I recently got married and moved out of the house and into an apartment with my wife. I've been living with my parents all my life and it was just me and my sister who's now in college so she doesn't really live at home anymore.
Before getting married, I was giving my Dad $700 out of my $1900 paycheck every month to help pay for the house or what he says.
Now that I'm out of the house and having to pay my own bills(we still have a lot of debt from the wedding) I'm afraid I won't be able to help my parents anymore until our debts go down. My wife was not so thrill about me helping and I can understand where she's coming from. The thing is I don't know how to say no to my parents. My mom keeps asking me to help and I just don't know what to say anymore.
Can you guys help me on how to approach this the proper way without making anybody mad?
Before getting married, I was giving my Dad $700 out of my $1900 paycheck every month to help pay for the house or what he says.
Now that I'm out of the house and having to pay my own bills(we still have a lot of debt from the wedding) I'm afraid I won't be able to help my parents anymore until our debts go down. My wife was not so thrill about me helping and I can understand where she's coming from. The thing is I don't know how to say no to my parents. My mom keeps asking me to help and I just don't know what to say anymore.
Can you guys help me on how to approach this the proper way without making anybody mad?