I find it very ironic in a day and age when it is so politically correct to say that women should be able to choose to kill babies and that gays should be able to choose to marry that those same people scream intolerance when God allows them to choose to go to hell.
You're painting a false picture of the situation. You seem to think that they have all the information laid out for them, and it's simply a choice of heaven vs. hell. However, for someone who does not believe in either one (like myself), there is no choice present; you cannot choose to go somewhere if you don't believe it exists.
Furthermore, by phrasing things in that way, you fail to recognize the active role God plays in the damnation of souls in Christian thought. If God is the judge, then it is his judgements that send people to hell. It is not their non-existent choice that sends them to hell. It is God's reaction to that choice. You cannot absolve God of the responsibility that he has in sending people to hell whether you think it's just or not.
You have all the information you need. If after reviewing it, you still choose to shun Jesus then you know the fate. That is not God's doing, it is yours.
I would venture that most non-Christians
don't have all the information they need. Aside from historical questions of Jesus' existence, life, and miracles, there are a number of questions about the structure of Christianity. For Jesus' sacrifice to be meaningful to us, there must be some eternal hell he saved us from. But an eternal hell would be an infinite punishment for a finite crime, and that certainly is not just, so the Christian God cannot be perfectly just. I understand that there are answers to these dilemmas, but I haven't found any of them satisfactory yet.
Is it my doing that I cannot discover the answer to problems that have perplexed thinkers for ages? If not, then it is not my doing that I am not a Christian, because these questions are crucial if one is to accept Christianity.
And who said that everyone before Jesus went to hell? I can point to many people just in the Bible who lived long before Jesus who obviously did not go to hell. Those without the law were not expected to keep it but would be judged according to how they lived their lives and if in doing so they were showing the fact that each of us is born with a inherrent need for God.
Who are those "without the law?" Wouldn't someone who found it impossible to believe in what the Bible says be just as "without the law" as a man born in India 200 years before Christ? If so, then why do Christians talk as if it is so certain that non-Christians will go to hell?