How much do you interact with your SO's family? How much does you SO interact with yours?
My parents live pretty close, and if I have a boyfriend, it's pretty much expected he become 'one of the family' - they always meet him fairly soon after it becomes 'official' (ie serious) - and I wouldn't have it any other way!
His parents live about 1000 miles from us, and his brother about 500 miles, so we don't see them much, but whenever he visits, I've gone along too, and most phonecalls to his mum end up with me chatting to them too (this used to happen before we were dating as well).
I was surprised to read in one of the engagement threads some posts that hinted that this isn't the same for a lot of couples -that times like Christmas just involve the two of them, and then them with their parents separately. My parents would be very upset if I didn't introduce my partner to them (after we were serious), and wouldn't dream of not inviting him when I get invited to dinner - especially Christmas!
So, what kind of relationship do you and your SOs have with the other's family?
Sasch
My parents live pretty close, and if I have a boyfriend, it's pretty much expected he become 'one of the family' - they always meet him fairly soon after it becomes 'official' (ie serious) - and I wouldn't have it any other way!
His parents live about 1000 miles from us, and his brother about 500 miles, so we don't see them much, but whenever he visits, I've gone along too, and most phonecalls to his mum end up with me chatting to them too (this used to happen before we were dating as well).
I was surprised to read in one of the engagement threads some posts that hinted that this isn't the same for a lot of couples -that times like Christmas just involve the two of them, and then them with their parents separately. My parents would be very upset if I didn't introduce my partner to them (after we were serious), and wouldn't dream of not inviting him when I get invited to dinner - especially Christmas!
So, what kind of relationship do you and your SOs have with the other's family?
Sasch