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Why I'm Orthodox . . . and why others may want to be too.

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geocajun

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vanshan said:
Geo, you jumped in midway with nothing but attacks and criticisms, so you are in no place to act as host here, showing anyone to their seat.

Basil
Basil, the reason perhaps that you feel that way is because i've been correcting you, however I am the 4th most active poster in this thread, so with all due respect, you notion that I just showed up is bogus and just another attempt by you, to garner more support for your arguments by taking cheap shots at a Catholic.
 
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vanshan said:
Geo, you jumped in midway with nothing but attacks and criticisms, so you are in no place to act as host here, showing anyone to their seat.

Basil

Aren't you the host?

I'm wonderin'. Are there gonna be snacks served at this party?

I like snacks.
 
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vanshan said:
I don't think you've made a good case here, so maybe you should take CaDan's advice and change strategies. Becoming defensive makes your case look week, not convincing.

Basil
Basil, being an ardent defender of a Church which disagrees with mine, it comes as no suprise to me that you dont find my representations convincing, as by it's nature and like all non-catholic christians your faith is defined by its differences to mine.
 
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vanshan said:
Geo, you jumped in midway with nothing but attacks and criticisms, so you are in no place to act as host here, showing anyone to their seat.

Basil

Thank you, Basil. Much appreciated.

Geo, does my opinion mean less than any others? Arent you a tolerant fella....
 
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JimfromOhio said:
I was pointing out and hopefully people can see that the top 5 posters, 4 of them are Catholics. 1 of the 5 is the OP.

Not fair!

We squabble amongst ourselves, too. Especially when we don't get our snacks.

Vanshan! Where's those snacks?
 
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LucasGoltz said:
I'm not even sure what you're saying..:confused:
English please?




How do you figure if a man is celibate and can not marry a women he will crave sex with children? Please explain this logic to me.

Your'e just full of ad hominem attacks eh? Now I'm stupid to think that the problem may arise from the fact the celebacy could be the problem? Paul says that "it is better to marry than to burn". Why does he say that? Because we are sexual creatures and it is better for us to marry, and have that release than to stay celebate and battle those sexual demons. I didnt say this, Paul did. Maybe I'm reading mroe into what he said than I should, but I dont see how I have.

He said it is better to be like him, celibate but if you can't, then marry- we do not condemn married clergy, it is a discipline we chose. It is not dogma and we are we basing our rule on Paul by believing it is better for cleric to be celibate than to marry.

But again, how do you get that men will crave sex with children if the can not marry a women? I just do not understand the association.

Celebacy isnt the only possible reason. I just cant think of any others, besides the fact that the church endorses sick men as clergy.
I never said it was exclusively a catholic problem. I said that the problem is worse in the catholic church.


And I am telling you it's not- it is only publicized more and I wonder why? If we weren't the true Church why would so many want to bring her down by exposing her sins while concealing theirs?

Child abuse is not more rampart in the church and the crime and sin of a cleric is no worse than one of a parent who will abuse their own children or a mother who will cover up for a molesting husband or boyfriend.




Did I ever say "proves"? Slap your head again, buddy...

You said you persoanlly believe... why? it's stupid.




You ingored what I wrote.

No, not true.

We need to start with the parents?!?!? WHAT?! Are you kidding me?
That is not the place to start AT ALL! Is this the way catholics think? The parents should be held responsible? Thats just sick.

Not for the crime against the kid but for not reporting it to the police... if my kid was molested by a priest- you think I'm going to the bishop and not the cops?

Do you realize many kids did tell their parents and they didn’t act on it, why aren’t they at fault along with the bishops?

And do you realize married men do this to their kids and mom’s cover it up? This is not a Catholic Church problem it is a problem period in our world.

We need to start with the church, and everyones knows that!

Yes and parents need to report to the cops, not the bishops and we all know that.

You think your church cannot do wrong, and you throw these blinders on. WAKE UP!

LOL. where have you seen me claim that- I have candidly said the Church is wrong on this matter but it is not a matter of teaching, so I will not leave the truth over the sins of those who can not abide in the truth.

This problem stems from your church, so stop deflecting it onto others. Take some sort of responsibility for once! if your church didnt allow this to happen, this would be all be moot.
Oh please-you think priest are the only ones to molest kids? You’re dreaming.
I agree, people shouldnt take bribes, and people should always go to the police, but you are just representing a small percentage of the cases and trying to make it the majority. It doesnt work that way.
No...I am not, I am representing a LARGE number.




Again, I'm NOT debating against atheists right now. Is that clear?
This is just another way for catholics to dismiss the issue altogether.
Suit yourself. enjoy that bubble you live in...
Christians mudslinging against one another is what justifies atheism and you know it.
 
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LucasGoltz said:
Thank you, Basil. Much appreciated.

Geo, does my opinion mean less than any others? Arent you a tolerant fella....
Lucas, I would love to hear your opinion! - please say something of substance and I promise I'll read it. The comments i'm referring to are the ones I quoted earlier, where you are simply taking drive-by jibes at people, and offering nothing to the thread whatsoever but chaos.
 
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CaDan said:
Not fair!

We squabble amongst ourselves, too. Especially when we don't get our snacks.

Vanshan! Where's those snacks?

here, I will up my post to be next to CaDan, (NOT DAN) :p

starving here :yum:
 
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here is a snickerdoodle
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thereselittleflower said:
Now tell me . . . Does God VIOLATE His Own Laws Basil?

Um . . . it this a trick question? I guess He does. I mean, we must truly be contrite for breaking our marriage commitment, but God doesn't despise sinners, He shows them mercy. He is less of a legislator and more of a Loving Counselor in my understanding of Him. You keep asking for proof of my postion, but how many acts of mercy do we read of in the Bible. How many people did Jesus stone, because by the laws of God it was the "right" thing to do? Christ looked sympathetcially to our weaknesses. I believe that says it all. It doen't give us license to sin, so grace and mercy can about, but it reassures us that in the midst of our sin, He can forgive us, if we honestly repent.

Basil
 
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GraceInHim said:
here, I will up my post to be next to CaDan, (NOT DAN) :p

starving here :yum:

JimfromOhio has popcorn.

I have about a hundred Christmas cookies. Try the jewel broach ones. They have mint jelly. Very nice.
 
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CaDan said:
*CHOMP*

Do you have any of that kind with the cheese on it? I really like that.

Oops. Its Thursday.

Is Thursday a dairy fasting day?

I have the following:

with butter
with no butter
with cheese
with caramel

^_^ :p

In fact, earlier, I was watching the thread while eating popcorn. I am serious. LOL
 
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JimfromOhio said:
I have the following:

with butter
with no butter
with cheese
with caramel

^_^ :p

In fact, earlier, I was watching the thread while eating popcorn. I am serious. LOL

17.gif
here is the CHEESE
 
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