I couldn't think of a better place to post this next bit so this thread will do.
I'm nearing the end of RCIA and the more I learn about the faith, the more I realize that evangelicalism really is a mutilated, incoherent version of Catholicism. It's like Catholicism but without all the things that make Catholicism make sense.
For example, last year a nearby Southern Baptist church did a series called Adventure, which was a time of "serious reflection" when the "worship leaders" all wore violet and so did the pastor of the church. It was all part of the lead up to Christmas, you see.
These Southern Baptists don't trust in man-made traditions, you understand, they stick with the Bible and nothing else... until it doesn't suit them anymore, that is. Or if they need a marketing gimmick. Or if they're slowly beginning to recognize what a serious time of year that season is and maybe the church should have some type of organized observance of it... nah, that's crazy talk!
That same church is doing a Good Friday service this year. I went to that church in another lifetime and I'm here to say they've NEVER done a Good Friday service before. But by golly, they're doing one now!
A different SB church nearby from February 18 to April 2 is doing a Bible series about the gospel of St. Mark during which time members are encouraged to do real acts of charity and selflessness as they reflect soberly on the reality of sin in their lives and, ultimately, the charity and selflessness required in order for salvation to become possible. Why, they might even want to fast from certain foods or abstain from certain practices or what have you to better focus their minds during this "season of reflection"! A little self-denial can't be bad for you. But whatever you do, don't call that Lent! Because that's man-made tradition! We go by the Bible, not history!
The picking-and-choosing by itself is kind of annoying. But the bigger issue as I see it is that the picking-and-choosing goes on but the evangelicals lack the intellectual honesty to admit it. They're guided at least as much by tradition as anybody but (A) it's their tradition and (B) it'll be a cold day in you-know-where before they ever admit to it.
So, yes, I can absolutely see why Catholics would have a very hard time respecting all or most Protestants.