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BadHabit

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Asteroid impact, CERN making a boo-boo and turning the Earth into strange matter, a Gamma Ray Burst, a rogue black hole strolling through the solar system, whatever. I'm down for whatever. I just want off this ride. I want to take my ball and go home.
 
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Travelers.Soul

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Yes. I need a hug, my woobie, and a nap. I grumpy. You can't see it, but my bottom lip is stuck out and I look very cute.

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Now you can cuddle up with your woobie and take a nap. ^_^ No more grumps.
 
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MehGuy

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Plus I question whether women are really worth it after seeing videos like these...


The thing is, this woman probably will not be very attractive to wealthy men in 5-10 years time.

Gold digging is fine, but if I strike it rich I"ll just cradle them around for a few years until I drop them for a fresher woman. Lol.

Shallowness from both sides.
 
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Servant68

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I've been divorced for three years. I'm 47 but get mistaken for being in my late 30's (twice last week), I own my own home, have a decent job, financially secure, don't do drugs, am nice, have a great sense of humor, am honest, don't play games, respect women, am a great listener, etc, etc.

But, I am 6'2" and 300lbs. Mostly muscle but I am out of shape. I'm very active and every weekend I am either in the outdoors or working on my home.

Plus, I don't go to church. I really, really want to, but I work crazy hours and can't wake up before 10am. I tried to join a home group, but they all disbanded when Summer started. I refuse to date non-Christians and this area is bereft of Christian women online. Search results on dating sites for Christian women between 32 and 48 around here result in fewer than 6 women within 25 miles.

Plus, I'm not all that attractive. I thought I was reasonably attractive in the past, but after being rejected multiple times in the three years since my divorce, I've had to come to the realization that I must be ugly. And fat. No matter; I am happy being unattached and living life how I please.

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ReesePiece23

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I've been divorced for three years. I'm 47 but get mistaken for being in my late 30's (twice last week), I own my own home, have a decent job, financially secure, don't do drugs, am nice, have a great sense of humor, am honest, don't play games, respect women, am a great listener, etc, etc.

But, I am 6'2" and 300lbs. Mostly muscle but I am out of shape. I'm very active and every weekend I am either in the outdoors or working on my home.

Plus, I don't go to church. I really, really want to, but I work crazy hours and can't wake up before 10am. I tried to join a home group, but they all disbanded when Summer started. I refuse to date non-Christians and this area is bereft of Christian women online. Search results on dating sites for Christian women between 32 and 48 around here result in fewer than 6 women within 25 miles.

Plus, I'm not all that attractive. I thought I was reasonably attractive in the past, but after being rejected multiple times in the three years since my divorce, I've had to come to the realization that I must be ugly. And fat. No matter; I am happy being unattached and living life how I please.

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You can analyse it all you want, the fact is - when ALL is said and done, you have NOT recovered from the divorce. The way you feel about yourself now is simply a knock on effect from all of the feelings that have manifested themselves over the past three years.

I think you know this really.
 
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MotherFirefly

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Someone told me the other day that the only reason they were able to marry is because they lowered their standards, and if I ever hope to find someone I have to do the same.

I am torn between this either being screwed up thinking or it was an insult. :scratch: lol
 
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ReesePiece23

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Someone told me the other day that the only reason they were able to marry is because they lowered their standards, and if I ever hope to find someone I have to do the same.

I am torn between this either being screwed up thinking or it was an insult. :scratch: lol

Sounds like backhanded jealousy to me. And I'm not saying that to earn any Brownie Points, I've just seen it a LOT in my time. Anyone who possesses natural beauty, a skill, a talent, or particular way of thinking, is usually downplayed and ridiculed by those who seek only mediocrity.

Some people would read my post, and say "what a hipster" - and I would say, "you've just proven my point."
 
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