Photini said:I quote myself here. I don't see where I said we should always ignore the negative posts. I don't consider myself "a good man" who remains silent...I am a sinful passionate person. I don't respond to a quarter of what I want to. I feel it's only going to be less and less as time goes on, except for fellowship posts, and conversation with my Orthodox brothers and sisters.
Sometimes I feel like there are a few posters who scan through threads just looking for the topics they can correct others on. This is terrible.
And is remaining silent necessarily the same thing as ignoring?
I am simply saying we must have discernment in which topics to involve ourselves in, and must approach it in a peaceful and calm manner. Also have Scriptural and widsom from our Fathers speak through you, not merely us speaking from our passions.
Dear Photini:
I'm sorry I misunderstood you.
I'm not accusing you of remaining silent -- you have given brilliant posts.
I totally agree with you here. I do try to pray first and wait for others to respond -- and many times they respond better than I could. Many times I don't respond at. In the OBOB right now, there are several sarcastic replies which I have chosen to ignore; nevertheless, I do pray for these people. I don't display the scorn which they show me. How are we going to have unity with these errors, sarcasm, and false charges flying back and forth? Even the commonly quoted New-Advent is often out of date in certain of their pages, especially regarding Orthodoxy.
Lately I have just been asking questions, and not giving an answer, but even a question can backfire, because someone misunderstands my intention.
If I see an obvious breach of the CF rules, then I will report a post and let the moderators handle it. But sometimes, there is no obvious violation of a CF rule but a terrible misunderstanding of our faith where we are labeled and we are referenced to some Catholic website run by Catholic laity (not theological-trained clergy) which perpetuates the myth.
Another problem is the terminology. I can read a passage from the OCA and understand it, but a Roman Catholic might read the same passage and totally misunderstand the terminology. Communication isn't easy especially when it becomes a "you said" "he said" argument.
I think we have made some progress, especially when we speak on birth control and divorce, although newbies might not understand. This is the problem with new evangelical people coming into the forum -- gotta break them in.
Let us pray for more patience and understanding between Christians.
Prayerfully in Christ,
Elizabeth
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