why are you single ?

[alexier]

Cos I am in love with someone that isn't in love with me :-( and I can't get over it cos we spent all our time together!

 

[Im_A]

Because Cristinia Scabbia is a decade older than me.

So I take the idea of there are more fish in the sea:

Kat Von D is married.

Boohoo me...

 

[penNpaper]

Because I haven't found the Drewski female version

God Bless,
Drew

 

[MacFall]

Why? Because in the OT, there is Ruth and Boaz, Isaac and Rebekah, God intervened for both Isaac and Ruth. Why is it amazing to think He wouldn't do the same for others?

I'm sure you know the story of the drowning man who refused help from a life raft, a boat, and a coastguard helicopter because he was waiting for God to save him, and then when he got to Heaven God asked him why he didn't accept the three chances to be saved that He sent.

I believe God arranges every possible good thing for us, but it is up to us to accept them or not. I know people who have snubbed others who may have been great partners for them because they were waiting for the perfect one sent from God. Just because someone wants a beam of light from Heaven to designate his/her One True Love doesn't mean that will happen. God doesn't give us designer miracles according to our desires.

Naomi did have to help Ruth and Boaz get together, after all. It's not like God came down in person and locked them in a room together.

 

[Niels]

Timing.

 

[HoneyComb Son]

wow..amen MacFall..took the words out of my mouth..at times you gotta go get it...when its right there...go seeka and find...we do have a free will and able to make decisions..we arent babies..its like work..u want to do well..work hard..etc

go and find her!

 

[HoneyComb Son]

or him..sorry..lol

 

[StarryEyes]

Because that's the best thing for me right now! God knows what I need.

 

[Thunder Peel]

Because I'm being called to lifelong singleness, or at least that's what I'm beginning to suspect.

 

[Apollo Celestio]

Because I'm being called to lifelong singleness, or at least that's what I'm beginning to suspect.

>_>

 

[Thunder Peel]

>_>

It's not unheard of.

 

[HeavyMetalDude]

I love the freedom of being a batchelor

(Not in a promiscous way)

 

[CrusaderKing]

why are you single ? LOL

Because I recently broke up with someone. It's as simple as that.

 

[yam]

WOW , it is sad to read this thread. Be happy with who you are guys. Being shy, akward,nice, ..... are not bad characteristic.I have seen lot of so called shy people in relationship. It has nothing to do with why you are single. There is someone out there for everyone depsite our short coming. The world will be quite boring if every body was outgoing. Most outgoing people suffer from insecurities.....

 

[dabro]

Oh just becaue I'm just trying to help myself out first before I get into anything serious,

 

[Jasiony]

I do not know. After my last failed attempt at change I have decided to wait for a girl (or do I say woman now?) to profess an interest in me before trying anything..........no takers..........yet

 

[Howard Cneal]

Because I waited two years for somebody that wasn't worth the time of day. But I learned my lesson though. Never give your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it...

Basically, I turned down a lot of great girls, expecting to end up with a certain person. But things did not work out as I had expected and here I am, available...

Now it's just a matter of meeting a quality woman who is what I am looking for.

I don't have self esteem issues. I'm good looking, smart, funny, romantic, sweet, kind, I love God, I'm ambitious, confident and I dress well. I'm not a shy person, though I could always stand to be even MORE out-going with women. So I don't believe it's a character flaw keeping me single. It was mostly a certain decision I had made two years ago, which brought me here...

So, now it's up to God, or whatever, to bring the right gal to me (whomever she - or they - may be...)

 

[Steffenfield]

I would go with "they" instead of "she".

Sounds more fun bro!

 

[Howard Cneal]

I say 'they' because there could be any number of "right" women out there for me, at any given time. I don't buy into the whole 'soul mate' (i.e. one person out there only for each person) myth. That's all.

 

[BreadAlone]

So, now it's up to God, or whatever, to bring the right gal to me (whomever she - or they - may be...)

This, basically.