Need some other christian wives' opinion here. My husband & I have been married for over 25 years, strong believers. 2 kids - one in college, one in high school. We run a retail business together. I have always been the "stronger" Christian, while my husband seems to constantly waver in his Christian walk. He also admits to being a typical male, sometimes clueless on the subtle hints that I try to drop. We had a 2nd business for a few years that really put a strain on our marriage - that closed down in 2014 but still are dealing with the financial strain on our 1st business & personal finances. Recently, our "closeness" with talking, spending time outside of our business together, doing date nights, just about anything outside of work has gone to zero. I have requested we do things together to keep our relationship close, not necessarily costly, and he says sure, but he never acts on those suggestions. I do spend a lot of my rare out-of-business time with our high school daughter, as she is dealing with a lot of emotional issues. I have tried to balance work, kids, house work and free time, and it seems like our marriage has taken a back seat to everything. He makes time every day after work for at least 90 minutes to take our dog out for a walk or to the dog park, but doesn't spend even 30 minutes with me uninterrupted. Now just this week, I have been getting to our business early to do office work (as we usually come at different times), and when he arrives, I don't even get a "hello" kiss (I often leave our house before he's even awake - he's not a morning person and is often not up until after 8am). I don't want to be the whining wife that is looking for attention all the time, so I haven't said anything - I've been encouraged by my pastors (a husband & wife team that I admire) to never give into complaining over the years, and to never stop praying for him, which I will never do. How do I get across to him my needs for attention, even just a peck on the cheek or a "how are you doing today?" I have to also say that our sex life has slowed down to a nonexistent thing, which has gotten me very concerned. For years, this area has been a bit of a battle for us - I want a more romance, and he wants his needs met. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated.