Why women trust issues with men is taken seriously within the church but men trust issues with women are brushed off ?

[QuestionQuest74]

If a woman discusses her trust issues with men due to her experiences and what she has witnessed church members are more likely to comfort her and try to understand where she is coming from and get her Godly help.

But if a man discusses the same about women he is most likely to be told he needs to repent or he is over-exaggerating or the devil is deceiving him.

 

[trophy33]

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Also, women are frequently better actors, they can simply sell their stories better, colorfully, with emotions. While men say it simply, pragmatically, without embellishment, without exaggeration.

 

[Neogaia777]

If a woman discusses her trust issues with men due to her experiences and what she has witnessed church members are more likely to comfort her and try to understand where she is coming from and get her Godly help.

But if a man discusses the same about women he is most likely to be told he needs to repent or he is over-exaggerating or the devil is deceiving him.

It's because all men are dogs, or pigs, are all only inherently evil always only you know.

Nobody gives a pigs butt about their "stuff", because they are always the problem you know.

Really, we just need to get rid of all men together really, etc. Unless they are gay, or are a homosexual, because that then means that they are effeminate at least, etc.

But all the other ones, we don't want or need them, and wish they would all just go away, etc.

God Bless.

 

[BobRyan]

If a woman discusses her trust issues with men due to her experiences and what she has witnessed church members are more likely to comfort her and try to understand where she is coming from and get her Godly help.

But if a man discusses the same about women he is most likely to be told he needs to repent or he is over-exaggerating or the devil is deceiving him.

Eph 5:​

22 Wives, subject yourselves to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.​

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25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, 26 so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are parts of His body. 31 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless, as for you individually, each husband is to love his own wife the same as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.​

IN Church today - it is only acceptable to quote what the husbands obligation is - and if the obligation of the wife is mentioned as stated above it is often only stated in efforts to dismiss it.

But the truth is both have issues and Satan is dragging all of society down a sink hole of moral decay and rebellion.

The result? --- It is EASY to see why wives do not want to submit to a husband that refuses to love her as Christ loved the church - AND it is easy to see why husbands feel alienated from wives that refuse to submit or respect their husbands.

But the cycle of rebellion can be broken by just one of them choosing repentance and obedience to God - leading the way for their partner to do the same.

 

[public hermit]

If a woman discusses her trust issues with men due to her experiences and what she has witnessed church members are more likely to comfort her and try to understand where she is coming from and get her Godly help.

But if a man discusses the same about women he is most likely to be told he needs to repent or he is over-exaggerating or the devil is deceiving him.

Oh boy, I can see this is going to turn into a woman bashing thread. Here's the thing, if you're a sweet pea with a soft heart and have a problem with women, either toughen up or accept the inevitable pains of life. The world does not conform to our desires. You can't cry about women and the evils of feminism, which is always lurking in threads like this, if your misogyny is supprted by sweet pea feelings and whining. If you think life is unfair, it is. My advice: deny yourself and your passions, embrace detachment from worldly concerns, and be free.

 

[Michie]

If a woman discusses her trust issues with men due to her experiences and what she has witnessed church members are more likely to comfort her and try to understand where she is coming from and get her Godly help.

But if a man discusses the same about women he is most likely to be told he needs to repent or he is over-exaggerating or the devil is deceiving him.

You seem very familiar. Did you used to go by a different name?