Would you go out with someone who...

[Howard Cneal]

Just wondering what people’s perspectives are on dating people with certain qualities. A simple Yes or No is sufficient to answer. I’ll probably give my answers later.

Would you date / go out with someone who…


Had kids?
Was divorced?
Smokes?
Drinks?
Uses drugs?
Was not from your denomination?
Was not a Christian?
Was overweight?
Has body odor?
Dresses poorly?
Bathes seldomly?
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)?
Was 5 years younger than you?
How about 10 years younger?
Was 5 years older than you?
10 years older?
Has no car?
Has no job?
Has no money?
Has no ambition for the future?
Is negative?
Doesn't go to church?
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you?
Your parents did not approve of?
Is Clingy?
Talks about marriage right away?
Is awesome?
Is a vegetarian / vegan? (Or a meat-eater if you are not?)


If more come to mind, I'll add them, or feel free to add your own.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Had kids? Maybe, but for the most part no.
Was divorced? Again, maybe.
Smokes? Blah, no thanks.
Drinks? Egh, preferably not but whatever.
Uses drugs? Nope.
Was not from your denomination? Sure.
Was not a Christian? Oi, well maybe... but, I'm tryin' to find a Christian woman.
Was overweight? No thanks.
Has body odor? ...
Dresses poorly? meh
Bathes seldomly? Yeah, that's a problem.
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? I like shorter women.
Was 5 years younger than you? Been there.
How about 10 years younger? Done that.
Was 5 years older than you? Did this too.
10 years older? Have, wouldn't any longer.
Has no car? It's cool.
Has no job? If she's studying, or just got out of a job then sure.
Has no money? Money isn't a big deal.
Has no ambition for the future? That can always change.
Is negative? Again, this, too, can change.
Doesn't go to church? Yep.
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? I've almost always dated from a different ethnicity, and after having several more discussions about Asian women with a few different guys I'm gonna see what all the fuss is about lol
Your parents did not approve of? Yes
Is Clingy? Been there, got engaged; never again.
Talks about marriage right away? Nope.
Is awesome? Nah, I prefer stale women whom are stoic
Is a vegetarian / vegan? (Or a meat-eater if you are not?) Sweet, I love Vegetarians!

 

[Adrianna91]

Had kids? Yes
Was divorced? Depends
Smokes? NO
Drinks? Only on ocassion
Uses drugs? no
Was not from your denomination?
Was not a Christian? no
Was overweight? yes
Has body odor? no
Dresses poorly? no
Bathes seldomly? no
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? possibly
Was 5 years younger than you? no, that's just wrong!
How about 10 years younger? nooo
Was 5 years older than you? yes
10 years older? possibly
Has no car? yes
Has no job? no
Has no money? no
Has no ambition for the future? no
Is negative? no
Doesn't go to church? no

 

[HighwayMan]

lol I'm surprised that a car is any way shape or form a factor in these type of things. I guess maybe it is elsewhere, but in NYC its quite different as everyone pretty much uses the subway.

 

[Amber.ly]

Would you date / go out with someone who…


Had kids? Yes
Was divorced? No
Smokes? No
Drinks? No
Uses drugs? No
Was not from your denomination? Perhaps
Was not a Christian? Never
Was overweight? Yes
Has body odor? Doesn't everybody?
Dresses poorly? Is he willing to go shopping?
Bathes seldomly? Nope
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? No
Was 5 years younger than you? Never
How about 10 years younger? Never
Was 5 years older than you? Sure
10 years older? Sure
Has no car? Yes
Has no job? No
Has no money? Yes
Has no ambition for the future? No
Is negative? Again, isn't everyone?
Doesn't go to church? No
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? I don't know, I wouldn't want to subject the guy to my racist grandparents that I love

 

[Sketcher]

Had kids? Probably not.
Was divorced? No.
Smokes? No.
Drinks? Depends on how much.
Uses drugs? No.
Was not from your denomination? Maybe.
Was not a Christian? No.
Was overweight? No.
Has body odor? No.
Dresses poorly? Maybe.
Bathes seldomly? No.
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? Maybe.
Was 5 years younger than you? Sure.
How about 10 years younger? Unlikely.
Was 5 years older than you? No.
10 years older? No.
Has no car? Sure.
Has no job? Sure.
Has no money? Nah. I don't want to be used for the little money I have.
Has no ambition for the future? No.
Is negative? No.
Doesn't go to church? No.
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? Sure.

 

[Howard Cneal]

lol I'm surprised that a car is any way shape or form a factor in these type of things. I guess maybe it is elsewhere, but in NYC its quite different as everyone pretty much uses the subway.

A car can mean a lot for women. For men, it's usually less of an issue. Of course, we'll see how people respond, but I think that's generally true.

 

[CrystalBrooke]

Would you date / go out with someone who…


Had kids? yes
Was divorced? yes
Smokes? no
Drinks? yes
Uses drugs? no
Was not from your denomination? yes
Was not a Christian? no
Was overweight? depends on how overweight they were. Chubby, yes, obese..never.
Has body odor? no
Dresses poorly? no
Bathes seldomly? no
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? no
Was 5 years younger than you? no
How about 10 years younger? no
Was 5 years older than you? yes
10 years older? yes
Has no car? no
Has no job? no
Has no money? no
Has no ambition for the future? no
Is negative? no
Doesn't go to church? yes
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? yes

 

[EyesOfKohl]

Would you date / go out with someone who…


Had kids? NO
Was divorced? NO
Smokes? NO
Drinks? NO (If Alcoholic)
Uses drugs? NO
Was not from your denomination? YES
Was not a Christian? Maybe (Whether she still believed in the same God)
Was overweight? Can be sorted out, but probably NO...
Has body odor? Can be fixed
Dresses poorly? Can be fixed
Bathes seldomly? NO
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)?
No, A woman taller than me would be scary
Was 5 years younger than you? YES
How about 10 years younger? NO
Was 5 years older than you? Maybe
10 years older? NO
Has no car? YES
Has no job? YES
Has no money? YES
Has no ambition for the future? NO
Is negative? Constantly? NO
Doesn't go to church? YES
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? YES

 

[Sri]

Had kids? most likely not
Was divorced? most likely not
Smokes? def. no
Drinks? def. no
Uses drugs? def. no
Was not from your denomination? yes
Was not a Christian? def.no
Was overweight? maybe
Has body odor? maybe
Dresses poorly? maybe
Bathes seldomly?no
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? maybe
Was 5 years younger than you? no
How about 10 years younger? no
Was 5 years older than you? yes
10 years older? yes
Has no car? maybe
Has no job? no
Has no money? maybe
Has no ambition for the future? no
Is negative? no
Doesn't go to church? no
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? yes
Your parents did not approve of? yes

 

[Explorer96]

......

 

[Oddish]

Had kids?
No, not at this age.

Was divorced?
Same as above.

Smokes?
It would put me off a bit because I am asthmatic.

Drinks?
Yes, depends on consumption levels though.

Uses drugs?
Hmm, probably not. Especially if they took hard drugs.

Was not from your denomination?
Yes, denom is not important to me as long as we both believe in God and the ressurection.

Was not a Christian?

Hmm. I have crushed on non christian guys a lot but never went out with them. I would prefer to date a christian, I do not really meet many of them that often.

Was overweight?
Probably not but it depends on other things and on why they are overweight.

Has body odor?
That is easily fixed.

Dresses poorly?
Yes. If the dress sense was really bad I would choose his clothes for him.

Bathes seldomly?
No!

Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)?
Maybe but I like guys who are a little taller than me.

Was 5 years younger than you?
No, not as this age.

How about 10 years younger?
No!!

Was 5 years older than you?
Yes

10 years older?
It depends. Usually no.

Has no car?
Yes, I have no car.

Has no job?
Yes, because I am a student.

Has no money?
Yes

Has no ambition for the future?
No, that is boring.

Is negative?
No. I need someone who is encouraging and enthusiastic.

Doesn't go to church?
Yes. I don't attend church.

Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you?
Yes.

 

[MacFall]

Would you date / go out with someone who…

Had kids?

No

Was divorced?

No

Smokes?

Yes

Drinks?

Yes

Uses drugs?

Depends on the drug.

Was not from your denomination?

Yes

Was not a Christian?

No

Was overweight?

If it's not to the point of obesity or due to an unhealthy lifestyle.

Has body odor?

Doesn't everyone have body odor?

Dresses poorly?

Of course

Bathes seldomly?

No

Was taller than you?

Yes

Was 5 years younger than you?

Yes

How about 10 years younger?

No

Was 5 years older than you?

No

10 years older?

No

Has no car?

Yes

Has no job?

Yes

Has no money?

Yes

Has no ambition for the future?

No

Is negative?

How negative?

Doesn't go to church?

No

Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you?

Yes

Your parents did not approve of?

Yes

 

[broken_one]

Would you date / go out with someone who…

Had kids?
- N-O NO.

Was divorced?
-Maybe....depends on the situation.

Smokes?
-No.

Drinks?
-Yeah.

Uses drugs?
-NO.

Was not from your denomination?
-Yes.

Was not a Christian?
-Possibly.

Was overweight?
-Most likely not. Yeah, I'm hypocritical. Sorry.

Has body odor?
-OBVIOUSLY NO.

Dresses poorly?
-Maybe. Everyone has "days off" from wearing nice clothes.

Bathes seldomly?
-Ew, no.

Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)?
-Probably not...? Very few women are taller than me.

Was 5 years younger than you?
-Perhaps. But most likely not, because it would be really weird and we wouldn't click.

How about 10 years younger?
-I'd be breaking like SO MANY laws. And it's gross, so yeah.

Was 5 years older than you?
-Possibly.

10 years older?
-Probably not.

Has no car?
-Yes.

Has no job?
-Yes.

Has no money?
-Yes.

Has no ambition for the future?
-NO.

Is negative?
-No. Depends on if it's sarcasm or actually just negative, though.

Doesn't go to church?
-Yes.

Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you?
-Possibly. Probably not, but I may find someone attractive so who knows.

Your parents did not approve of?
-Possibly.

 

[crishmael]

Sure, I'll play.

Had kids? Sure
Was divorced? Sure
Smokes? Nope
Drinks? Sure
Uses drugs? Depends (why is she using them? Medical?)
Was not from your denomination? I have none, so sure
Was not a Christian? I probably shouldn't
Was overweight? Sure
Has body odor? I can't take that BO and onions smell
Dresses poorly? Define "poorly"
Bathes seldomly? Refer to BO and onions
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? Sure
Was 5 years younger than you? Sure
How about 10 years younger? Wouldn't think so
Was 5 years older than you? Maybe
10 years older? Probably not
Has no car? Sure
Has no job? Depends on the reason why unemployed
Has no money? Sure
Has no ambition for the future? Nope. Everyone should have dreams
Is negative? Depends on the type of negativity
Doesn't go to church? I don't go to church so its a sure
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? Sure

 

[Blank123]

Would you date / go out with someone who…


Had kids? possibly

Was divorced? nope

Smokes? not ever again

Drinks? sure, as long as he wasn't addicted to drinking or getting drunk.

Uses drugs? prescription drugs for a legitimate reason? sure. otherwise no.

Was not from your denomination? I don't belong to a denomination sooooo yes

Was not a Christian? no

Was overweight? possibly

Has body odor? no

Dresses poorly? depends on what you mean. his style doesn't have to be my style, but if it were immodest or if he just didn't care and wore ratty clothes all the time... probably not.

Bathes seldomly? no

Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? i have before

Was 5 years younger than you? thats pushing it.

How about 10 years younger? uh no. I would not date a 15 yearold

Was 5 years older than you? sure

10 years older? possibly

Has no car? sure

Has no job? I have before

Has no money? I have before

Has no ambition for the future? I have before, and would never again.

Is negative? no. I've learned I cannot handle the eternal pessimist attitude.

Doesn't go to church? never again

Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? sure

Your parents did not approve of? For my parents to disapprove of my boyfriend, he would have to be a complete scumbag. so no.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

im only 14. cant really vote on this one. lol

Inb4 b&

 

[Quintus Poppaedius]

Had kids? Maybe
Was divorced? Maybe
Smokes? Yes
Drinks? Yes
Uses drugs? Probably not
Was not from your denomination? Yes
Was not a Christian? No
Was overweight? Depends on what you mean by overweight. BMI charts are a joke.
Has body odor? No
Dresses poorly? Yes
Bathes seldomly? No
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? Yes
Was 5 years younger than you? Probably not
How about 10 years younger? No way
Was 5 years older than you? Yes
10 years older? Yes
Has no car? Yes
Has no job? Yes
Has no money? Yes
Has no ambition for the future? No
Is negative? No
Doesn't go to church? Maybe
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? Yes
Your parents did not approve of? Sure, I've been on my own since I was 18 and now live about 4,500 miles from my parents. It'd be a long time before they'd be able to come to an opinion.

 

[Schneiderman]

Had kids? No
Was divorced? No
Smokes? No
Drinks? Maybe, depending on how much, but preferred not
Uses drugs? No
Was not from your denomination? Yes
Was not a Christian? Maybe, but not an atheist
Was overweight? Probably not
Has body odor? Probably
Dresses poorly? Yes
Bathes seldomly? Probably, depending on what "seldomly" means
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? Yes
Was 5 years younger than you? In a few years, probably
How about 10 years younger? In many years, maybe
Was 5 years older than you? Maybe
10 years older? Probably not
Has no car? Maybe
Has no job? Maybe
Has no money? Maybe
Has no ambition for the future? Probably not
Is negative? Maybe
Doesn't go to church? Yes
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? Yes
Your parents did not approve of? Yes

 

[MehGuy]

Had kids? No way.
Was divorced? Yeah I don't care, I'll finish what the other guy couldn't lol.
Smokes? Sure, though I wouldn't want it much in the house.
Drinks? Yeah.
Uses drugs? Sure, as long as the drugs are nothing serious.
Was not from your denomination? I'm not a Christian.
Was not a Christian? Of course.
Was overweight? Never.
Has body odor? I don't have a sense of smell anyways.. so who cares?
Dresses poorly? As long as she's pretty I guess.
Bathes seldomly? I can't smell, and if she looks clean whatever.
Was taller than you (for men) / shorter than you (for women)? Nope, I don't like taller women.
Was 5 years younger than you? No, not when I'm only 20 lol, I don't want to go to prison.
How about 10 years younger? I'd definitely be going to prison then lol.
Was 5 years older than you? That is more reasonable.
10 years older? Nope, looks would fade.
Has no car? Fine, I could handle that at this age.
Has no job? Yeah I guess.
Has no money? Sure for now.
Has no ambition for the future? Maybe, depends how good looking she is.
Is negative? Yeah of course, that stuff can be attractive.
Doesn't go to church? Of course, if she did I wouldn't be seeing her anyways.
Was of a different race (ethnicity) than you? Middle eastern/Jewish is probably all I'd really take. Maybe a few others.
Your parents did not approve of? Lol, I don't care what they think.



Those are mine, harsh honest and brutal. Exactly how I like it. lol.