my best friend and her SO broke up on April Fools day. Her SO's parents didn't feel they should be together because of distance, and other things.
My best friend has been a wreck since. And today, i found out from her ex-SO that she was contemplating ODing once her mom left for work today and she was very sure of what she was gonna do.she had it all planned in her head what she would do. When I heard this(and knowing she had cut herself the past day and a half pretty badly), her ex-SO and I decided that someone should call her mom and let her know. I called and now they are watching over her. Her mom didn't go to work.
At the moment, my best friend is mad at both me and her ex-SO. She has an away message up saying, "If people just let things be, I'd be dead".
Would you have done the same thing? Would you have said something?
Right now, I don't care if she is mad. I'd rather her mad then her being dead. But, her ex-SO and I feel she needs therapy but neither one of us can suggest it to her since she isn't speaking to either of us (or anyone for that matter). And even if we told a therapist about it, my best friend wouldn't go. She will refuse it.
She is taking this harder then her ex-SO is. Her ex-SO is just seeing the bright side of things, saying if in two years they still want to be together, they can. But for now, its out of the question.
My best friend became VERY dependent on her SO that now she doesn't have them right now, she wants to be dead.
I feel she will attempt doing something again, but how is one suppose to stop her if there is no way to?
Any advice and words would be greatly appreciated.
My best friend has been a wreck since. And today, i found out from her ex-SO that she was contemplating ODing once her mom left for work today and she was very sure of what she was gonna do.she had it all planned in her head what she would do. When I heard this(and knowing she had cut herself the past day and a half pretty badly), her ex-SO and I decided that someone should call her mom and let her know. I called and now they are watching over her. Her mom didn't go to work.
At the moment, my best friend is mad at both me and her ex-SO. She has an away message up saying, "If people just let things be, I'd be dead".
Would you have done the same thing? Would you have said something?
Right now, I don't care if she is mad. I'd rather her mad then her being dead. But, her ex-SO and I feel she needs therapy but neither one of us can suggest it to her since she isn't speaking to either of us (or anyone for that matter). And even if we told a therapist about it, my best friend wouldn't go. She will refuse it.
She is taking this harder then her ex-SO is. Her ex-SO is just seeing the bright side of things, saying if in two years they still want to be together, they can. But for now, its out of the question.
My best friend became VERY dependent on her SO that now she doesn't have them right now, she wants to be dead.
I feel she will attempt doing something again, but how is one suppose to stop her if there is no way to?
Any advice and words would be greatly appreciated.