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I wrote them in the title to mean a fellow church member, especially one that she or she knows, like a friend or relative. Say a person has been a loyal member of a church and they see or find something they disagree with? Would you privately tell a minister that they don't preach enough about salvation or if there is other doctrine you don't agree with? What would you do to a brother or sister in Christ, including a pastor, deacon, or bishop who is rude or preaching a false doctrine?
I recall there was a division in the church I attended and we have had numerous pastors in the last few decades and one pastor even was a victim of a beat down by some of the members. (Of course, I was a kid and I may have remembered things differently. It was a shock to me however.) Would you confront the members privately, if they were relatives of yours who took part in the violence or would you (and the pastor) just leave the church altogether? There have been so much going on and while things have calmed down, there was a pastor that just up and left the church (they would have voted him out anyways) and another pastor who some of the members hated and the others liked who was also voted out of the church.
Because of this, some of the members left. In this scenario, did those members who left do the right thing? I assume that they became members of other churches, but church members like the rest of us are regular people too. Is leaving the church being this is true a big mistake or should they learn how to confront fellow church members without both members getting too angry or go out of line? I have written this because what should a believer do in some circumstances without being self-righteous. Because of all that has happened, and even though things have calmed down, I am concerned that this pastor may be voted out or just leave. Should I be?
I recall there was a division in the church I attended and we have had numerous pastors in the last few decades and one pastor even was a victim of a beat down by some of the members. (Of course, I was a kid and I may have remembered things differently. It was a shock to me however.) Would you confront the members privately, if they were relatives of yours who took part in the violence or would you (and the pastor) just leave the church altogether? There have been so much going on and while things have calmed down, there was a pastor that just up and left the church (they would have voted him out anyways) and another pastor who some of the members hated and the others liked who was also voted out of the church.
Because of this, some of the members left. In this scenario, did those members who left do the right thing? I assume that they became members of other churches, but church members like the rest of us are regular people too. Is leaving the church being this is true a big mistake or should they learn how to confront fellow church members without both members getting too angry or go out of line? I have written this because what should a believer do in some circumstances without being self-righteous. Because of all that has happened, and even though things have calmed down, I am concerned that this pastor may be voted out or just leave. Should I be?