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Your sex is determined by what is between your legs when you are born...

Discussion in 'Controversial Christian Theology' started by Neogaia777, Dec 19, 2018.

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  1. Neogaia777

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    Your sex is determined by what is between your legs when you are born... I't's time to grow up, and away with this complete and total fantasy and strong delusion that you can choose to be or be your own sex or whatever... It's time you dealt with reality...

    Your sex is determined by what is between your legs when you are born...

    Now, do you think that if one is born a male, that he instantly is a boy or becomes a man, instantly or overnight...? Or that if one is born female that she instantly becomes a woman overnight...?

    No, that does not happen... but/and is not only is determined by what's between your legs when you are born (or biology) but/and also is something you have to "learn" and "grow into", or learn about (sometimes all of your life), so as to become, ect... It does not happen overnight and sometimes it is not easy either, and I think that it's not being easy sometimes, confuses many people, and now is told by society that maybe they are not a man or woman, or male or female, only adding to the confusion...

    Your sex is not a choice, you are what you are or what is between your legs when you are born, it's time you dealt with reality...

    Now there can effeminate males, or more masculate or masculine females, but this does not mean they are not what sex they are, or were born as, and this also adds to the confusion...

    We should be able to make room for these no matter what way they are, but not tell them they are not (a) male or otherwise not (a) female because of it, cause that is a lie and is just not true...

    What do you think...?

    Comments...?

    God Bless!
     
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  2. Lost4words

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    I agree. God made us as we are. We have to accept who we are and what God has given us.
     
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  3. Tolworth John

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    Your genes at conception.
     
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  4. Neogaia777

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    A lot of this confusion comes from the questions "What is (a) man, and What is (a) woman...?" And apart from each other, who are they, and are there differences ect, and in every case or not, ect...? Cause we see women wanting to become like men, and now, more men wanting to become like women, ect, or we see a woman being more of a man than most men, or a man being more of a woman than most women (now, or is coming, ect)...

    And this confusion has led to the world and society saying their is no difference in the sexes at all, and you can choose to be whichever one you want to be, ect... But the world says this basically, not only out of all the confusion it's in over and about this, but at it's loss for words and/or ideas not being able to figure it out...

    So, we need to figure it our then, right...?

    Are there any clear cut distinctions of what a man, or otherwise a woman, is...? and are there any clear differences between the two that would allow us to both distinguish and define both sexes for sure...

    That's what we have to answer for sure if were to turn the time or this massive madness by the world involving sex and the sexes...

    Either way you are what you are when you are born and you do not get to choose, so you must, if not define it for everybody, define it for yourself and endeavor to become it all your life if you have to... and your confusion about that, should not be confusion about who or what sex you are, or who or what sex you were born as or with...

    Because that's just ridiculous...? And why...? Because it's not "easy"...? Well, for either one it was not meant to be "easy", but that does not mean you get to choose...

    This (fill in the blank) society think that if it's not easy, then must not be right, or must be wrong, because it's not easy... Well, that is a bunch of crap as well... Oftentimes, the greatest blessing and the most rewards comes from "things and stuff" that is not easy, or very easy at all... When did we forget that...?

    God Bless!
     
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  5. Neogaia777

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    Same thing...

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  7. Neogaia777

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    Sex is another issue we are confused about... After and because of the fall, sex became a violent aggressive act, especially by the males towards the females, and sex got mixed in with violence and aggression, and that affected all of creation, and is shown in fallen creation...

    I had two pet rats, one male and one female. I got them young, and before they figured sex out, but when they did, the male just went after the female once he felt or started feeling the "urges" and there was very little to anything the female could do about it of course. I could tell she was scared at first, when the male first started chasing her around with this new "thing" (sex) in mind, she was scared at first and ran away and tried to get away from him, Maybe thought he was trying to harm her or had harm in mind, not knowing the change that had happened or was happening within him, she was scared at first, but then, of course he eventually "got her" and I don't think she fully knew what was going on, but she also couldn't deny that she kind of enjoyed it or at least some of it or some aspects of it... Does that make her a whore...?

    Anyway, after that, she would still I think "pretend" to try and get away from him or make him chase her, and I believe I even caught her "teasing him" a few times like it was some kind of game... But, the male was only interested in one thing (I know, so typical right?) Anyway, the male was only interested in one thing, but the female wanted to, I think, "draw it out" sometimes and turn it into some kind of game (little foreplay or romance maybe) or something, but the male really was not very interested in any of that at all, but went along with it due to what he wanted to get out of it...

    But, that is basically sex for males and females in a fallen world and reality, Her desire would be for the male (and not just for sex, but for him, and because she wanted and was interested in him for him) Anyway, Her desire would be for the male, but the male, (not very interested in any of that), would dominate her, after that, (mistreat, abuse, violate, even rape her sometimes), or at least in nature with most or a lot of, now fallen animals or creatures, that/this is what we see...

    I think sex existed before the fall, but got mixed up or in with violence and aggressive tendencies (and perversion or got perverted) after the fall, when the whole sex issue got or became very dark and sick, but not before that, before that it was totally unselfish, not at all violent, and highly pleasurable, with no guilt, regret, or shame attached to it at all, and not sick or perverted at all, but, after the fall, that all changed of course... To what we can see now just looking at male and female animals in nature...

    Anyway,

    God Bless!
     
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  8. Neogaia777

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    Nowadays though, now the females are becoming as bad, even sexually, as the males are or were or have always been since the fall...

    Perversities abound now because of all of "this" (that we have been talking about)...

    I say these things to try and determine what makes a male a male, and what makes a female and female, and where that went wrong or got lost, cause we've forgotten or lost it/that, and we may have to dig, or it might get kind of dark, or we may have to go way back to figure it out...

    God Bless!
     
  9. Neogaia777

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    The female is deceived into thinking that's the way or is how a male shows his Love, but that is not how the male shows his love, and it is really, not even about love at all, to him (the sex, or sex act)... It was just about biology and primitive urges, and little to nothing more or to do with love or real love, but the female was deceived into thinking there was "more" or should be much more to it (the sex act) than what the male was probably thinking...

    So, females will try to get males to love them by giving them sex, but that won't work forever or for very long, and there will have to be much more to it (your guys relationship) than that, or it won't be good and will not last...

    So, since males are like this, how does a male show his love, for a female, or in general...? And should we still look to some animals in nature for the answers...?

    And also, how are females to be, think, act, ect, and again, should we still look to animals in nature for the answers...?

    Will it solve any of our confusion if we do...?

    God Bless!

    Oh, and some males will try to trick some females into thinking this is not how it is for them, and if the males actually believe it, they are very immature, and you will probably find them out to be a bit "childish" as well, but otherwise some men will try to trick females into thinking things are not that way no like that or this with them, and they will most often do this, cause they don't want the female to think less of them, ect...

    But, I think it's time they knew the truth...

    And in a fallen reality, males are predators, but they do love, but how do they love or show love is the question...? Cause most of things people (especially females) think about this is wrong... And it's partly the males fault for trying to trick and deceive them for so very long and not just telling them the straight up truth...

    God Bless!
     
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  11. Neogaia777

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    That's the one and only time you would get to choose, the one and only time, and does not mean everyone else gets to... That is very rare and is genetic abnormality/mutation/error that is very rare, and in that case and that case only you get to choose to be either, either/or or remain as both... But that is the only time or case, and other than that, you do not get to choose...
     
  12. Neogaia777

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    Males will be jealous and will protect you and your/the family, but in a fallen world, only if you allow or subject yourself to be as a possession to them, otherwise they will not and how could they anyway...?

    God Bless!
     
  13. SkyWriting

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    Everyone knows that the "self" is between the ears. Everyone knows that.
    Not a single person needs to see between their legs to decide how to
    act or what to do. Not one person.

    If that were so then 1 of 10 who has "Unusual" genitalia would be confused.
    Those with "Ambiguous" genitalia (.05%) quite messed up.
    Nobody looks down first.

    In the next life, gender is not even considered.
    Galatians 3:28
     
  14. mark kennedy

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    Not according to the article:

    Not XX and not XY one in 1,666 births
    Klinefelter (XXY) one in 1,000 births
    Androgen insensitivity syndrome one in 13,000 births
    Partial androgen insensitivity syndrome one in 130,000 births
    Classical congenital adrenal hyperplasia one in 13,000 births
    Late onset adrenal hyperplasia one in 66 individuals
    Vaginal agenesis one in 6,000 births
    Ovotestes one in 83,000 births
    Idiopathic (no discernable medical cause) one in 110,000 births
    Iatrogenic (caused by medical treatment, for instance progestin administered to pregnant mother) no estimate
    5 alpha reductase deficiency no estimate
    Mixed gonadal dysgenesis no estimate
    Complete gonadal dysgenesis one in 150,000 births
    Hypospadias (urethral opening in perineum or along penile shaft) one in 2,000 births
    Hypospadias (urethral opening between corona and tip of glans penis) one in 770 births

    Total number of people whose bodies differ from standard male or female one in 100 births
    Total number of people receiving surgery to “normalize” genital appearance one or two in 1,000 births
    That doesn't sound 'very rare' to me.
     
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  15. Neogaia777

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    If biologically, in your chromosomes or genes or even your chemical makeup in your body or brain, you are male or otherwise female, then it is what it is and you don't get to choose...

    And to do so goes against nature AND your own biology or makeup inside as well...

    You cannot think yourself male or female so it's not between the ears... You might be able to be deceived into thinking that, but it just will not be true nor ever be true, people need to embrace the sex they are and get the differences between the sexes figured out, so that they can be both who they really are inside and who they were meant to be as well, which will be what your born as...

    And, all this other "stuff" (crap) is not helping...

    God Bless!
     
  16. blackribbon

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    Either your sex is determined by your genitalia...or it isn't. I say that is only part of the picture since some babies are not born with clear male or female genitalia. I say your genetic profile is a better determinate (XX or XY)... however, it has been discovered that some people have more than one genetic makeup from absorbing a twin in uterine and then a single person can have male and female genetic make up in different parts of their body. Maybe a person could have a male brain and female genitalia in that case.

    Personally, I think it is a waste of time to worry about whether or not your neighbor is male or female unless you intended on marrying them. The rest is really none of your business and not something to waste your time worrying about. Who cares and why do you care? There is so many better things to spend your time thinking about.
     
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  17. Neogaia777

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    Most of your numbers are very rare... But, it doesn't matter, if your born with something like that, or that clearly leaves you with a choice, then you can choose, but that doesn't mean everyone else can or should be able to choose, who has not been given that choice...

    Other than that people need to embrace the sex they are born as, and always seek to both define and become it, and all this other "crap" or stuff is keeping people from doing that, and that's what irritates me... None of are really growing or developing in our male or femaleness (if there is or you believe there is such a thing) and that and none of this is good at all...

    God Bless!
     
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  18. Neogaia777

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    I'm worried about society...

    Were taking a huge risk if we allow everyone to choose, or teach our children that they can choose, ect... After all what if they want to change it and go back and forth, what then...?

    What makes a male a male and what makes a female a female, or is there no difference...?

    Society says that there is no difference, and that nothing makes a male of male or makes a female a female, or vice-versa or whatever, but what do you say...?

    It is that (above) that if we do not get or answer, anyway, it's got me very worried...

    God Bless!
     
  19. Dave-W

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    Interestingly, in a day when knowledge of such things as chromosomes and genes were centuries in the future, Jewish sages recognized 6 different "genders." The Mishnah was published circa 200 ad and the Talmuds were published circa 500 ad.

    Sefaria Source Sheet: More Than Just Male and Female: The Six Genders in Ancient Jewish Thought

    More Than Just Male and Female: The Six Genders in Classical Judaism

    • Zachar/זָכָר: This term is derived from the word for a pointy sword and refers to a phallus. It is usually translated as “male” in English.
    • Nekeivah/נְקֵבָה: This term is derived from the word for a crevice and probably refers to a vaginal opening. It is usually translated as “female” in English.
    • Androgynos/אַנְדְּרוֹגִינוֹס: A person who has both “male” and “female” sexual characteristics. 149 references in Mishna and Talmud (1st-8th Centuries CE); 350 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes (2nd -16th Centuries CE).
    • Tumtum/ טֻומְטוּם A person whose sexual characteristics are indeterminate or obscured. 181 references in Mishna and Talmud; 335 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.
    • Ay’lonit/איילונית: A person who is identified as “female” at birth but develops “male” characteristics at puberty and is infertile. 80 references in Mishna and Talmud; 40 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.
    • Saris/סריס: A person who is identified as “male” at birth but develops “female” characteristics as puberty and/or is lacking a penis. A saris can be “naturally” a saris (saris hamah), or become one through human intervention (saris adam). 156 references in mishna and Talmud; 379 in classical midrash and Jewish law codes.
     
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    Jesus said, "from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’" Mark 10:6 To reject one's gender is to reject God.
     
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