Have you ever had a boyfriend or husband just look at you and say..I do not love you...or yes I love and care about you, but you would be better off with out me...just wondered if any of you had ever had to experience the awful feelings such words invoke..
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Words Hurt
- Thread starter tonya
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Not boyfriend or husband, but I've heard the words... They do hurt - horribly.
Ignore the words - listen to the Voice of Truth. Easier said than done, I realize...
Hang in there, Tonya... Still praying for ya!
Ignore the words - listen to the Voice of Truth. Easier said than done, I realize...
Hang in there, Tonya... Still praying for ya!
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fluffy_rainbow
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My ex-husband told me on Valentine's day that for a "fat chick" I looked pretty in lingerie. He also told me once that he wished he'd met my sister before he met me because she was alot better looking. Talk about painful! Words do hurt and the Bible tells us in James about how much damage the tongue can do. If a man you love has spoken unkind words to you I want to let you know that I know how it feels. I will be praying for the Lord to blanket you in peace and confidence. Hang in there, hon.
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and to both of you for responding...Yes James does say plenty about words...been studying that. BKG...thanks for your words of encouragement...I know to just keep my eyes on God and He alone can do the impossible....some days are better thatn others..Thanks to you Fluffy for responding...sounds like you truly do know how I feel...Love in Christ to you both! Tonya
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Big (((((HUGS)))), my prayers are with you, sweetie!!tonya said:
Thanks to you Fluffy for responding...sounds like you truly do know how I feel...Love in Christ to you both! Tonya
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Big hugs to you...congratulations on the birth of your child..whenever it happened!! What a horrible thing to say...I hope he has improved since then, and if not, then I am praying for that to happen right now!!LadyDJ said:
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seekfirst said:
Thank you. That was in February of 94...I left him when his outbursts were no longer confined to verbal and emotional attacks and became violent. To the best of my knowledge he's not changed at all because in his point of view he was only telling the truth as he saw it and never saw a reason for him to change anything he said or did. Besides that, as far as he was concerned, if he lost his temper it was my fault for "making him" lose it (or it was the kids' fault), but never his.
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We'll then I was just a little late on my congratulations!! May God bless your day!!LadyDJ said:Thank you. That was in February of 94...I left him when his outbursts were no longer confined to verbal and emotional attacks and became violent. To the best of my knowledge he's not changed at all because in his point of view he was only telling the truth as he saw it and never saw a reason for him to change anything he said or did. Besides that, as far as he was concerned, if he lost his temper it was my fault for "making him" lose it (or it was the kids' fault), but never his.
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