Forgive me, I did not know you were OCA. You cite such a well-traveled history that I misunderstood your affiliation, and I had an incorrect interpretation of what you profile label of "Generic Orthodox meant."
Well I do have a well-travelled history, and there is a reason why I identify as generic Orthodox, that being that firstly, and most importantly, I recognize the Oriental Orthodox as fully and entirely Orthodox without defect, so
@dzheremi is as Orthodox as I am, and secondly, I am willing to recognize Orthodoxy in Western churches where it has either survived or been restored.
In order to have Orthodoxy we must do Orthodoxy, and I see Western Christians striving to do Orthodoxy, indeed even Episcopalians who are Christologically Orthodox, for example. The case of St. Thomas Fifth Ave in New York is a particularly sad case - I love that church, I love its clergy, yet two of its very good presbyters have made the very dangerous spiritual decision of indulging in the passions which St. Paul warns against with regards to human sexuality. One is a former Benedictine monk from Italy. They are very good in terms of their knowledge of theology, yet they are engaging in a course of conduct which derails their overall Orthodoxy, but I pray for them, because in terms of their Christology and their overall love they are very good Christians, and less sinful than I am.
The reality is this - scripturally, sexuality is a means for redemption through reproduction, which is the means by which we create new loving relationships with children, who are a profound blessing from God by virtue of their existence. If we engage in sexual behaviors that are incapable of reproduction, the redemptive aspect is lost, since we cannot in such a manner naturally conceive children. Thus, there is no Christian basis to condemn, for example, inter-racial marriage, and indeed to do so is entirely wrong, and I greatly object to the discrimination experienced by children of such marriages.
Now, if, for some reason, someone cannot bring themselves to accept the criteria imposed by heterosexual monogamy, the New Testament not only provides an alternative, but a favored alternative, that being holy celibacy, in which one gives oneself entirely to the worship of God and rejects all worldly dalliances.
The problem with the Episcopal Church and the United Methodist Church is that they have embraced positions which disagree with this important part of Scriptural doctrine, and this represents a departure in continuity.
But, supposing for a moment that we agreed entirely on the issue of human sexuality, it would still be the case that I would regard the Orthodox as non-schismatic. There is no possible way of interpreting the status of the Eastern Orthodox church in 1054 as schismatic, since it was one Patriarch in the West, the Pope of Rome, who unilaterally excommunicated the Orthodox for their refusal to accept Papal Supremacy, which they were not obligated to accept, but indeed were specifically exempted from under Canons 6 and 7 of the Ecumenical Council of Nicaea. Even if I were Roman Catholic, I would be forced to disagree with the Roman church on this point, because the canons of the Council of Nicaea, and what is more, the history of the early church make it clear that the the Eastern churches were not under the control of the Pope of Rome, but indeed, on the contrary, the Roman Pope usually tended to accept the decisions of Eastern ecumenical synods without actively participating in them, or sending only a few legates. This was the case with the first, second and third ecumenical synods, indeed, the Romans were not even at the First Council of Constantinople. Leo I intervened at Chalcedon but also did not want the council to occur (and his intervention caused serious problems and contributed to the alienation of the Oriental Orthodox, who I also regard as non-schismatic, since one cannot fault them for adhering literally to what had been taught by Pope St. Cyril the Great of Alexandria and St. Celestine of Rome).
Furthermore, I would note that the functioning of the Anglican Communion depends on a model of Episcopal governance which is essentially Orthodox rather than Roman Catholic - if the Orthodox were schismatic in 1054, then that would make the Anglicans and the Lutherans and the Moravians schismatic, which I believe is wrong and in error.
Additionally, I would say that the Methodist Episcopal Church in North America was not schismatic, for this reason - the Anglican Church refused to provide it with clergy after the Revolutionary War resulted in its independence. John Wesley was not fully aware of what was going on with what would become the Protestant Episcopal Church, and I would also note there was confusion there, and there was much disagreement between the Anglicans of Virginia and those of other states over certain issues, and over the contents of the BCP and other things, in addition to the difficulty Bishop Seabury had in obtaining his ordination. So it was not unreasonable for John Wesley, who had been secretly made a bishop, uncanonically perhaps, in 1763, by Erasmus of Arcadia, to ordain Thomas Coke and Francis Asbury as superintendents of the Methodist Episcopal Church and to provide them with a copy of the BCP.
On the other hand I can think of no good reason for the Methodists of Great Britain to have left the Church of England after John Wesley’s death, so I would regard that as a needless schism.
However, the bottom line is that I am willing to recognize orthodoxy outside of Eastern Orthodoxy: I will accept Western Orthodoxy from Anglicans, Evangelical Catholic Lutherans, Methodists, indeed, anyone who is willing to do Orthodoxy. Because Orthodoxy means “Correct glorification.” And thus it is merely a question of correct worship.
But a problem arises when a church teaches that something obviously condemned as a sin in scripture is not a sin, because the accurate representation of Scripture is an obvious requirement of Orthodoxy. Likewise, I will say, a problem also arises when fundamentalists engage in behavior that encourages hatred towards homosexuals. This helps no one, it is unbiblical, it is wrong and it is amoral. But their abuses do not change the scriptural definition of what is acceptable sexual behavior.
Of course, the other issue is that in the Western Church, even among those which do maintain scriptural teaching on homosexuality, there are serious deficits on other issues of sexual morality. For example, far too many denominations take a relatively lenient view towards the horror that is adultery, even admitting adulterers to the clergy or permitting persons to remain in an ordained state despite divorce and remarriage. This is broadly unacceptable.
Now, humans will sin; we have all sinned; everyone has likely transgressed the list of things St. Paul warns us about in some manner, at least mentally, according to desire, by coupling with temptation, even if we have not engaged in the act literally. So because of this, the church must teach the values of humility and of repentence and of forgiveness. But the church cannot embrace sins, sexual or otherwise, neither can it tell people who are engaged in such sin that they should be proud of it, since pride is itself an extremely dangerous sin owing to the delusion of hubris that tends to accompany it. Indeed, many church fathers specifically taught that self-esteem, rather than being a virtue as our contemporary society describes it, is actually dangerous; it seems that Christian piety has traditionally been defined by a deliberate lowliness. We must decrease so that Christ may increase. Our glory must be in Christ and not in ourselves.