sorry, my post 3 was about the Lord's return. It was out of context to the thread.
I agree with your last post. The way i understand the Lord's chastening and the fruits of the spirit are - the Lord firstly applies a chastening to his sons and daughters and he continues to do so in our lives until he finally glorifies us after death in this flesh/life. The first (justification) must that place in our hearts and mind for the final (glorification) to take place, so we can enter the kingdom of heaven, 'Jesus the author and finisher of our faith' Hebrews 12:2
He'll chasten/correct every believer differently, some more server than others in order to mould us. We all can become cold/lazy to our faith and walk with the lord in this flesh, so we must not refuse the Lord's chastening and must obey him. We need to correct what's wrong in our lives and the fruits of the spirit will become more embedded into our hearts, minds and walk with the Lord.
They are ordered correctly, the first being LOVE (agape love), a heart that gets enlarged for the Lord and results in a love that gets enlarged for others.
'love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength'
'Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these' Mark 12:30-31
Also, its good to talk with other Christians to help us grow and mature, sometimes correction (the stick) must be used, but only with Love for that person, if we fear they are slipping back (their fleshly 'members' are going astray into false teachings/doctrines or old ways of life. James 5:16
God Bless