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I am the nifty one not Latriea. Multitasking as usual.Before I respond: Latreia are you Rigal or nifty? Or any other personality in this thread? (hard to keep track) I DO want to respond in a serious manner--but I have to know who I am talking to.
RE: The idea that IIDB members promptly discuss how wrong any staff action taken against us is. I provide for your consideration my very first post at IIDB that concerns moderator action taken against me:
where are all your other quotes regarding your interaction with CF staff??? care to post those?? what about the one you wrote about me-when you dont even know me...
funny how you avoid quoting those..
thanks. I wasn't accusing-- I was merely naming names that were new-- I didn't mean to cast suspicioun your way. Sorry about that.I am the nifty one not Latriea. Multitasking as usual.
It astounds me to know so far I have been thought to be so many people on here when I am just me!
Gotta love staff jumping on members while they are upset about members jumping on them on another board. That whole eye for an eye thing is really in practice around here.
I hope that you and Nitz can discuss the issues between you and find resolution and reconciliation. I'd like to see that happen here at CF for a change, instead of off-site where the discussion of the issues can more easily take place.keep playing the victim if you want to....people say they wanna talk things thru and then when they dont like what is said, its "staff jumping on members". seems like some folks at iidb want everything "out in the open" and then when it doesnt suit them, some cry "foul! I have been victimized!"
i was actually directing my previous comments to another poster. Thanks.
keep playing the victim if you want to....people say they wanna talk things thru and then when they dont like what is said, its "staff jumping on members". seems like some folks at iidb want everything "out in the open" and then when it doesnt suit them, some cry "foul! I have been victimized!"
i was actually directing my previous comments to another poster. Thanks.
OH you have hit it so hard right here--- I feel guilty.It reminds me of choosing a spouse with flaws that drives one crazy.
But with the intention of changing the intended spouse after marriage.
It never works.
Either you accept or you don't.
Or, you enjoy the aspects you admire & overlook those you do not.
There comes a time a person must move on & concentrate on more productive endeavors.
Oh I saw to whom your comments were directed. A person who posted one of their posts from IIDB to show that not everything is griping. You jumped on them because they griped in other posts. Wait for it...you griped because they griped. Love the irony of that.
My record at CF is clean. I don't claim to have been victimized. I am not at IIDB whinging on about staff actions taken towards me. I am there because I have good friends that post there and it is a place where we can freely discuss things. Give us that place here and the thread at IIDB goes the way of the dodo. If not then we keep talking there out of frustration.
Anyway I thought staff was held to a higher standard. Can you explain how your post generates peaceful discussion or was that removed from staff protocol?
I hope that you and Nitz can discuss the issues between you and find resolution and reconciliation. I'd like to see that happen here at CF for a change, instead of off-site where the discussion of the issues can more easily take place.
There comes a time a person must move on & concentrate on more productive endeavors.
That's O.K. Miss Shelby.thanks. I wasn't accusing-- I was merely naming names that were new-- I didn't mean to cast suspicioun your way. Sorry about that.
Thats coolOkay, here's an idea.
Keep this thread open, don't close it.
Don't moderate it, except for obvious flames & profanity.
Let people say here what they usually say at Elsewhere.
End result, Elsewhere CF threads will die out.
Support Forum doesn't have a fellowship thread. This could be it. A thread where people fellowship, and also releave some tension, without fear of being punished for expressing their true thoughts.
It'll only happen if both of you want it to happen. Nothing will stand in your way. The only thing that matters in this issue is what you and Nitz communicate to each other. Others' comments on your issue is simply noise.That sounds like a great idea ravenscape. although, i dont believe its gonna happen (not after reading the posts directed at me above.). Thanks for trying. you are appreciated here.
That sounds like a great idea ravenscape. although, i dont believe its gonna happen (not after reading the posts directed at me above.). Thanks for trying. you are appreciated here.
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