orthedoxy said:
He just doesn't force us to believe
Never said He did...
or didn't preprogram us to believe.
Then why do
you believe? Are you just smarter than those who don't? Less prideful? Where does your boast lie, with God's sovereign purpose with you as the recipient of His sovereign grace, or with yourself, because you're more "attuned" to the will of God?
Free choices are not free unless you can do otherwise.
Who says your choice to submit to God isn't free? It's ironic that free will advocates, like yourself, are so adamant about your choice to embrace God being "free" that you totally ignore Scripture which describes carnal man as a slave to his sinful nature. You have failed to make notice of a vital difference in the nature of man's choices. Unregenerate (carnal) man is
naturally free to choose whatsoever is in his power to choose, including obeying God's Law. Unregenerate man is not, however,
morally free to acknowledge the Lordship of God and seek Him by faith. While carnal man may have the inherent ability to choose to live a life of obedience to God, his desire to do so was completely lost in the Fall. Man's desire after the Fall was to rebel against the Almighty. They were so caught up in the sinfulness of their hearts that the idea of freedom is illogical at best. God makes us free when He sets our hearts free. Only when He regenerates us are we morally capable of faithfully obeying Him. Now, if regenerating us were all He did every thought of our heart would continue to be evil; thankfully that is not all He does. He also indwells us and constantly works in us to do His Will.
If the bible says if you confess with your mouth you will be saved I guess you have to make an educated choice.
Are you saying that you are saved because you made an educated choice? If not, why were
you saved?
Josh 24:15 says choose, no mention of God enabling them so why can I say the same thing I choose God?
This is one of the most improperly understood verses in the Bible. Once again, all prooftexting will get you is an incorrect understanding of the fullness of God's revealed will. First off, Joshua was speaking to the children of Israel. These were people who had been delivered time and time again by the power of God. They could no more deny His authority than they could their own existance. What was the response of many of them? They had embraced the pagan gods of their fathers. Joshua's admonition to them was to remind them of their sinfulness and to encourage them to faithfully serve the Lord their God and only Him.
Once again, let me reiterate that we
DO make a choice to serve the Lord. That choice is not an autonomous one though. We who faithfully make that choice are set apart because God's purpose in election is made manifest, not because we make the right choice. We make the right choice because God has given us faith.
Why can't it mean God sends a person to preach and open our eyes to the truth? Then we can respond or reject.
First off, if your eyes are opened to the Truth then that must mean they were closed to the Truth. If they were closed to the Truth what made one person's eyes open to the Truth and another's remain shut to that same Truth? The thing you fail to realize is that we were not only blind to the Truth, we were deaf as well. Preaching the Truth to one who has not been regenerated is like preaching to a piece of driftwood.
Can a preprogrammed robot love? If it can then we can marry a robot we can program perfect love

How are you any different then a preprogrammed robot?
No. What does this have to do with the discussion? No one is claiming that God made any of us robots. This is just the infantile regurgitation of someone else's misunderstanding of predestination. God does not "force" us to love Him but the Bible is clear that His sheep hear His voice and they follow. Why do they follow? Is it because He forces them to follow? You see, prestination is not rooted in God's omnipotence. It is rooted in His monergistic work of regeneration. We believe because God gives us a heart that believes. Our fallen heart, our heart of stone, is incapable of belief. That's why He gives us a new one. His work of doing so is regeneration. When we are brought back to life we believe, just as surely as Lazarus breathed when the Lord Jesus called him forth from death. Did Lazarus breathe first? Of course not.
How do you know you are one of the remnant is it because you are better then most people or because your work of faith?
A true, genuine desire for salvation in Christ is, in fact, a mark of election.
Aren't you working so you can have assurance of salvation?
Of course not. We are children of God now and part of that is living a life in accordance with that Truth. We don't obey so that we will be saved. We obey because we are saved.
How much can you sin before you can loose the assurance?
Well, if the assurance of our salvation depended on our obedience then no one would be saved. Thankfully, it doesn't. Our salvation is secured in Heaven for us by the power of God:
1 Peter 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His abundant mercy has begotten us again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance incorruptible and undefiled and that does not fade away,
reserved in heaven for you, who are
kept by the power of God through faith for salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.
can we boast about our assurance?
Can you boast about the reason for being saved?
Again I ask, why did you believe when others did not?