Hi everyone I have a bit of a problem. I am unsure weather it is a good idea for my boyfriend and I to get engaged any time in the near future.
I would like to start out by saying that we are both 18 years old and seniors in high school. We have only been "dating" for 7 months but we have been "courting" for about 10.5. By courting i mean that we started out as friends. As we began to notice our growing attraction to eachother we talked about it and decided that we both valued our friendship more than a short romantic fling that could have been the result if we took our relationship past the platonic level. After this conversation we both continued to grow closer to eachother untill the point that we were having a hard time refrianing form acting like romantic couple. At this point we had another conversation and we decided that it was time for him to ask my father if he could date me.
We are both strong christians, and we have similar backgrounds, we were both homeschooled untill high school when we both started at the same school as freshmen.
We really do ( i hate to say this and sound like just another teen age girl) love eachother and both of our familys like eachother. My parents like him but they have reservations "we like him, just not for our little girl to marry" his family likes me, but I am his first girl friend and he is the youngest so his mother is a little protective.
We both have plans for college but they are in diffrent towns, 3hours away from eachother.
I have been praying about it but am still unsure.
My question is, should we get engaged soon? we both want the same things in our married lifes, but are we too young? and is it too soon? it has only been 7 months of acctual dating.
I would like to start out by saying that we are both 18 years old and seniors in high school. We have only been "dating" for 7 months but we have been "courting" for about 10.5. By courting i mean that we started out as friends. As we began to notice our growing attraction to eachother we talked about it and decided that we both valued our friendship more than a short romantic fling that could have been the result if we took our relationship past the platonic level. After this conversation we both continued to grow closer to eachother untill the point that we were having a hard time refrianing form acting like romantic couple. At this point we had another conversation and we decided that it was time for him to ask my father if he could date me.
We are both strong christians, and we have similar backgrounds, we were both homeschooled untill high school when we both started at the same school as freshmen.
We really do ( i hate to say this and sound like just another teen age girl) love eachother and both of our familys like eachother. My parents like him but they have reservations "we like him, just not for our little girl to marry" his family likes me, but I am his first girl friend and he is the youngest so his mother is a little protective.
We both have plans for college but they are in diffrent towns, 3hours away from eachother.
I have been praying about it but am still unsure.
My question is, should we get engaged soon? we both want the same things in our married lifes, but are we too young? and is it too soon? it has only been 7 months of acctual dating.