Women after childbirth

[ImperialPhantom]

It's not on topic because my cousin already made up her mind on it.

I was talking to JacobHall.

 

[Kol]

I didn't think you were talking to me, but i considered it off-topic because the thread was designed to answer a problem I had. Since your post didn't answer that problem (and neither would breast-feeding), I said it was off topic.

Peace, dude!

 

[Kol]

Anyway it doesn't matter because my cousin is doing okay, she says. Just the toddler keeps trying to lay on the babe and kiss him.

 

[JulySheMustFly]

Didn't mean to contribute in any way of making it difficult for you to be nice. Anyway you may find this site interesting at least. WARNING: There are non sexual images of women's bodies on that site. If exposed skin makes you uncomfortable do NOT click on the link.

 

[Timyone]

Thanks for that list!

Helps me know that childfree is the way to be! Things getting squished does not sound nice or natural.

far out man your heaps cute!! and i reckon youd make heaps cute kids!! you totally shouldnt skip having kids!!

 

[Timyone]

Please dont bring up breastfeeding into this thread.

lol man some people are totally lost on the toppic of breast feading around here!!!!!!!!!!

 

[JacobHall86]

Why shouldn't breastfeeding be brought up? It's on topic.

Because its already going on other threads.

 

[fuzzymel]

Didn't mean to contribute in any way of making it difficult for you to be nice. Anyway you may find this site interesting at least. WARNING: There are non sexual images of women's bodies on that site. If exposed skin makes you uncomfortable do NOT click on the link.

Ah Shape of a Mother! I got told to look there once. Some of the pics are truely shocking. Some women in their 20s have bodies of 80 year olds. I think I would be suicidal if I was like that (not joking either. Got enough body insecurity and history of depression). Plus I cannot see how a man would find that attractive.

 

[Adela]

Ah Shape of a Mother! I got told to look there once. Some of the pics are truely shocking. Some women in their 20s have bodies of 80 year olds. I think I would be suicidal if I was like that (not joking either. Got enough body insecurity and history of depression). Plus I cannot see how a man would find that attractive.

That is very sad...and not to mention a cruel thing to say. Think about someone who does have a body like that and reads what you just wrote.

 

[Adela]

I cannot see how a man would find that attractive.

Luckily I have a man that is not that shallow and superficial. Age is going to change a body even if someone never gave birth.

 

[JulySheMustFly]

Ah Shape of a Mother! I got told to look there once. Some of the pics are truely shocking. Some women in their 20s have bodies of 80 year olds. I think I would be suicidal if I was like that (not joking either. Got enough body insecurity and history of depression). Plus I cannot see how a man would find that attractive.

I admit that I found it difficult at first to look at but to be honest it was also helpful. I found out by taking a peek that my body rocks after 3 kids.

Also, if a man can't find the mother of his child attractive after he participated in making that child then he should really reassess what love is.

 

[JacobHall86]

Luckily I have a man that is not that shallow and superficial. Age is going to change a body even if someone never gave birth.

You just called her man superficial and shallow, how inconsiderate of you.

 

[Adela]

You just called her man superficial and shallow, how inconsiderate of you.

I did not say anything about her man. What I said was “Luckily I have a man who is not that shallow and superficial.” Yes, I think someone who is no longer attracted to his wife because her body was changed giving birth is superficial.

 

[fuzzymel]

I think people have got to be attracted to each others bodies.

I totally accept aging. Hey its part of life. What I cannot accept is a 80 year olds body with a 20 year olds head. I just dont understand it and it doesnt seem natural. I always thought there were a few stretch marks on the stomach and thats it.

 

[Adela]

I think people have got to be attracted to each others bodies.

I totally accept aging. Hey its part of life. What I cannot accept is a 80 year olds body on a 20 year olds head. I just dont understand it.

Ok. There really isn't any such thing as an "80 year old's body" or a "20 year old's body." We all look different and we don't all look like movie stars. You are right aging is a part of life, but so is pregnancy. Without it there would be no life.

 

[fuzzymel]

Ok well just put it down to something I dont understand. On tv they always look fantastic and as babies scare me I never really see new mothers so really only have tv to go by or sites like that.

 

[ImperialPhantom]

But Adela, to play devil's advocate, wouldn't some of those pictures be put down to extreme cases? IE a tiny, small build girl giving birth to a big baby, maybe to twins, no stretch mark cream, etc?

 

[Adela]

But Adela, to play devil's advocate, wouldn't some of those pictures be put down to extreme cases? IE a tiny, small build girl giving birth to a big baby, maybe to twins, no stretch mark cream, etc?

Sorry. I don't completely understand what you are asking.

btw, I like to play devil's advocate too.

 

[KillerV]

That is very sad...and not to mention a cruel thing to say. Think about someone who does have a body like that and reads what you just wrote.

I have a worse body then that after two kids. I ignore comments like that because I am trying to get back into shape,lose weight and rebuild my self esteem and rude women like that do not help. Its ok though.

 

[fuzzymel]

I think you are rude by calling me rude.

Its called flaming honey! Not allowed!

It was your choice so dont go blaming me for it!

I get so annoyed that people get offended for me giving my honest opinion. I only meant if I looked like that I would be disgusted at myself. I am not disgusted at women that look like that but I dont know why they feel the need to show it off.