letters.) Linda was accused of sending "secret messages" to me over the television. Danny's emails and communications with Johann were completely crazy, and his reasoning often conflicted with his previous emails. Danny targeted Linda's few inner circle confidants and slandered her to the point that even they backed away from her at this critical time. (Linda's "friends" did not want to lose their television privileges.) Johann and I concluded this was a man who was determined to get rid of his wife. We also concluded that Linda was in danger.

Things eventually progressed from emotional and mental abuse to physical abuse. In the midst of all this harassment Linda asked Danny, 'Why are you treating me like this?' He answered, 'Because I want you to get out.'

Considering the urgency of the situation I allowed the conversations to resume. Linda knew, with her high profile status, that confiding with local people regarding these issues would be very bad for the ministry. I had given counsel to people in difficulty in the past and felt I could be helpful from a distance in this situation. I encouraged Linda to fight for her marriage and ministry many times. This she really did, but she often had to leave her home to find refuge at her daughter's apartment in Springfield, even in the middle of the night because of Danny's behavior. At times like these she was afraid of him. She always returned to her home after a couple of days seeking to try to mend the marriage, but Danny would not allow this.

During the spring of 2004 Danny called my pastor in Norway. Danny tried to get me kicked out as an elder and as a member of the church. My pastor told me about the conversation and he said, "He is mentally sick, he needs professional help."

I find it very disturbing that Walt Thompson defended and continues to defend Danny although he was a witness repeatedly to the emotional and mental abuse that was taking place. At one point he witnessed Danny "trashing" his wife for five hours. I also find it disturbing that John Lomacang, Linda's former pastor, claims to have counseled extensively with Danny and Linda when this was far from the truth. During the months of April and May of 2004, when most of the activity was ccurring in this situation, Linda NEVER saw John, who was supposed to be her pastor.

Coincidentally the handful of people supporting Danny and defending his actions has gained either power, position, airtime, homes, public endorsement or all of the above.

At one point I had a conversation with Walt Thompson, Chairman of the Board of 3ABN. He asked me to stop all communication with Linda. This had also been communicated to Johann and Irmgard Thorvaldsson and others. I told him that it was obviously Danny's plan to isolate Linda from everyone at a time when she needed help. To me it was the Christian thing to answer her
phone calls and the only humane thing to do for someone who was in crisis.

Others did not come to Linda's aid because they did not want to lose whatever benefit they gained from 3ABN, whether it be a job, programming, promotions, etc. Walt was also the one who phoned Linda when she was suspended from the ministry by her husband. He instructed her that she must
not come to the ministry (which she co-founded) without calling ahead of time because she must be supervised when at 3ABN. Danny broke into a locked bathroom to forcefully take her keys to 3ABN from her. Her hard drive of her computer was confiscated, her contact information taken and even her filing cabinets ravaged, all without any kind of Board action.

Linda was living in an impossible situation. Danny was "in her face" on a regular basis. At times he would say, "If you don't say you're a pathological liar, the marriage and 3ABN is over. If you don't say you're an adulterous woman the marriage and 3ABN is over for you. If you don't say you've given your heart to another man and that he is a demon the marriage and 3ABN is over..... etc." It even reached the point when he demanded her to say "Repeat after me." Johann and I received a
couple emails, which said they were from Linda, but they were written by Danny. Linda saw her ministry being destroyed one day at a time. All of this was dehumanizing and terrifying to Linda, who was trying to hold things together. She very much realized what was at stake.

An "investigative committee" was put together by Walt Thompson to look into this situation. They were Walt Thompson, Bill Hulsey, Nick Miller and Kay Kuzma. Danny talked privately at length with each of these people. Linda did not. The committee as a whole never met with Linda at all. In one brief phone conversation with Kay Kuzma she told Linda, "The Board is not interested in you and Danny's personal problems. It is only interested in the fact that the President no longer wants his Vice-President." Johann Thorvaldsson testifies that he spoke with Kay the following day. She told
him she was instructed to get Linda used to the idea of not being at 3ABN anymore and to try to get her involved in another ministry.

It's interesting that at the time Danny accused Linda for speaking on the phone to me, that he was in the practice of speaking regularly with Brenda, Linda's "friend." He also visited often with her in her 3ABN apartment in the night. A worker at 3ABN states that Brenda even went golfing with
Danny behind Linda's back while she was working. As soon as Brenda saw where the tide was turning, she was no longer Linda's friend. She became an accuser as well.

About May 1, 2004 instructions were given to the production staff to wipe Linda's face off of the network by June 1, again with no Board action.

All CD's, videos, literature and photos of Linda were stripped out of the Call Center. She was sent a document a few days later specifying that she was advised to get 30 days of counseling by counselors of "their" choice. If she did not agree to this in writing within 24 hours, her employment could be gone. She requested time for an attorney to look at the document. This was refused. Mail was flooding into the network with Linda's name on it. They were all returned to sender. Her scheduled speaking appointments for women's ministries were sabotaged by those in leadership at 3ABN. Danny told those who worked for Linda that she was a pathological liar and to stay away from her. (He did not want them to hear the other side of the story.) At one point Linda told Walt that Dan was purposefully ruining her reputation and that she was not willing to be a martyr for 3ABN. Walt's response was "How else are we going to save the ministry?"

Rumors of Linda's so-called "affair" were flying throughout the churches and the General Conference in May of 2004, rumors which were begun by her husband. It was communicated to me that Linda was going to be fired at the Board meeting, which would occur in May, following the 3ABN camp meeting. Johann and I decided to go to the camp meeting and talk to the Board members
and tell them the truth about the situation. When we walked into the 3ABN building we were surrounded by about 10 people. One person stood directly behind me for the entire service. Walt Thompson and Nick Miller (3ABN's attorney) asked us to leave. We stayed until nearly the end of
the service. (At this camp meeting an announcement was made regarding Linda. There were
tearful appeals by Danny, which raised a record-breaking amount of money for 3ABN. Danny also claims that an additional two million dollars was raised the year of their divorce.) When Johann and I went to the door, once again we were followed by a small crowd of people. I spoke to Mark Finley about the situation at length in the parking lot. John Lomacang tried to stop the conversation. He said 'It is not good for you to talk to him alone.' What was he afraid of? He was standing with me when Danny drove up and said that if I returned to camp meeting I would be arrested and thrown in jail. He had already talked to the Sheriff. I decided to not return, as it was Mark Finley's suggestion to avoid the possibility of disrupting the camp meeting for all of the people attending. Linda was staying in her daughter's apartment in Springfield, so we drove there on Saturday to stay in a hotel for the weekend. During this weekend we were followed by three private investigators all the time. What kind of actions was that, for a man that REALLY wanted to save his marriage?

It is my understanding that a one-sided conversation was illegally taped by Danny towards the end of May. With a mind set on framing his wife, her words have been misconstrued into saying what he wants people to think. She mentions a trip to Las Vegas. He explains to all that she is planning a
rendezvous with "the doctor." In reality for weeks he has offered Linda larger and larger sums of money for her to go to Las Vegas and stay with her mother for six weeks to acquire residency, a requirement for couples that want a quick divorce. For weeks she refused. SHE NEVER WANTED A DIVORCE. con't

 
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The events of the previous months eventually bring her to the place where she thinks this is maybe what she should do. She knew a separation was necessary. Danny takes her words from the phone call and adds his insinuations. He makes photo copies of her one sided conversation and
distributes it. This is his main source of "proof" for his actions and re-marriage. They call it circumstantial evidence." To further cover their tracks Linda's accusers say that for her sake they don't want to tell "all she has done." They say this so people will accept their statements and
imagine the worst. This is slander of the worst kind all coming from professed Christians.

Johann says he was fired from 3ABN for refusing to attest to something false Danny wanted him to put in writing about Linda. Derrell Mundall, Danny's ex-son-in-law, says he was given the option to resign or be fired because of his actions defending Linda. Others quit their jobs because they could not support the actions of the leaders. There is one thing many of these people have in common. Anyone who disagrees with Danny is slandered and discredited.

It's interesting that Danny's daughter recently was found to be pregnant out of wedlock. A quick wedding followed when Derrell, (her ex-husband & father of their four children), claims she had no grounds for re-marriage. It's also interesting that nobody asked Derrell about the issue of grounds at all when he was still a resident in Thompsonville. Also another married Shelton family member had a romantic encounter recently with a married employee of 3ABN. They were instructed to keep it quiet. They did. They all still work at 3ABN, and Melody is featured on the network. Is 3ABN all about standing for principle and values, or standing for those who happen to be in good graces with the President and the Shelton family ?

Another question that seems to be in the minds of many is "Why was Linda given $240,000 when all claim she was fired for a wrongdoing?" The only reason Linda signed this 3ABN contract was because she needed money to escape from a very irregular, abusive and impossible situation. Danny forced her to sign not only this contract, but another contract which sold him her half of their joint-owned home the same day.

Linda has suffered much emotional trauma and humiliation from all of this. She still has nightmares about these events. She did not feel ready to face the people of the SDA church for six months after all of this occurred. I encouraged her to begin again. She went for the first time around the end of
November of 2004 in Springfield. The people welcomed her. She requested her membership to be transferred out of the Thompsonville church into the Springfield church in December of 2004. The Springfield pastor had previously worked at 3ABN and knew Linda. He did not believe the rumors and encouraged the church to put her to work. It was a healing time for her to teach Sabbath School and occasionally preach.

In June of 2005 things changed. Pastor Grady was transferred out of the Springfield church, though he wanted to stay, and a pastor from 3ABN was moved into the church. Within two weeks John Stanton met with Linda and told her she would be doing nothing on the platform. She told him that the church really needed the help and she hoped that if she was asked once in two months to teach a Sabbath School class that she would be able to do this. He told her that the orders had come from
the conference level. (The Illinois conference President sits on 3ABN's Board and his parents work for 3ABN.) During our visit to the General Conference Session Johann and I visited with this pastor. He told us he thought Linda was a liar. I TOLD HIM THAT LINDA HAD NEVER BEEN UNFAITHFUL
TO HER HUSBAND and that all the rumors from her husband were lies. But this man had TV interests to pursue and he was in close connection with Danny and John Lomacang.

The last week of October 2005, a letter came to Linda from John Lomacang, the pastor of the Thompsonville (3ABN) church. It stated that the church board had voted "to call a church business session to recommend to the church that you be placed under censure." Linda called John to ask him why. He said it was because she had abandoned her marriage and ministry, which
led to her divorce. (This is what Danny refers to as "grounds" to re-marry.) Linda planned to address the church business meeting. She wrote to Danny requesting a release from the restrictions of the contract she signed so she could openly share her side of the story. Danny denied this request. Because of this she felt forced to drop her membership there and then join another SDA church. This decision was made after much counsel with several SDA's. It's
interesting that this recommendation for censure came almost 18 months after the fact. (Which kind of practice is this? Special for USA?) It's also interesting that all of this occurred while Danny was trying to gather evidence against Linda so he could re-marry.

Danny Shelton and the leadership of 3ABN are responsible for using the ministry of 3ABN to bring character assassination to Linda and others. In Linda's case, television and radio announcements were made denouncing her character. There was an announcement on the front page of 3ABN's website for many months. About 180,000 letters about Linda were sent to the mailing list at 3ABN. Videos about her were made and distributed. Magazine articles were written and submitted. Mailings were made to church officials. Many calls were taken at 3ABN where slanderous remarks about Linda were given over the phone. Many letters containing completely false statements were sent to many individuals. Danny even made his personal email address available over 3ABN so people could write to him and obtain his side of the story. They did a thorough job of character assassination.

Now two years later the "trashing" continues. It is inexcusable, especially for a proclaimed Christian ministry.

In conclusion I want to clearly state that I have not committed adultery (emotional, physical, "spiritual"), and neither has Linda. The conversations we had were not unusual or inappropriate. Linda is the victim of domestic violence, only this has resulted in worldwide effects for our Church.

Linda has sought for help at the General Conference level. She has sought the aid of pastors. No one has an answer. She has tried repeatedly to meet with a committee from the Board of 3ABN. This request has not been granted. Still the bulk emails and letters flow from 3ABN slandering the innocent. This has been the most ungodly situation I have observed in my entire life. Any who find themselves not in good graces with Danny Shelton will find that their name is discredited and slandered in an attempt to destroy their influence. Linda has suffered the most with the loss of her job, her influence and reputation. But many others, including myself, have felt the heat coming from what is supposed to be a ministry representing Jesus Christ. This is an outrage. This is unacceptable. Accountability of leaders is a must. (Can bad fruits come from good trees?) As Christians, it is our duty to demand accountability and a high standard from leaders. I hope this testimony will fulfill the mission intended.

Respectfully,

Dr. Arild Abrahamsen
 
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Johann Thorvaldsson Evidence (friend of the accused other man)
THE STORY OF LINDA SHELTON

By Johann Thorvaldsson


Former 3ABN liaison for Europe It is a fact that Linda Shelton has been
fired - and Danny Shelton has told his version of events to the World
audience. He warned us not to listen to rumors, so what are the facts of
this heart-breaking experience? Unfortunately Linda Shelton has been
judged and dismissed from the establishment she loved and helped build
up - on the basis of rumors. Facts that have been twisted, embroidered
and presented as real. This is quite a complicated matter. A few weeks
ago I was in Southern Illinois, wanting to attend the camp meeting at
3ABN, together with a Norwegian medical doctor - the one Linda has been
accused of committing spiritual adultery with. We went there in an
attempt to clear up misunderstandings, all caused because my wife and I
introduced this doctor to Danny and Linda Shelton. This doctor is also
the head elder of the most flourishing conservative SDA church in Norway
- and has for several years been a financial supporter of 3ABN. Some of
the problems were caused because the 3ABN archives had misspelled the
name of this supporter, so Danny was convinced he was an impostor. Later
Danny has named him a devil, a demon, or evil spirit, or bad counselor -
like he did during the transmission to the whole world on Thursday
evening at Camp Meeting. Also during that meeting we were requested to
leave the premises of 3ABN, and if we ever showed up again at the
meetings the police would be requested to remove us as trespassing
private property - and this at meetings where all are invited.

What is our crime? While my wife, Irmgard, and I were staying at 3ABN in
December 2003, this doctor came to visit us, both to check Irmgard's
illness and to see the studios of the ministry he was supporting and was
a great fan of. Linda came to see us, and later she brought her son
along, who had problems with drugs and related things. Nathan had been
reluctant to see any other doctor, but a lasting friendship between the
doctor and this young man was kindled. Many of his patients are young
athletes, so he is used todealing with young people. The doctor invited
Nathan to come and stay in Norway and receive treatments at his clinic
for a month. Nathan brought his girlfriend along, and later Linda and
Brenda Walsh spent 3 days there to check on things - and I had a visit
with them too while they were there. At that time Nathan had merely been
there for 10 days, and I did not recognize him when I saw him. He was a
completely transformed person.

So after Linda returned to the States she'd call to find out how it was
going with her son. Danny told me himself that he considered that if a
married woman talks for more than 10 or 12 minutes with another man on
the phone she'd be committing spiritual adultery - so these phone calls
first branded Linda as an adulteress. And from there the ball has kept
rolling with more and more accusations. Mark Finlay was willing to
assist in coming to an understanding, but his offer was unacceptable to
the 3ABN lawyer. Both the lawyer and the pastor
urged me to stay out of this case and not support Linda. They claimed
I'd soon be left out in the cold with no friends at all if I'd continue
supporting Linda in her plight.

Can you imagine our Lord Jesus Christ telling me not to come to the aid
of this frail woman because I'd be left out in the cold without friends?
I have never heard such a statement before coming from people who are
supposed to be the spiritual leaders of this great ministry. Is it any
wonder that the support of 3ABN is dwindling?

With such men at the helm who make it their business and main concern to
condemn Linda, is it any wonder that Linda seeks the support of her
close friends - and also calls the doctor who was so kind to her son?
Of course it might have avoided some misunderstandings and confusions if
that doctor had been a woman. But what does the Apostle tell us? "There
is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is
neither male
nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus." Those two people have
been branded before the whole world as adulterers, and you name it. I
never dreamt such atrocities could take place at my favorite ministry,
3ABN

Now the woes of Linda Shelton are not hers alone any more. I was fired
too, because I supported Linda. Officially it was because I refused to
obey orders from my superiors at 3ABN. But I am fortunate that I get my
sustentation from the church where I started my ministry more than 50
years ago. Even though I love the ministry of 3ABN, I serve the God of
heaven and the God of Truth. Derrell Mundall, the father of Danny
Shelton's grandchildren, who has served 3ABN faithfully for many years,
has also been fired. What is his crime? He was too close and he knows the truth, and shared his knowledge with
others. He supports Linda. He had no other employment when he was
dismissed from 3ABN, so pray that he may soon find another fruitful
ministry where he can use his talents. He chose truth instead of a
steady employment, as so many other believers have done in the past.
Before Derrell was fired he was told that he must remember it was Danny
who received the vision from God to build this TV station. Therefore, he
was told, he must regard the words of Danny Shelton as being the words
of God. Long before Linda's dismissal, Dr. Kay Kuzma was assigned to
help Linda manage after being fired. She was also supposed to interview staff
members to find a good reason to fire her, so one wonders what really is
behind this upheaval? Danny mentioned a number of counselors who had helped the board come to
the conclusion that she should be dismissed. You can ask Linda, but I
don't think she ever talked to most of those counselors. In fact even
before her dismissal she felt treated like a criminal when she
approached the premises of 3ABN and was not permitted to enter without
close supervision. The present general staff at 3ABN is probably not
permitted to ask Linda any question. If anyone wants a contact to keep
up their close friendship with Linda they have to write their note on a
postcard, submit it to the leaders who will forward it to Linda. Such
are the present premises of this woman
whose ministry has meant so much to thousands of viewers, and who will
not see her any more on the screen - as long as the present leadership
has it their way.
Pray for 3ABN. Pray for justice. Pray for justice also for Linda.
Miracles still take place.
Christian regards​
 
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Walter Thompson Evidence
Statement 1

From Walter Thompson
Chairman, 3ABN board of Directors
Regarding Danny's marriage
Originally posted on Club Adventist​
04/10/2006
Dear Family and Friends of 3ABN,

Two years ago 3ABN was challenged by the most difficult battle
the ministry has ever faced. It was a battle that threatened
the very existence of the ministry and the work of preaching
the end time message of the Three Angel's to the world. It is
only because of the grace and power of God Almighty, and the
faithful support of you, the 3ABN family, that the ministry
has survived to preach another day. Today, the ministry is
stronger than it has ever been and its reach into the world
even broader and more powerful for the cause of truth.

As is always the case when in the public eye, questions arise,
stories abound, and rumors spread. We thank God that you have
trusted the leadership and board of 3ABN during this time and
have stayed with us in ministry. More recently some of you
have heard that Danny has found one to comfort him in his
loneliness and sorrow. You may have also heard rumors about an
allegedly illegal divorce occurring without Biblical grounds.
This letter is an attempt to fill you in with the facts.

As chairman of the board I have been in the midst of this long
and drawn out ordeal from the beginning. I was there when we
counseled with Linda over and over again. I was present during
the pleas and prayers, seeking to get her to give up her
relationship with the doctor. I have seen and heard the
evidence upon which the board has taken the action that it has​
taken. I have been one that has plead with Linda to keep her
marriage and her ministry and offered to provide counseling
for them. I have known Danny and Linda almost from the
beginning of the ministry and have been in their home many
times. They had a good marriage. It was not until this third
party got in the middle did things begin to fall apart. It is
also true that Danny really did want to get back together
again, but when it became obvious that couldn't happen, he
correctly had to close the door on that part of his history
lest it destroy him and the ministry.


The divorce was a mutually agreed thing, even the choice to
get it from Guam where there would be no long wait. Linda had
originally planned to move to Las Vegas long enough to become
a resident there so as to get a divorce there. They then
discovered the possibility of a divorce from Guam, checked it
out and found it to be legal, and decided to go that route.
Though I believe Guam has now stopped the program, the
legality of a Guam divorce had previously been taken to the
U.S. Supreme Court where it was ruled legitimate. As chairman
of the board, I did not try to influence the decision, but I
will say that had they not obtained a quick divorce, the
ministry would have been placed at much greater risk since the
situation was causing so much dysfunction with leadership and
staff. I believe time has verified the correctness of what was
done then, both by Danny and by the board for the ministry.

Linda's web site recently stated that she and Danny were not
divorced. She wrote this after the judge made the decision in
Danny's favor. She claims she did not know this when she wrote
it. Her web site referred to an e mail I sent to Johann
Thorvaldson a year earlier saying that I had never accused her
of adultery. I believe that exchange with him was in response
to an accusation by him that we had fired her because of
adultery. I was merely saying that she was not fired for
adultery, but because she had defied the board in not
discontinuing a relationship that was threatening to destroy
the ministry. (I might add that the doctor also told me he
would not break off the relationship, even though I pled with
him to do so.) That letter to Johann was correct, and it is
true that I have never directly accused her of adultery. That
does not mean that I believe Linda is innocent. If by adultery
one must be caught in bed with another person, I cannot prove
Linda has committed adultery. If, on the other hand, hard
evidence indicates that Linda was involved in an unacceptable
relationship with another man qualifies for adultery, then
there is no question about Danny's moral right to marry again.
As a board, we have chosen not to make the details of the
evidence available to the public. I believe Satan is the
accuser of the brethern. We have chosen to take the "high
road" in this whole situation and say nothing more than we
have been forced to say to try to quell rumors. We care about
Linda and have tried not to do anything to hurt her more than
she has already been hurt. I can tell you that I personally
spent a great deal of time at 3ABN during those months when
this was all happening. I spoke with Linda and Danny on
numerous occasions. A sub committee of the board met and
prayed with Danny and Linda and pled with Linda to call off
the relationship. Danny and Linda spent an 8 hour session with
a pair of Christian counselors (non-Adventist in an attempt to
avoid bias) who had no doubts about the nature of Linda's
conduct. We offered to provide Linda with the opportunity to
go away for counseling with a counselor agreeable to both she
and us. She did not respond to that offer or request. Finally,
the full board met, reviewed Linda's letter of explanation,
and voted unanimously to remove her from the ministry and her
seat on the board. Other church leaders who have been privy to
some of the evidence we have are in full agreement with our​
decision.

The relationship Linda had with the Norwegian Dr. was not a
normal doctor-patient relationship as she claims. It is true.
Linda was very concerned about her son Nathan. He was the
vehicle through which the Dr. reached Linda. Our evidence
leaves no question that this became much more than a
doctor-patient relationship. We know that the long hours on
the phone together were not about Nathan and have hard
evidence to support this knowledge - nor were times spent
together on both sides of the Atlantic. Furthermore, she
refused to break it off, even after weeks of pleading with her
to do so. We, the board believe the evidence we have clearly
justifies the divorce and gives Danny the moral and legal
right to remarry. Those in church leadership with whom we have
shared some of this evidence agree with us. Out of concern for
Linda we have been reluctant to make details public.

No, Danny is not to blame for what has happened here. On the
contrary, he has bent over backwards trying to make things
work and meeting her requests. Yet, she has never acknowledged
that it was wrong for her to have another "friend".

The things I have stated here are accurate and correct. As far
as the lady Danny has married is concerned, I can only say I
believe his new wife is a very good person and will be a real
asset to him as he carries on his heavy responsibilities. Just
to clarify any rumor you may have heard, this relationship
began long after the divorce. I was at 3ABN when this lady
came from Florida looking for work. There was nothing going on
before that time, and Danny definitely was not trying to
"dump" Linda. I was with him during much of the time he
agonized and mourned her loss. It is one thing to lose a loved
one in death. It is much different to lose one to another
lover - like cutting a dog's tail off one inch at a time! As
to the matter of age difference, I will say that I do not
believe that is any of my business. I find nothing in the
Bible, and I don't remember any thing in the SOP indicating
age differences for married couples. If it is legal, and
morally correct, and if entered into with honesty, sincerity
and earnest prayer for God's guidance, as I know happened
here, it is not for me to criticize. In my own musings about
this, I have concluded that it was no accident that brought
Brandy to 3ABN. Either the devil was behind it, or God was.
There is no question in my mind which one it was.

(Archo Dart was for many years a family and marriage counselor
in the Adventist church. When in his 80's, he married one of
my patients, who was then in her 50's. She loved and admired
him till death many years later.)

I have had an interesting thought this week that I will share
with you. It is this. God lost one of his closest companions
when Lucifer went astray. More than that, myriads more angels
left with him when he left heaven. Talk about grief or
emotional pain. Experiences such as this with Linda, I think,
help us to understand the pain of loss, and the reality of the
war between God and Satan. Some have claimed it takes two to
divorce. I don't think that is categorically true!
This has been a terrible injury that has hit 3abn and Danny,
and yes, Linda too, but it is one that I believe God
understands - and He continues to bless his servants.

We recognize that we live in a world at war, and are working
with a ministry that the devil would like to see destroyed.
The war is real, and as in any other war there are real
casualties. War is never pleasant, and spiritual battles may
be some of the worst. Our hearts still ache for those who have
been wounded. Our prayers continue to ascend on their behalf.
Should acknowledgement of wrongdoing and penitence ever occur,
we would be the first to forgive and forget. Unfortunately,
that has not happened, and we must move on.

Some who have been aware of the growing relationship and the
possibility of marriage have thought they should wait for a
longer period of time before marrying. In discussions before
the event, the 3ABN board reviewed the events of the past
couple years and have agreed that there was no moral or legal
reason precluding marriage. Realizing the heavy burdens
resting on Danny and of his need for companionship, we, the
board did not see any reason not to give our blessing to their
union. We hope you, our 3ABN family, will agree too, and with
us, welcome Brandy with open arms.

Should you have any questions that I might answer, please feel
free to send them to me at 3ABN and I will do my best to try
to answer them.

Sincerely in the precious name of Jesus,
Walter Thompson
Chairman, 3ABN Board of Directors
Walter Thompson MD​

Statement 2
Nicodema,

Your e mail was forewarded to me to view. Thanks for your interest in 3ABN. The tone of discussions on the forum is heartening.

Unfortunately, I do not know how to add significantly to what the letter already says. While it is true that Danny and Linda are public figures and therefore open for discussion by the public, that fact does not free those of us in positions of responsibility both legally and more importantly out of concern, compassion, and love for those on the "hot seat". Actions taken at 3ABN have been essential, as anyone knowing the facts would agree, but rather than risk hurting anyone more than has already happened, we have chosen to remain silent on personal issues. Truth has a way of revealing itself to those who are seeking. The primary purpose of the letter was to let our supporters know why they were not seeing Linda any more, and to try and present a case to state that she had been treated with the utmost love, concern, patience, and Compassion. None of us wanted to do what we needed to do. Danny and Linda were counseled by a good number of individuals, both professional counselors, board members, pastors, Church leaders, etc.. None were successful in resolving the issues.

Fortunately, about 95% of our mail is supportive.

A couple other issues were noted in the discussions. Financially, 3ABN is doing OK and continues to enter new markets regularly. We recently began broadcasting via cable to about a quarter billion people in India and are working on an opportuntiy to reach SouthEast Asia. For those who read the article "Flying High" in Adventist Today, you may be interested to read my response to the editor in the latest issue.

As regards structural organization let me say that this experience does give us opportunity to take a new look at things. We have known for some time that we needed to take some of the load off Danny and Linda and let them do what they do best. In fact we had a consultant review the organization a year or so ago just for that reason. A few changes followed that, but it made little real difference. Contacts have already been made for a more comprehensive evaluation to be done, and in anticipation, temporary changes have already been made in some areas. 3ABN's greatest mission lies ahead, and we intend to meet the challenges by the Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Walter Thompson MD
 
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Kay Kuzma Evidence

Statement 1

Kay wrote:
Dear Stan: God has put a spiritual "hole" in each of our hearts that can be filled by Him. When it is, we will be so bonded that we will give up family, career, everything for Him. God has given us marriage to understand how two people can become one--so we can better understand the trinity, but the spiritual "hole" shouldn't be filled with a human.

Unfortunately, if the hole is filled with another person, problems are created--especially if the person is not one's spouse! That's why we have so many pastors leaving the church--they have allowed their spiritual hole to be filled with another person whom they are helping spiritually. Too much Bible study and spiritual counseling with persons of the opposite sex can lead to emotional dependence and the person is willing to give up everything for this person. This is basically what Spiritual Adultery is. No, there does not have to be physical contact. However, in most cases it leads to that because as a man spends time meeting a woman's emotional needs, he unconsciously feels there should be a sexual payoff. And when a woman's emotional needs are met, she is more open to a sexual relationship.

Here's a book I think may be helpful. Spiritual Adultery by Charles H. Dove. You can get it through Amazon.com

Sincerely, Kay
Statement 2

Date: 9/19/2004 11:02:36 AM Pacific Daylight Time
From: KAYKUZMA@aol.com
To: StanMcCluskey
Stan, I had heard there was a book on spiritual adultery. I mistakenly went up on Amazon.com and found the one by Dove--thinking that was the one that had been recommended to me. I made a mistake. The Christian book on spiritual adultery is really called, Why Some Christians Commit Adultery, by John Loren Sandford. Again, I have not read the book. I have no idea who Dove is...never read a word from him...and like you, I never want to! I'm sure glad you're the only person I've mentioned that book to!!!! Innocent mistakes can too easily become mountains! Kay

Statement 3​
Originally published on​
BlackSDA.com 08-16-04​
Dear Calvin, I have become aware that your site published Johann Thorvaldsson's article about "The Story of Linda Shelton." Since I am mentioned in that article, I thought you might be interested in publishing a response to correct the misinformation given about my involvement. If you need to call me, my # is xxx-xxx-xxxx. Thank you. Kay Kuzma

Here is my statement:

To those who may question my involvement with 3ABN and the circumstances which led up to Linda Shelton leaving 3ABN:

Yes, I was involved in what happened at 3ABN concerning Linda however the internet article in which you read about my involvement titled "The Story of Linda Shelton" by Johann Thorvaldsson, is saturated with the writer's biased personal perceptions and has very little to do with what actually happened. I was there - I know. Rather than address each falsehood, which would be too time consuming, I will simply address the three major errors concerning me:

Here is what was printed about me: "Long before Linda's dismissal, Dr. Kay Kuzma was assigned to help Linda manage after being fired. She was also supposed to interview staff members to find a good reason to fire her, so one wonders what really is behind this upheaval?"

Here is what actually happened:

1) I was not brought in early - in fact, I was brought in during the last six weeks after Danny and Linda had been in months of counseling with professionals - with Linda still refusing to follow what the counselors suggested, i.e., unanimously the counselors told her that she would have to give up her relationship with the doctor in Norway who she was spending up to six hours each day talking with.

2) I was not brought in to help Linda "manage" after she was fired - she was never fired. The committee I was on (and later the Board) repeatedly gave her opportunity to talk with them trying to bring resolution and restoration to both her ministry at 3ABN and her marriage. She refused at every point. There was never discussion concerning "firing" Linda when I became involved - only a discussion on how to help her. There was such a concern for Linda's reputation that the entire Board was not initially notified about the situation until it became an absolute necessity to do so. I was on a small committee of two Board members, the 3ABN attorney, and myself. The small committee's discussion centered on how to save Linda for ministry. Linda talked to me one time and refused any further contact I tried to make with her.

3) I was NOT asked by 3ABN to interview staff concerning Linda. Linda, herself, asked me to talk with the staff. She even gave me the specific names of the people she wanted me to talk with. The results from the interviews with the employees Linda suggested weren't flattering to her. When I tried to get back with her, she refused to answer my calls.

The overwhelming error in Mr. Thorvaldsson's account of the events surrounding Linda Shelton's departure from 3ABN gives witness to the fact that his observation was from many thousands of miles away and only receiving his information from the two involved in the duplicity. Hopefully it has become apparent to you, as I pointed out the error contained in these three lines alone, that this entire article is full of misinformation. If you would like specific answers to any other point, I'll be happy to share. God is good and truth will prevail even though there are those who are trying to stir up controversy.

I believe the most important thing to understand is that eventually the fruit of a person's decisions will become evident. Although I will not comment further about what happened to lead up to Linda's departure from 3ABN, we know that the other man had been to the States and spent time with Linda before she left Danny, and that immediately after she left Danny, the other man was with Linda. A few weeks later they spent time traveling together through Europe.

Please remember, 3ABN is not Danny or Linda's ministry - it is God's, and every day we all see incredible miracles as God is moving His ministry forward. It's been a very difficult time - as we all love Linda and recognize how much God used her in her role as co-host with Danny. God truly gifted her with the ability to write beautiful songs that have been a tremendous blessing to thousands.

Thanks for remembering 3ABN in your prayers - and thanks for not sharing Mr. Thorvaldsson's article with anyone else - since I know you don't want to be a part of spreading misinformation.

Sincerely,

Kay Kuzma​
Statement 4 KAY KUZMA ANSWERS QUESTIONS

As you remember, I emailed her a couple of days ago.... here is her response to me....

"Steve, You have errored in judging my role at 3ABN to be a "counselor." It was not. Just thought you ought to know before publishing your account. Thanks for checking with me. You have some interesting comments. They serve little purpose, however, if you have not checked out the truth of your theories with the people involved. God bless, Kay "


To refresh your memory here is my email to her... I am disappointed with her response, but expected as much.... Note that I never said that she was a counselor at 3ABN.

Dear Dr. Kuzma,
I have read your response to the members that frequent BlackSDA regarding the recent happenings at 3ABN. While I can only assume your intentions were noble, your response appeared to suggest Mr. Shelton was the "innocent victim" while Linda Shelton was completely at fault. I question the wisdom of you sharing the particulars in this situation given your vocation as a counselor. From your response it appears that you were not counseling Linda, and if that is the case then confidentiality would not be an issue, however as a fellow christian it would seem that you would have erred on the side of caution and not shared what your perceptions were. One could conclude from your response that Linda was deeply involved in an illicit relationship that she refused to end.

As a counselor you know that people who are forced into counseling are usually resistant to counseling. You are probably also aware that the person who is taken to a counselor is usually not the one who needs counseling, that it may be the whole family who is in need. I seriously question your motives for making your response public and indirectly supporting Mr. Shelton in this situation. No one has shared what Mr. Shelton did, or what his actions were though all this, and the onesidedness of the reports is inherently unfair. I am disappointed that you would add fuel to the fires of speculation and in essence accuse Mrs. Shelton of something she has repeatedly denied.

I do not expect a response because you don't have to justify your actions to me. I will be sharing my email with those members of BlackSDA just to let them know that I think your actions were not appropriate, highly questionable, and added nothing constructive to this mess. As a Christian I think God would have us take the higher road, and because you have had years of counseling it seems that you would have known better.....

Sincerely,

Steve Claborn​
Here is what actually happened:

...Linda still refusing to follow what the counselors suggested, i.e., unanimously the counselors told her that she would have to give up her relationship with the doctor in Norway who she was spending up to six hours each day talking with.

... She refused at every point. ...Linda talked to me one time and refused any further contact I tried to make with her.
... The results from the interviews with the employees Linda suggested weren't flattering to her. When I tried to get back with her, she refused to answer my calls.

... If you would like specific answers to any other point, I'll be happy to share. ...

Although I will not comment further about what happened to lead up to Linda's departure from 3ABN, we know that the other man had been to the States and spent time with Linda before she left Danny, and that immediately after she left Danny, the other man was with Linda. A few weeks later they spent time traveling together through Europe.

Kay Kuzma​
 
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Offical 3 ABN statements
Because of decisions Linda Shelton has made that have taken her in a different direction than that of the ministry, the Board of Directors of Three Angels Broadcasting Network (3ABN) regrets to say that she is no longer an employee of 3ABN.
 
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GOSSIP does have a cruel way of distorting the truth, doesn't it?:sigh:
i was just curious how she made her conclusion but after reading her quote more carefully i see she said "after the divorce was "declared valid" in the US " which i think was about a year later. it was my error in misunderstanding her statement.
i think d.s. treated l.s. terribly. a good christian man would not treat his wife so harshly simply based on jealousy and suspision. l.s. was thrown out of her home, her job, her ministry and her life; and for what? a bunch of allegations and suspision. to my knowledge there has never been any evidence shown. a person who spies on their spouse, makes accusations, demands control over them and then gets numerous other people involved who are just as unwilling to listen and show compassion and understanding and RESPECT for her reasoning as he does, does not have love. too much power is a destroyer & i sincerely believe d.s. needs a break from 3abn to check back into reality before he brings 3abn down with him; and 3abn needs a break as well. there seem to be quite a few people working over there that need mending and if they don't see it and get 'it' they risk losing 3abn completely. even if what d.s. and others have accused l.s. of doing is true and they have undeniable evidence of this wrongdoing, then they should still show compassion, understanding, forgiveness and love and try to "mend" the wound. isn't that what they preach? it doesn't appear anyone tried to do any mending. they all tried to force and control what d.s. wanted and that is serious wrongdoing as well.
d.s either has had a nervous breakdown and lost all his senses or he has a very unforgiving and spiteful heart or he has ulterior motives. l.s. was just thrown to the lions and it looks a bit too orchestrated to me. it's all deeply saddening, disturbing, depressing and unsettling. above and beyond all the individuals involved, however, my greatest concern is the properity of 3abn and that it stays "GOD'S MISSION".
 
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This is pretty funny from the latest Adventist Today Newsbreak. It seems to me to be revealing about the thinking over at 3ABN.

ADVENTIST NEWS Round up The Law of Unintended Consequences:
AToday Story on 3ABN Relations with West Frankfort
By Ervin Taylor, Adventist Today Executive Editor (27 February 2007)
In a recent news item, Adventist Today reported on relationships of the 3ABN organization and Mr. Danny Shelton with his home town of West Frankfort, Illinois. Under the headline “Southern Illinois Hometown City Leaders Laud Danny Shelton’s Support,” the AToday news item stated that Mr. Shelton is “very willing to lend a helping hand financially to the civic needs of his boyhood town” including support for a local “home for abused women and children.” We also reported that a “donation by 3ABN and Shelton that was the catalyst for a peer-mentoring program to begin on [the local high school] campus.”
AToday is in receipt of a transcript containing statements recently made during a portion of a program on the 3ABN network in which Mr. Shelton and, Dr. Walter Thompson, the chairman of the 3ABN Board, participated. According to this transcript of remarks they made live on the air, Dr. Thompson stated “One of the things we have been criticized [by Adventist Today] for [is] helping our community, for supporting our community, and being involved in it…”
Here is the background to the story. AToday was informed that Mr. Shelton and 3ABN enjoyed good relations with at least one neighboring town. The AToday Executive Editor was aware of the allegations that AToday was only interested in negative stories about Mr. Shelton and 3ABN. Although these accusations were and are untrue, a conscious editorial decision was made to pursue a story about 3ABN and/or Mr. Shelton which would be viewed by any reasonable reader in a positive light. An AToday Assistant Editor visited the area and interviewed members of the West Frankfort community. The data that he collected confirmed what had been reported to AToday. The story was duly written and distributed by means of an ATNewsbreak report and on the AToday web site.
The publication of what the AToday Executive Editor assumed would be positively received was immediately attacked and criticized by Mr. Shelton and Dr. Thompson. It appears that we have here yet another illustration of the “Law of Unintended Consequences.” The AToday Executive Editor has learned a valuable lesson. Continue to simply report the facts and don’t worry about how the facts will be interpreted.
 
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