this is gonna be fun since apparently I can't answer your questions without a question...
I don't intend to have fun. I intend to expose the truth, to identify where change is needed. If you believe that I need to change, you should be attempting to show me why your belief is true, not trying to have fun with an argument.
Now, after your response here I have had to read the forum rules again to be sure that I understand them correctly, and they seem to have been changed on 22nd July 2014. They are now different from what I remember, see them here:
http://www.christianforums.com/t7454511/
The part that pertains to us is this:
Debate
This forum is for discussion of questions with non-Christians. There are some areas of theology in which different Christians may believe differently.
In these cases, we would ask Christians to refrain from debating the matter here. You may point out that there is a differing viewpoint, but please do not use this forum to debate with other Christians. If Christians wish to discuss various doctrines with other Christians, they should do so in the Theology forums.
.. but I had remembered a previous instruction that Christians are allowed to ask each other for clarification on a statement they have made. That is the context by which I had engaged you in the previous post, in the interests of preventing our communication from corruption (deletion by moderators), and to prevent the thread from being locked. I cannot find the original rules that I had in mind, I could only find this
http://www.christianforums.com/t5775588/:
8. This forum is NOT for debate. Any argumentative posts will be removed or moved to the General Apologetics forum (or where ever applicable.)
9. Only the non-Christian OP may post further in the thread, ONLY if he/she is seeking clarification of a statement made by a Christian.
.. but that is different from what I remembered because it too does not allow for a Christian to engage another Christian in this area of the website.
This seems to be designed to reinforce the primary goal of this forum, which is to assist non-believers in gaining the information they are seeking.
I do not wish to inconvenience Alex by turning this into a debate thread, despite how much I desire to respond to you in public. Instead I have decided that I will reply to your post here as a Private Message to you, and if Alex is curious to find out what is true between what you and I have said, then he may choose to ask you and I for more information about what we have said until he is satisfied that he has revealed the truth.
If you are like me, and you prefer to discuss our differences in public, then let us agree in a PM to take the discussion to a more appropriate area of the website. I am most interested to ensure that my beliefs are correct, and when I am confronted with such language as you have used, it concerns me that perhaps I do need to investigate whether I may need correction. It would please me to know that you support this endeavour.