I actually dont have a big problem with the Jesus character. he seems like a nice enough guy. he was hypocritical at times but arnt we all.
Jesus was never hypocritical. If he did something that he commands us not to do, that is because as God he is the only human who has the right to do it, such as judge other people (John 5:22, Matthew 7:1).
Also, to not have a problem with Jesus is to not have a problem with YHWH, because Jesus is one God with YHWH: "I and my Father are one" (John 10:30), and Jesus confirms that YHWH is God: "And Jesus answered [a man], The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord: And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these" (Mark 12:29-31).
Jesus was quoting from the Old Testament, the original Hebrew of which refers to YHWH: "Hear, O Israel: The LORD [YHWH] our God is one LORD [YHWH]: And thou shalt love the LORD [YHWH] thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might" (Deuteronomy 6:4-5). "Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD [YHWH]" (Leviticus 19:18).
The coming Antichrist, even though he may say that Jesus is a great guy, will still (like the ancient Gnostics) utterly revile YHWH: "And he opened his mouth in blasphemy against God, to blaspheme his name, and his tabernacle, and them that dwell in heaven" (Revelation 13:6), "and shall speak marvellous things against the God of gods" (Daniel 11:36).
The Antichrist will deceive the world into turning away from YHWH, and into worshipping Lucifer (Satan/the dragon) and himself (the beast) instead: "And they worshipped the dragon which gave power unto the beast: and they worshipped the beast" (Revelation 13:4).
how many religious wars have their been, how much loss of life has come as a direct result from religion.
Jesus commands Christians (who are under the New Covenant: Matthew 26:28, Jeremiah 31:31) never to employ violence against anyone, even in self-defense: "I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also" (Matthew 5:39). "Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword" (Matthew 26:52).
if that is the kind of love that God gives then ill pass.
The kind of love that God gives is so extreme, that he came to die for us sinners, to save "the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood" (Acts 20:28). "For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement" (Romans 5:6-11).
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God" (John 3:16-21).