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Why I stop hoping online for a mate
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hockeysistah12 said:
you know, everyone has issues (even if they are small). I think that's what makes us human. If we didn't have issues, Christ wouldn't have had to die for us. I think it is important to find someone who knows Christ and seems compatible with you, then you both can work on the issues together.
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I am so glad I read this thread, I too have been stuck in this "online dating scene" and I'm about to give it up also. Been doing it for almost four years now, and I never seem to meet someone real... know what I mean? I mean anyone can be whoever they want to be on the internet, ya never really know the person you are contacting or IM'img with really.
And like someone here said, I have not met not even ONE christian man on there. So where are the good christian men seeking real christian ladies??? I dont think they are online LOL. They might pretend to be christian or whatever, but none of them has held true. I mean they will start cussing or start with preverted stuff with me.
I'm not desperate, I live in a small town and I know practically every one who lives here LOL.
One man I met and actually dated for six months... yeah turned out he was separated. LONGGGG story, but needless to say when I found this out, I though I was gonna get sick right there in front of him, and I was shaking all over... it was terrible.
Maybe I need to just let go and let God
And like someone here said, I have not met not even ONE christian man on there. So where are the good christian men seeking real christian ladies??? I dont think they are online LOL. They might pretend to be christian or whatever, but none of them has held true. I mean they will start cussing or start with preverted stuff with me.
I'm not desperate, I live in a small town and I know practically every one who lives here LOL.
One man I met and actually dated for six months... yeah turned out he was separated. LONGGGG story, but needless to say when I found this out, I though I was gonna get sick right there in front of him, and I was shaking all over... it was terrible.
Maybe I need to just let go and let God
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Terri12345
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I actually met my "new bf" online last Tuesday.... I know that sounds weird b/c I havent' known him that long at all...but he's a really super guy. I met him online tuesday, hung out w/ him wednesday, thurs, fri, sat. he came over and met my parents and talked about me going to church w/ him on sunday, sunday i went to church w/ him.
He's actually only the 2nd person I've ever met in person from the internet; he wants to be a youth pastor and he seems like an awesome christian guy.
Try Christianmingle.com
He's actually only the 2nd person I've ever met in person from the internet; he wants to be a youth pastor and he seems like an awesome christian guy.
Try Christianmingle.com
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Terri12345
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At first, that did sound kinda crazy...but as long as yer open about it and tell the people that yer not "seeing them exclusively" it's ok. I mean..he didn't say that he "has 3 girl friends" from there, just that he was "dating" 3 girls from there...
There's no set definition for "dating" it could mean "interviewing people for the position of girl friend"..
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rebel_conservative
Baruch HaShem! Praise G-d!
JPPT1974 said:
lol, tell me about it... lets just say I know from experience...
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