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Why I Think Christmas is Not Biblical (Please read OP before posting).

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Well yes, but to an exclusive extent. Fortunately, promotion of the KJV only idea was prohibited on the forum shortly after I joined, which is good, because that was seriously annoying.
Yes. I don't use the KJV myself - except occasionally when comparing translations. I have no problem with those who like/prefer it, but it was annoying to be told that it is the only valid translation.
What I am saying is that rather, idolatry could be reasonably asserted when someone insists their preferred version of the Bible is the only true, accurate or reliable version.
I think that's what I was trying to say too - though I probably worded it badly.
 
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Yes parents tell their kids Santa clause is real just like we usually say the Easter bunny and the tooth fairy are real, it’s a game that’s fun for kids. It’s not intended to be malicious or deceitful it’s intended to bring joy and happiness. The intent is good not evil. Would you say that Rahab should’ve told the truth to the Canaanite soldiers about the whereabouts of the Israel spies? I’m sure you know that she was counted as being righteous by God for telling that lie. So apparently all lies are not evil in nature.

The word Santa is a title not his name and it means Saint in Spanish, quite the opposite of satan. And if you choose not to honor Christ’s birthday ever that’s certainly your prerogative but according to Romans 14:5-6 you shouldn’t judge others for doing so.

“One person regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, and he who eats, does so for the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to God.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭14‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬
A lie in having fun is still a lie. Your logic is flawed. Surely if you know Scripture, we are to imitate Christ, and the Lord Jesus would never do such a thing as lie to children as a part of having fun. Remember, when Paul said to live is Christ and to die is gain? If you are living like the world, then you are not living like Christ would live. One needs to be born again by the Holy Spirit and the Holy Scriptures in order to see what I am talking about. We need to receive not the spirit of this world, but the Spirit of God to be able to see such things. The spirit of this world will tell you lying is okay if it is done in fun. But I am not really hear to convince you, but to let others know of the truth.

1 John 2:15-17
”Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.”

Romans 14:5-6 is dealing with matters in regards to the faith. The word “faith” appears 4 times in the King James Bible. Skipping back a few chapters we learn the following truth.

Romans 10:17,
”So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”

In other words, Romans 10:17 is saying you need to have the Scriptures in order to have the faith. So Romans 14 must be referring to something within the Scriptures and not secular worldly holidays or holy days created by religionists with no Scriptural allowance or warrant.

Meaning, Romans 14 is about what kinds of food you can eat (dietary laws found in the Old Testament), and the celebration of certain holy days as found in Scripture that would align with the New Covenant. Seeing, Christmas is a secular worldly holiday that is not mentioned in the Bible it has zero grounds for being a consideration of merit among the things alluded to in Romans 14. Nowhere do we see the disciples or other believers worshiping Jesus as a baby when He is an adult or after He is risen. To do so would actually be an untruth if they were to do that because Jesus never revealed that He could morph back into baby form.


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Oh, and Romans 14 is not an encouragement to throw oneself into the arms all of the ceremonial laws of Moses, either. Paul also says, “Ye observe days, and months, and times, and years. I am afraid of you, lest I have bestowed upon you labour in vain.” (Galatians 4:10-11). In other words, I don’t believe Paul is saying we have a liberty to keep all of the ceremonial laws of the Old Covenant in Romans 14. If we seek to be justified by the Law, we have fallen from grace.
 
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Yes parents tell their kids Santa clause is real
Santa Claus - as in Saint Nicholas - was real.
He was a Bishop who wore a red cassock, and who went around giving gifts, in secret, to the poor.
Somehow, over the years, that evolved into someone who gave gifts to everyone, on the same day. And someone came up with the idea that he had a sleigh and went down people's chimneys as an explanation for how he could get around the whole world in a night and deliver gifts without being seen.
So all the flying reindeer etc are embellishment, but the person at the heart of it all, was real.

Many people today give anonymous gifts to charities - maybe they, too, are acting in the same spirit as St Nicholas?
 
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the Lord Jesus would never do such a thing as lie to children as a part of having fun.
No, he wouldn't.
But Saint Nicholas - a real person - gave gifts to the poor in secret. Jesus said "do not let your left hand know what your right is doing." and told us not to make a show of giving to the poor.
So the heart of of the Santa Claus story is real - everything else is embellishment.
 
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A lie in having fun is still a lie. Your logic is flawed. Surely if you know Scripture, we are to imitate Christ, and the Lord Jesus would never do such a thing as lie to children as a part of having fun. Remember, when Paul said to live is Christ and to die is gain? If you are living like the world, then you are not living like Christ would live.
You’re being ridiculous and stretching the word of God to the most extreme interpretation possible. According to what your saying here when my 5 year old draws a picture and asks me if it looks good I should say no it looks like crap it’s a bunch of stick figures unevenly proportioned with no shading or depth, it looks terrible. Or if my wife asks me if a certain outfit makes her look fat my answer should be no I wouldn’t blame that on the outfit. Telling kids that Santa clause, the Easter bunny, or the tooth fairy isn’t a lie it’s a fictional story, like little red riding hood or the three little pigs. You have to apply a little common sense when discerning the scriptures, the lies that are referred to in the scriptures are intended for the purpose of deceitfulness and malicious intent not merely fictional stories intended for entertainment purposes. I suppose you would also be opposed to the show Highway To Heaven where Michael Landon would go around serving God helping people in need, preaching the gospel, teachings Christ’s message and performing miracles because it’s a bunch of fictional stories but everyone knows that it’s not intended to be factual. The purpose of the show was entertainment and to teach people good moral principles and about God’s expectations.
 
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In other words, Romans 10:17 is saying you need to have the Scriptures in order to have the faith. So Romans 14 must be referring to something within the Scriptures and not secular worldly holidays or holy days created by religionists with no Scriptural allowance or warrant.
Are you seriously going to intentionally twist the word of God to fit your agenda? Because that’s a far worse offense than telling kids a fictional story about Santa clause. You know full well that Paul is saying that no one should judge us for honoring God on a certain day.
 
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Santa Claus - as in Saint Nicholas - was real.
He was a Bishop who wore a red cassock, and who went around giving gifts, in secret, to the poor.
Somehow, over the years, that evolved into someone who gave gifts to everyone, on the same day. And someone came up with the idea that he had a sleigh and went down people's chimneys as an explanation for how he could get around the whole world in a night and deliver gifts without being seen.
So all the flying reindeer etc are embellishment, but the person at the heart of it all, was real.

Many people today give anonymous gifts to charities - maybe they, too, are acting in the same spirit as St Nicholas?
Yes I know that my friend, I mentioned that in a previous post.
 
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Yes I know that my friend, I mentioned that in a previous post.
Sorry, that wasn't intended as a criticism or anything.
I was tying quickly before I went to work, and probably didn't read your posts carefully enough.
 
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Sorry, that wasn't intended as a criticism or anything.
I was tying quickly before I went to work, and probably didn't read your posts carefully enough.
No problem friend no offense taken here. Have a blessed day.
 
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A lie in having fun is still a lie. Your logic is flawed. Surely if you know Scripture, we are to imitate Christ, and the Lord Jesus would never do such a thing as lie to children as a part of having fun.
So if Jesus had nieces and nephews, he would have never played make believe with them? He'd refuse to have an imaginary tea party his little niece?
 
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You’re being ridiculous
No. You are being ridiculous dear sir because you have absolutely zero biblical grounds to justify your lying.
Meaning, you have no biblical citations to give to back up your claims.
You are only going by your own thoughts, and we know that the Bible says,

"There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” (Proverbs 14:12).
"…every man did that which was right in his own eyes.” (Judges 21:25).

and stretching the word of God to the most extreme interpretation possible.
Chapter and verse. Biblical examples?

According to what your saying here when my 5 year old draws a picture and asks me if it looks good I should say no it looks like crap it’s a bunch of stick figures unevenly proportioned with no shading or depth, it looks terrible.
First of all. Christians should not swear like you just did now. Second, it would not be a lie to say it looks good within the realm or scope of comparison of children’s drawings. You can also evade the question and say something like, “You are going to turn out to be one of the best artists, little buddy." So no. You don’t have to lie.


Or if my wife asks me if a certain outfit makes her look fat my answer should be no I wouldn’t blame that on the outfit.
There are clever ways to answer in truth without having to insult her by openly saying she is fat. You can say you love her in any outfit, and she is beautiful to you (Speaking more overall and not specific in regards to her fat). Tell her that you prefer another outfit (which of course you would know that would not make her look as heavy).


Telling kids that Santa clause, the Easter bunny, or the tooth fairy isn’t a lie it’s a fictional story, like little red riding hood or the three little pigs. You have to apply a little common sense when discerning the scriptures, the lies that are referred to in the scriptures are intended for the purpose of deceitfulness and malicious intent not merely fictional stories intended for entertainment purposes.
Okay. Parents actually teach their kids that Santa is real and then later reveal he is not real. So they lied to their children. They will sometimes also do this with trying to convince them of the lie that tooth fairy exists, as well. So you think that lying in these instances is acceptable to God? Biblical examples? If you don’t have any examples, then you are making up your own standard of morality that does not align with the Bible.

I suppose you would also be opposed to the show Highway To Heaven where Michael Landon would go around serving God helping people in need, preaching the gospel, teachings Christ’s message and performing miracles because it’s a bunch of fictional stories but everyone knows that it’s not intended to be factual. The purpose of the show was entertainment and to teach people good moral principles and about God’s expectations.
I remember the existence of this TV show while it aired back in the 80s when I was growing up, but I don’t recall any of the details you mentioned about it because it was not a series I was into as a kid. But if it is fictional book, TV series, or film, generally this is stated at some point. We used to have the TV guide booklet and it stated whether it was fiction or not. Now, you have the online version on digital paid TV services. Sometimes the show itself will say that it is fiction, Etcetera. Parents will be quick to let their children know that they are simply watching something that is not real. Nobody I knew growing up ever thought that fictional movies and series were actually real because this was commonly accepted as fact at a very young age. It is a given that with the music, and the credits, it reveals that this is just fiction, as well. But the point is that with Santa, and the tooth fairy, some parents actually make their children believe they are real for a short period of time and they carry on this lie until they figure it out or the parents drop the bomb.
 
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So if Jesus had nieces and nephews, he would have never played make believe with them? He'd refuse to have an imaginary tea party his little niece?
Yes, because they technically do not exist. Imagining if you had an invisible nieces and nephews would make you look like you are either crazy or you are pandering to the culture of lying. There is no such invisible family members and so to pretend they exist is a lie. Jesus would never do that. Again, give your biblical examples to prove your case. If not, you have been conditioned by our society to believe lies as being acceptable and normal.

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I believe fantasy in our culture is almost worshiped. This is why many believe it is okay to create fantasies as if they are real and it is okay to lie, lust, steal, and or cheat as long as it is a fantasy. Look around you. Our world is flooded by endless Video games, movies, books, etcetera. Our culture is brainwashed by fantasy. You see their worship of this fantasy on T-shirts, cars, jackets, coffee mugs, and more. I have talked with Christians over the years here on the forums and they think certain sins are okay as long as it is done in fantasy. But Jesus condemned this kind of thinking in Matthew 5:28-30.
 
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First of all. Christians should not swear like you just did now. Second, it would not be a lie to say it looks good within the realm or scope of comparison of children’s drawings. You can also evade the question and say something like, “You are going to turn out to be one of the best artists, little buddy." So no. You don’t have to lie.
Crap is not a curse word otherwise it wouldn’t have let me type it here.
 
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No. You are being ridiculous dear sir because you have absolutely zero biblical grounds to justify your lying.
Rahab was counted as being righteous by God Himself for lying. That is biblical evidence right there that not all lies are a sin. I’ve already presented that evidence, you’re just refusing to accept it.
 
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Yes, because they technically do not exist. Imagining if you had an invisible nieces and nephews would make you look like you are either crazy or you are pandering to the culture of lying. There is no such invisible family members and so to pretend they exist is a lie. Jesus would never do that. Again, give your biblical examples to prove your case. If not, you have been conditioned by our society to believe lies as being acceptable and normal.
Jesus had brothers and sisters (Matt 12:46; Matt 13:56), and it would be highly unusual if none of them had any children. Especially in that culture of big families and people getting married really young. So if Jesus had a niece, which is more likely than not, would it be a sin if he had a pretend tea party with her?
 
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Are you seriously going to intentionally twist the word of God to fit your agenda?
Well, you did not offer an alternative interpretation beyond your Christmas Romans 14 interpretation (Which is pretty silly because such a holiday did not even exist at the time Paul was writing). Neither did Paul refer in Romans 14 to it applying to anything we like, either (like worldly holidays). You say that I have an agenda in Romans 14. It is a difficult chapter especially in light of Paul’s statement in Galatians 4:10-11. But you would have to back up your claims why you believe I have one by what I stated. I am happy to change my view on Romans 14 if one clarifies it better. But this would have to be in context to the surrounding chapters and should be able to be cross referenced with other parts of the New Testament, as well.


Because that’s a far worse offense than telling kids a fictional story about Santa clause.
Again, you did not offer WHY I was interpreting Romans 14 wrongfully.
You also do not see any moral problem in lying to your children about how Santa is real when in fact he is not.
Think a moment. Imagine if you were to continue to employ this tactic to them when they are older.
What if you did this with many other things as they were a teenager or an adult?
What if you told them other lies for a time and then later reveal the truth, and you kept doing this repeatedly all the time?
For example: You can tell them the lie that the Jews were not harmed during WW2, and then later reveal to them that you lied and that in fact that they were harmed. You can keep doing this their whole adult life if you like. But you will find that they will not trust what you say because you tell them lies. This is why lying is not good. Also, all liars will have their part in the Lake of Fire according to Revelation 21:8. Many will be shocked come Judgment Day. They worshiped fantasy and the world culture and they did not really follow Jesus, and His good ways. They followed their belly and what feels good.

2 Timothy 3:1-9 is a reality now for our day.

2 Timothy 3:1-2
"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves,…"

2 Timothy 3:4-5
“…lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof:…“

You know full well that Paul is saying that no one should judge us for honoring God on a certain day.
No. This is in context to honoring God on a particular day ACCORDING TO SCRIPTURE and not worldly secular holidays or days invented by the traditions of men from churches. Again, Romans 14 talks about “faith.” Romans 10:17 says faith comes by hearing the Word of God. The Word of God is SCRIPTURE. There is no faith in the things of God if it is not grounded or rooted in the BIBLE.
 
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There are clever ways to answer in truth without having to insult her by openly saying she is fat. You can say you love her in any outfit, and she is beautiful to you (Speaking more overall and not specific in regards to her fat). Tell her that you prefer another outfit (which of course you would know that would not make her look as heavy).
Well not that it matters but my wife isn’t fat. My wife is 5’3” and 125 lbs. But those answers are sure to be replied with “you didn’t answer the question” which automatically implies that yes she does look fat. You just need to recognize that the scriptures do give examples of lies that are not sins. Another example other than Rahab is the midwives Shiphrah and Puah who lied to Pharaoh and God was pleased with them because of their lie.

“Then the king of Egypt spoke to the Hebrew midwives, one of whom was named Shiphrah and the other was named Puah; and he said, “When you are helping the Hebrew women to give birth and see them upon the birthstool, if it is a son, then you shall put him to death; but if it is a daughter, then she shall live.” But the midwives feared God, and did not do as the king of Egypt had commanded them, but let the boys live. So the king of Egypt called for the midwives and said to them, “Why have you done this thing, and let the boys live?” The midwives said to Pharaoh, “Because the Hebrew women are not as the Egyptian women; for they are vigorous and give birth before the midwife can get to them.” So God was good to the midwives, and the people multiplied, and became very mighty.”
‭‭Exodus‬ ‭1‬:‭15‬-‭20‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬
 
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Rahab was counted as being righteous by God Himself for lying. That is biblical evidence right there that not all lies are a sin. I’ve already presented that evidence, you’re just refusing to accept it.
You are misinformed about the Bible in what it says on this point. See this thread here:

 
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I believe fantasy in our culture is almost worshiped. This is why many believe it is okay to create fantasies as if they are real and it is okay to lie, lust, steal, and or cheat as long as it is a fantasy. Look around you. Our world is flooded by endless Video games, movies, books, etcetera. Our culture is brainwashed by fantasy. You see their worship of this fantasy on T-shirts, cars, jackets, coffee mugs, and more. I have talked with Christians over the years here on the forums and they think certain sins are okay as long as it is done in fantasy. But Jesus condemned this kind of thinking in Matthew 5:28-30.
Are you actually applying that to a parent playing make believe with their little child? A long time ago I used to play make believe with my nice when she was little that I had a small invisible dog named Sparky. Do I need to repent of that and apologize to her?
 
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Jesus had brothers and sisters (Matt 12:46; Matt 13:56), and it would be highly unusual if none of them had any children. Especially in that culture of big families and people getting married really young. So if Jesus had a niece, which is more likely than not, would it be a sin if he had a pretend tea party with her?
Yes. it would be a sin to make others believe something is real that is not actually real. Now, if something is fiction and it is established that it is fiction by both the creators and the audience, that is different. But to create an illusion of something that is not true and then later reveal it was simply not true is a lie. Imagine this tactic being employed repeatedly as one raises their children. They would not trust you to tell the truth or they would think you are crazy for creating false illusions of fake people for a time.
 
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