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Why we are single

Travelers.Soul

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Yeah.....that's not me at all. I never thought the guys were blind if they liked me and I don't have an unhealthy love of self. I do however have some standards. The fact the guy has to be a Christian, or I won't date him and I won't have sex with him even if he is, knocks a lot of my "admirers" out of the running.
 
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Niels

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I don't necessarily see singleness as problematic. It's just a state of being. Would I rather have a girlfriend? Sure, but I'm not sad or unhappy like the guy in the video. People with similar faults and gifts as mine get married all the time, so that's not it. I get invited to more parties than I care to attend, so that isn't it either. Once in a while, I also go on dates. The kind of woman I'm attracted to is attainable. In the same league as me if you believe in such things, but not very common. Some of us just haven't met the right one yet. By that, I don't mean a mythical "the one", but somebody that we simply click with well enough to marry.
 
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ImAllLikeOkWaitWat

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I am already complete in Jesus Christ.

I don't think anyone should enter a relationship with the hope it will complete them or fulfill them. I just look at them as an added bonus but not necessary.
 
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Not David

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I don't think anyone should enter a relationship with the hope it will complete them or fulfill them. I just look at them as an added bonus but not necessary.
Unfortunately, that happens.
 
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ImAllLikeOkWaitWat

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wait, so you agree I'm ugly? Woooow
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lol of course not. But regardless you can't do anything about your face anyways, thats why i focused on personality. Because we can always improve our personality.;)
 
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