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It takes a while to find the right woman. That is a whole other different story. The point is that the effort should be made. There are things parents have to deprive themselves for the sake of their children, its called sacrifice and love.
The gender IS important because of maternal instinct and chivalry, there are things only a mother can give, and things only a father can give. A child whos been adopted by 2 gay men is going to lack the mothering and nuturing qualitys that only a mother can give. Also breastfeeding is important also to the development of the child since formula too early can cause problems. I don't have a problem with someone who has gay sexual urges to adopt a child, as long as he gives up that lifestyle and gets married to a woman he loves. Its possible for someone who has a gay sexual orientation to fall in love with a woman and that effort should be made for the child and the wellbeing of himself. That is the loving thing to do if he truely cares for the child. Like I said , its unfair to the child to deprive him of that all because of sexual orientation.
Yet children raised by gay and lesbian parents are happy and well adjusted and grow up to be content and productive adults.The gender IS important because of maternal instinct, there are things only a mother can give, and things only a father can give. A child whos been adopted by 2 gay men is going to lack the mothering and nuturing qualitys that only a mother can give. Also breastfeeding is important also to the development of the child since formula too early can cause problems.
People are not their sexual urges unless you are willing to admit the only reason your wife married you was to satisfy her lustful sexual urges.I don't have a problem with someone who has gay sexual urges to adopt a child,
So prospective adoptive must lie. How Christian of you.as long as he gives up that lifestyle and gets married to a woman he loves.
Its possible for someone who has a gay sexual orientation to fall in love with a woman and that effort should be made for the child and the wellbeing of himself. That is the loving thing to do if he truely cares for the child.
What makes you think homosexual parents can't love their children? I think gay parents love their children just as much as straight parents do, and would sacrifice anything for their kids.
You do realize that it is a physical impossibility for "gays" to be "parents." Homosexuality cannot ever produce children. You do know that don't you? If not, I would suggest you get ahold of a middle school physiology or biology book and read it. It puts an end to the homophobia thing as well.
And if you cant justify hatred and prejudice against a minority any other way .lie.This is the new myth. That homosexuals are the saintliest people on TV. Totally different in reality when going to just a few gay bars. Not even the most attractive straight guy can have 50 sexual encounters a night. That happens in gay bars.
You do realize that it is a physical impossibility for "gays" to be "parents." Homosexuality cannot ever produce children. You do know that don't you? If not, I would suggest you get ahold of a middle school physiology or biology book and read it. It puts an end to the homophobia thing as well.
Yet children raised by gay and lesbian parents are happy and well adjusted and grow up to be content and productive adults.
So obviously something is wrong with your theory.
People are not their “sexual urges” – unless you are willing to admit the only reason your wife married you was to satisfy her lustful sexual urges.
This same tactic has been used by racists – to better justify their bigotry racists will denigrate non-whites to animal status evoking a lot of references to sex and how non-whites are sexually dangerous (better hide the white women). what you present is no different
So prospective adoptive must lie. How Christian of you.
I wonder if you think prospective black parents should be allowed to adopt so long as they give up the “black lifestyle” and wear whiteface
so to be a “loving” parent a gay man must lie and tell his spouse he no longer wishes to be married to him
he must lie to his parents about his leaving reasons for his spouse
he must lie to his family about his reasons for leaving his spouse
he must lie to his friends about his leaving reasons for his spouse
he must lie to his co-workers about his leaving reasons for his spouse
he must lie to his neighbors about his leaving reasons for his spouse
he must lie to his pastor about his leaving reasons for his spouse
he must lie to any prospective woman he meets
He must lie and pretend to love her
he must lie to her parents about his feelings
he must lie to her family about his feelings
he must lie to her friends about his feelings
he must lie to her pastor about his feelings
he must lie to her neighbors about his feelings
he must lie to her co-workers about his feelings
He must lie to this woman about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her parents about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her family about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her friends about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her pastor about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her neighbors about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to her co-workers about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must enter a sham marriage
a sacred marriage to – so he will belying to God
he must lie to his parents about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to his family about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to his friends about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to his pastor about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to his neighbors about his reasons for wanting to be married
he must lie to his co-workers about his reasons for wanting to be married
he will have to lie to adoption agencies
he will have to lie to social workers
and if some poor child is given into adoption in this sham marriage he will have to lie to his child
lie to the child’s friends and their families
lie to the child’s teachers
and lie
and lie
and lie
and lie
all that lying just so bigots like you can lie and pretend that somehow lying isn’t a sin
That comes form one of the Christian hate sites, Focus on the Family, or the Family Fesearch Counsel (ever notice how these groups try to give themselves names opposed to what they actually represent?)Yeah, I thought that was a very odd comment as well....the lengths some people will go??
That comes form one of the Christian hate sites, Focus on the Family, or the Family Fesearch Counsel (ever notice how these groups try to give themselves names opposed to what they actually represent?)
Very weak argument...
1) Name 5 things that only a mother can give a child.
2) Name 5 things that only a father can give a child.
3) Some women can't breast feed, some women choose not to breast feed and if a person was desperate to provide breast milk...they can hire a wet nurse or they can utilize the services of a lactation clinic ( Vancouver has one for example)
4) A homosexual could marry a woman and have children. The homosexual would be living a lie and denying his true self, that he has an adult same sex attraction...physically and emotionally.
5) The loving thing to do, imo, is to raise the child in a loving, caring, nurturing environment regardless of sexual orientation...( you've actually contradicted yourself)
Just to summarize, you basically didn't make even one concrete point that holds any weight.
I thought that that number ' 50 ' was just made up....to think that there are people who believe that someone, heck anyone, anywhere is able to have 50 sexual encounters in one evening and then to pass that off as common?
Propaganda...very bad propaganda at that!
Lying, like same-gender sex is a sin.
And if you cant justify hatred and prejudice against a minority any other way .lie.
It appears that nothing can crack the Gay Agenda and those that wield it with absolute power.
Really? How much "saintly behavior" is going on in Gay bars and bathhouses? Care a guess? Anytime someone presents reality about the gay life you gays call it hate. I don't think it is hate when you people point out the sinful behavior of Christians. Please deal with reality. Opposing homosexuality has nothing to do with hate.
I would take you and your like more seriously if you spent just as much time condemning the 245 million Americans that tell lies every day....instead of concentrating all your energy on a minority, like homosexuals.
You said it, sin is sin...so why so much emphasis on a small minority?
Why not go after the universal sins, like masturbation or telling lies?
Why not put your energy in condemning all the liars?
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