People can be closed minded or open minded. People can be Christians, Atheist, Agnostic.
I do want to say, though, that I cringe when anyone has been hurt or mistreated by the Body of Christ and those of us who consider themselves Christian don't recognize and acknowledge how much this grieves the Spirit of God.
I'm so sorry you have had that experience. I can relate all too well the cannibalistic behavior Christians can take part in.
I don't get why it is so hard to love one another within the Body of Christ. I'm on the outside fringe looking in, although, it hasn't always been this way. I have found genuine Christians along the way to fellowship with and it wasn't easy because most of them aren't involved with the petty and dare I say, closed mindedness of many Christians.
After 35 years of bumps, curves and detours in my path, I can say with confidence that the Spirit of God is real and moving in my life even though my thoughts and beliefs may not always line up with others in the Body of Christ, I see it as a journey and process that we are all on.
Again, I'm sorry for your experience and urge to seek out others who understand God's love. Don't give up, they are out there just may not be in the obvious places.