The way I know Him now is nothing like I "knew" God when I was younger. But I would never have known Him like I do now if it were not for the years of 1. Praying 2.studying scriptures 3. taking notes about my experiences and comparing them to the bible and modern science...I could go on and on.
Hi, Shempster

I am Bill . . . good to meet you, God bless you and your family
There is knowing by means of study and reading and research. And there is knowing by experience > and our experience of God can be to experience things God does in our lives, and we can experience how He Himself is, in us >
"Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." (Romans 5:5)
And it says,
"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him." (1 Corinthians 6:17)
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
So, we can know God personally, by submitting to how He personally rules us in our "hearts" < very personal . . . right in our "hearts", Paul says. We all are called to this > "in one body".
What I am wondering is that if I had not done all of that over the last 20 years I might have no clue who He is or even if He even exists in the first place.
Study and prayer can help, but we need how God personally demonstrates His love meaning of His word
So why is it that God hides himself so cleverly?
Our own nature makes us so we experience or do not experience God. It is like the Bible says > there are people who are blind. In case a "dark" blind person has never seen a color > no matter what you tell the person about colors, no way can the blind person know what you are talking about, though he or she might know words of theory and explanation.
Like this > God is our Father and Jesus and the Holy Spirit > the family Being Supreme of family caring and sharing love. So, God is this personal, not only to be known in study and words of revelation. Even if God were to personally explain to you everything, if you and I do not become personally loving with Him, we do not discover how He is. But in His love, by becoming gentle and humble in all-loving love, we become personally loving with Him so we know Him >
"Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world." (1 John 4:17)
We truly get to know Him, by how His love cures us in our nature, so that "as He is, so are we in this world."
So, if you have a family, you can get to know God by learning how to love as family with Him

And become personally loving with any and all people, howsoever He has us loving. And with this we come to truly know Him, deeper than any doctrine and beliefs can tell >
"to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God." (Ephesians 3:19)
So much so that honestly nobody can really PROVE any doctrine because there is always a verse to debunk the theory.
But with God we can discover what He means by His word. The meaning, by the way, "often" is better than any of the views and ideas which arguing people are trying to prove. Both "sides" of an argument can be wrong. Twenty different representations can all be wrong. But, Shempster, even while Satan's kingdom can have things set up to make it look as though no one can figure out what God's word means > we have this unconditional guarantee from God Himself >
"'So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth;
. It shall not return to Me void,
. But it shall accomplish what I please,
. And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.'"
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Isaiah 55:11)
God Himself with us shall do all that His word means to Him; so simply trust Him to do all that is His word, and enjoy and rest in the LORD (Psalm 37:7, Matthew 11:28-30) . . . but also seeking Him for His correction which is not "joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." (in Hebrews 12:11)
So, with God's correction we have His own love's "peaceable fruit of righteousness" in us. But there are people who think that by getting saved we only are "declared" righteous, but they do not say we need deep correction of our nature so we become righteous in His peace like He is. They have "faith" to believe they are righteous but they do not actually experience how in His love we have His "peaceable fruit of righteousness". And they can keep on sinning and having various trouble and torments of personality, which God's love would cure them of having > 1 John 4:18, James 5:16, Galatians 6:1.
So, God's word has the love meaning of how we share personally with God Himself and with one another as His family.
Therefore, Shempster, because people are impersonal, just using other people . . . they are not in God's personally caring and sharing love; so they miss out, because of their using and trying to just control people. And in our own free wills we can seek to be our own dictators, instead of personally submitting to our Father. Our own self's free willing and its human efforts can keep us from truly knowing God > Jesus says, "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me," in Luke 9:23.