SongOnTheWind
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In post #76,
You said that it is for YOUR OWN SAKE that you feed and bathe your children
You said that it is for YOUR OWN SAKE that you assign bedtimes and ensure they are educated
You said that it is for YOUR OWN SAKE that you would stand between them and harm
You said that it is for YOUR OWN SAKE that you would lay down your own life for them
I don't believe you!
I think you misspoke
Don't get me wrong, I've no doubt that what you feel and do for your kids provides you with a certain satisfaction, but I don't for one moment believe that this is what motivates your feelings and your actions towards them
Despite what you said, it's NOT for your own sake that you love your kids - it's for THEIR SAKE!
This is what love is and there is no doubt in my mind that you well and truly love your children with every fiber of your being
Does loving your kids do YOU GOOD?
Sure, but this is nothing more than a pleasant side effect - it's not about you, it's about THEM!
Do you benefit from loving your kids?
Yes, but at the end of the day, it's not about your benefit - it's about THEIR BENEFIT
Not only do you love your kids as much as you love yourself, you love them more - infinitely more so!
God, on the other hand, has made it clear, in scripture, that the whole of existence itself {including us} is for HIS OWN SAKE
God does NOT love His children {us} as much as He loves Himself - let alone more than Himself...
I asked you:
If I consciously and purposefully set your house on fire and then pulled you from the flames - would you praise me or condemn me for my actions?
Your answer:
"I would call the police and the fire department and tell them all you were crazy"
You would condemn me, rather than praise me
As well you should!
I would do the exact same thing
Why, though, the special pleading for God?
You don't think that He put us in harm's way so that He could save us???
If not God, then who was it that decided that the Fall of Man shall result in every single person being born at enmity with Him and with a sinful nature that inevitably compels each and every one of us to sin at least once in life and subsequently find ourselves in dire need of His salvific grace?
Of course He put us in harm's way so that He could then save us!!!
It's all part of His plan to have His holy name praised and glorified forever
For my own sake as well as theirs. I don't see the difficulty here.
God did not put us in harm's way. Adam chose to sin. Jesus chose to provide a way for us to be reconciled to God. Yet that somehow is selfish. I don't get it.
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