Would you date...

[Oddish]

...someone who uses recreational drugs on an irregular basis and only at social parties?

By the way, no I do not take drugs before anyone thinks that lol.

 

[broken_one]

No.

End of.

 

[Rose of Eden]

Someone who did in the past but doesn't live that sort of lifestyle anymore? Yes.

Someone who does that currently and is still living that lifestyle? No.

 

[Tink]

Someone who did in the past but doesn't live that sort of lifestyle anymore? Yes.

Someone who does that currently and is still living that lifestyle? No.

yep.

 

[Sketcher]

No.

 

[Touma]

Marijuana....MAYBE..but probably not... Anything else, definitely not.

 

[Stravinsk]

No.

I have a history of narcotics use. From ages 15-22 I had a major problem with them - and I never want to go back to using them. So, it's a dealbreaker for me.

 

[MehGuy]

Depends what it is, if its weed fine, something like crystal meth no.. lol.

 

[Obzocky]

Apart from the illegality of taking recreational drugs I have the same feelings towards the social use of them as I do towards social drinking/smoking. I don't like it, I would prefer it not to happen in my house, but it's not worth declining a date with someone who otherwise could be a good fit.

But then part of me is strongly opposed to it due to my background. I suppose it would boil down to how obvious their usage was, how much they brought into a shared environment and the extent of their usage.

 

[Blank123]

nope.

 

[Inkachu]

Hail no.

 

[Schneiderman]

Illegal drugs, no, not due to the nature of the drug but only because using them is currently a crime and I don't want to date a criminal even if I disagree with the law.

Legal recreational drugs, maybe, depends on what they are- I myself use alcohol in moderation but I probably won't date someone who uses tobacco in any form.

 

[Touma]

Marijuana....MAYBE..but probably not... Anything else, definitely not.

I'll clarify my position...IF weed was decriminalized or made legal, I'd see no problem with it in moderation, like alcohol. Doing it illegally is a sin though, as it breaks the laws of this land that I live in. But I still stand by weed being the only one that I could feel comfy with, MAYBE.

 

[mina]

no

 

[Blank123]

weed is decriminalized here. I wouldn't date someone who smokes it though. unless it were for medicinal purposes and even then.... if his health was that bad i'd probably question if he'd be able to be all in in a relationship.

my reasoning is if the Bible calls us to be soberminded and to avoid getting drunk, but be filled with the Holy Spirit, then the spirit of those passages would also refer to other substances which mess with your inhibitions and mind. i just see no good reason for a Christian to smoke it, and I wouldn't date a nonChristian.

 

[Perhaps Today]

If it's something they used to do then I'd consider dating them. But if they're still using then no.

 

[Niels]

I'd rather not.

 

[scotslad83]

...someone who uses recreational drugs on an irregular basis and only at social parties?

By the way, no I do not take drugs before anyone thinks that lol.

No

 

[Wren]

Illegal drugs, no, not due to the nature of the drug but only because using them is currently a crime and I don't want to date a criminal even if I disagree with the law.

Legal recreational drugs, maybe, depends on what they are- I myself use alcohol in moderation but I probably won't date someone who uses tobacco in any form.

This is what my thinking as well.

 

[dayhiker]

Yes.
My GF has a glass of wine with dinner.