why?

[remy]

Why does everyone want me to date someone? Can't I be alone in peace?

 

[caitlincares]

I see no problem with that if that is what you want.

 

[Tenorvoice]

I'll tell you but yu have to promise not to let anyone know........ok

Here ya go....Women and men that are in a relationship do not like to see us single people happy. Most of them are misserable in their relationships and what us to be misserable too. They can not stand to see other people happy.

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Now before anyone eggs me, this was ment as a joke...........I really have no clue why they do it. It can get really sickening at times..

 

[caitlincares]

I think you hit the nail on the head, tenorvoice.
And I am being serious.

Single people really can be content and happy.

 

[littlebatgal]

Hey remy


I know the feeling sometimes...sometimes...

I want to get married some day, but not right now. However, I still have to deal with the questions, especially now that a lot of my younger cousins have married.

In fact, my grandmother wanted to know if an older cousin of mine is a homosexual just because she is still single. Why is it so hard for people (even family members who love us) to understand that the time is not right for us to be married? For some of us, the time may never be right. It's like they think I should measure myself according to how many dates I get or how many proposals (zero and counting!)

All I do know is this: As long as I am in God's will for my life, I will be okay...no matter if it means I'll have the grandest wedding ever or never say marriage vows.

Brooke :0)

 

[remy]

thanks for the laughter and encouragement. i wouldn't be on this if it werent for people always telling me, "oh someone as handsome as yourself shouldn't be single!" i just had to vent somehow, and this was probably the most appropiate way of saying it (to keep of the admin radar ) i just dont want to be put under the impression I owe it to myself or whatnot.

 

[TriptychR]

I was once watching TV with my mom when she looked at me and said, "You know, I'd still love you if you were gay."

"Uh, thanks," I said, wondering if there was something I was missing. I guess it happens to all of us somehow.

 

[waterbear]

lol my parents thought I was gay for awhile too... when my best friend turned out to really be gay I had to reassure them a bit

Well, my parents at least want grandchildren. Other people are probably just making conversation, I wouldn't take them too seriously

 

[Mother Vashti]

Why does everyone want me to date someone? Can't I be alone in peace?

NO. NO YOU CAN'T.

 

[Mother Vashti]

j/k

I don't know why people try to force young adults to appear "happy and dating". The fact that I'm not searching for a relationship does not indicate anything, nor do any alarms need be sounded. My life is not in a stall, or incomplete in any sense, just because I'm voluntarily single.

 

[Mother Vashti]

??

Is it just me, or is that martian's dress the same dress J.Lo is wearing in my avatar??

 

[TriptychR]

lol my parents thought I was gay for awhile too... when my best friend turned out to really be gay I had to reassure them a bit

Ha, that happened to me too!

 

[HomeBound]

You people who are content without another should praise God for such a gift. There are some that can't stand being alone, and that's a problem.

 

[Mother Vashti]

HomeBound, I get kinda kinky in the spring time, but other than that, let's just say I've got bigger fish to fry.

 

[Apollonian]

I'm confident enough in myself to take people's expectations and throw them back. I simply hope that if someone tries to "set me up" that I don't completely smash the poor girl's heart if she ends up being a poor match.

I also think very much that people watch too many sappy romance movies, especially when they have been dating a while. It makes everyone want everyone to date. Frankly, its a horribly odd phenomenon. I haven't watched a really sappy movie in many many months, and I am much happier for it. Don't give in.

 

[HomeBound]

I also think very much that people watch too many sappy romance movies, especially when they have been dating a while. It makes everyone want everyone to date. Frankly, its a horribly odd phenomenon. I haven't watched a really sappy movie in many many months, and I am much happier for it. Don't give in.

Sure, the media molds a lot of people into what they "should" be like.

But we have the Bible, that tells us it's ok to be single.

 

[Mother Vashti]

I'm confident enough in myself to take people's expectations and throw them back. I simply hope that if someone tries to "set me up" that I don't completely smash the poor girl's heart if she ends up being a poor match.

I also think very much that people watch too many sappy romance movies, especially when they have been dating a while. It makes everyone want everyone to date. Frankly, its a horribly odd phenomenon. I haven't watched a really sappy movie in many many months, and I am much happier for it. Don't give in.

Don't go watch "The Village". Best Romance of 2004. *sniff*

 

[Ginsu]

I was once watching TV with my mom when she looked at me and said, "You know, I'd still love you if you were gay."

You know, where i live is filled with large family immigrant germans, and some will think your automaticly gay because your not married in your early twenties.
One of my immigrant friends think Vin Desiel is gay because he's not married.

 

[Mother Vashti]

But we have the Bible, that tells us it's ok to be single.

I don't know why but that line was hilarious

 

[Ginsu]

Excuse me while I go post at the fashion and clothing forum.