Let me say first, that absolute assumptions are being made in post 32 and 15, that are not necessarilly true. It does seem possible for these statements to be false. What those statements demonstrate is conclusions of the people who have made them, which are declarations of their refusal or otherwise inability to accept a different point of view. Just saying, be a bit skeptical, test everything and hold on to what is good. I don't want to get into a debate about those things though. You and I are making good progress at this time, I rather want to see how far we can go with that.
Again, that seems to be saying to me that its a difficult path to follow and a very specific one.
I had confused and combined two similar statements, so it is best to look at the exact statements now that you are questioning what I said.
Matthew 9:13,14 and
Luke 13:22-27.
13 Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
This statement is given in a list of other statements, as Jesus is observed to be making a bunch of statements giving advice. This is not given in the context of someone having a conversation with Him. So, looking at this statement in isolation, we can see that many people choose to "enter" through the wide gate, but few "find" the narrow gate. My immediate question, is "why"? You seem to have already assumed the answer to this question, is that God does not make Himself obvious to everyone. That doesn't explain it, because some people do find the narrow gate, and seemingly God is often enough no more obvious to them. Then my assumption is that those who do find the narrow gate are different to those who entered through the wide gate.
What is that difference between those who do enter through the narrow gate and those who don't?
22 Then Jesus went through the towns and villages, teaching as he made his way to Jerusalem. 23 Someone asked him, Lord, are only a few people going to be saved?
He said to them, 24 Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to. 25 Once the owner of the house gets up and closes the door, you will stand outside knocking and pleading, Sir, open the door for us.
But he will answer, I dont know you or where you come from.
26 Then you will say, We ate and drank with you, and you taught in our streets.
27 But he will reply, I dont know you or where you come from. Away from me, all you evildoers!
So this is a different situation than that presented in Matthew, where Jesus is directly answering someone's question. Again, He has used the image "narrow" door, but He is not speaking about the wide gate "alternative" path that most people choose. Notice here, He has used the words "make every effort" (I said "work hard" - probably I remember this from a different translation), where He did not say this in the previous statement. Also you can see that here He is saying that many people try to enter, but they are not able to. He did not say that in the previous statement. That might contribute to your answer of my question above:
What is that difference between those who do enter through the narrow door and those who don't?
It doesn't seem to explain why he doesn't make it absolutely clear that he is here, which would make us so much more prepared to try and enter the narrow gate.
I would refer again to John 10:1, since the answer seems quite clear there. Are you sure you don't see the answer there? That would surprise me, I expect actually that a 6 year old would understand it intuitively, and that would prompt me to investigate whether you are resisting it. Maybe just think about it a bit, then let me know why you are not seeing how it answers this question. Maybe you are so foreign to the concepts of Christianity that some other fundamental understanding is required, and we should be able to address that quickly. I don't know your history either, I have just met you, though you seem like a familiar person, but the level of knowledge you are showing us does not correspond to anyone I am thinking of. Maybe you just have a similar attitude and manner of speech.
Why is he physically not standing next to the road, showing us where that narrow gate is?
I don't think a physical appearance is always necessary to be noticed. I would rather ask, since He claims to "stand at the door and knock", why are you not opening the door to Him? (Some do. Often it is a difficult decision. You probably should seek to understand their various experiences of accepting Him, if you are interested).