Why does Christianity have to be so dismissive? I feel as if every answer I receive is more of an excuse then an explanation.
Example 1: Why can't I be 100% assured of God's existence?
Reply: You need to have faith. God cannot be proven in any external verifiable way. Just believe!
Example 2: Why can't I communicate properly with God? Prayer seems to be more of a one way conversation, not a conversation between two beings that love each other dearly.
Reply: Man cannot understand God's ways. God is beyond our understanding. You are not in the right place to be questioning God's methods.
Example 3: Why am I separated from my creator? What action on my part constitutes such a cruel punishment?
Reply: Well....actually no action on your part caused God to separate himself from you. God is holding you and I responsible for our ancestors' decisions and that's why you, I, and the rest of humanity is trapped in an unavoidable and inescapable sinful prison. Even though we didn't even exist back then, we still deserve his wrath.
I don't believe for a second that Christianity is or has to be 'dismissive' . In fact, all of our modern science Founders were Christians because the evidence for God did not dispute what Science was discovering. Taking your 3 examples, here are the correct responses to each :
1. You can be assured of Gods existence because Science has discovered things which only an intelligent , personal, willful First Source could provide and which materialism and naturalism void of any intelligence, could not. The only faith you need, is to connect a couple of dots to an infinite, eternal , Being whom you haven't met YET , but will when you enter eternity. The faith required for an atheistic worldview/origins is so incredulous that it defies logic, reason, common sense , and good Science. ie : How do you get non material entities of Human Mind, Will, Emotions, Abstract thoughts, logic, reason, love, etc... from undirected material atoms ? For further reading :
http://www.christianforums.com/t7813978/
2. The type of personal relationship you describes IS possible with God because he promised to actually come to live and abide IN our Souls if we genuinely receive his Sons sacrificial death to cancel our sins thereby making us reconciled to himself. The fact that we are personal and have a spiritual nature to us, means that the foundation for a personal relationship with God can be had -- it just needs activating and that begins to exist upon trusting Christs finished merits on the cross was sufficient for ones personal sins commited against God and Others. Once this is done, studying The Bible for instructions on how to live in conjunction with Gods very Spirit living in you work to guide you thru life, makes you more in tune to the things of God, allows you more awareness of God nudging yuou to do or say things at an appropriate time , allows you to catch Gods vision for certain issues, and allows a 2 way communication from your Spirit to his Spirit similar to talking with someone face to face but not quite ...albeit still very real. We are all made for relationship to our Creator , for, he didn't just kickstart the Universe into being then not be a part of his most finest of all creations and purposes : US as God-like Representatives of himself. Just as a Military Commander stays in touch with his Troops, so does our personal Creator .
3. All of humanity is alienated from God because of sin nature and our willfulness to suppress our conscience so we can do what we want whether moral or immoral. It is a state of making SELF ones own authority and essentially making Oneself his own 'god' by rejecting the Creator himself. Man was made NOT be an authority unto himself, but to walk in perfect unison and harmony with God being number one . Man messes up things royally when he is left to his own urges, desires, motives, and choosings. We need the direction, loving moral mandates, and guidance that God offers and wants to give us. To put ourselves as our own little 'god' is the greatest crime we could ever commit because it pushes God and his love further away. If this continues , then eternity is simply Humans getting what they always desired : GreatER distance from God except without end. A perfect justice. Yet he gives us a way out of that now, today, if we are willing thru CHrist crucified on our behalf .
3.a. If you want to be reconciled to God and know that it is completely safe for you to die , then you can be . Hes provided THE only way possible and the rest is our choice. God calls us all accountable for our own sins and we can either pay the price or we can allow Christ to have paid the price on our behalf ; either way....God allows us that freewill choice but just as our Parents hope we will return love back to them....so does our Creator . The one sure way to return his love back to himself is to receive the free undeserved gift that he gave us all by sending Christ his Son to be our substitutionary atonement so we can be linked to God permanently.
One way or the other....all of humanity must decide what each is going to do with Jesus (Gods only way of reaching himself) . Have you made that decision yet one way or the other ?