The problem is that they are making police brutality ALL about the color of their skin, which is not true.
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There are four children in a family, three boys, one girl.
Girl - I'm the one who is always getting grounded. In the last 4 mths. the boys have only been grounded 2 times, I have been grounded 5 times more than they have. That is not fair, it's because I'm a girl. Girls matter!!
Dad - Guess what, you break the rules 5 times more than all the boys put together do. So yes, you're punished 5 times more and you're the first that is suspected of breaking the rules because you do so often. No, it's not Because you are a girl and yes girls matter.
That analogy doesn't quite work either.
Here is as simple of a breakdown as I can make it.
- Blacks, as far as can be told, commit crimes at a higher rate than whites.
- Blacks are caught and punished far more than whites, and detained more than whites, even when whites are committing more crimes. (see Ferguson police stops)
- Both whites and blacks are sometimes punished, even killed, when it wasn't warranted, or even when the person was completely innocent.
- Blacks are disproportionately suffer from such abuses as outlined above.
- ALL of the abuse is being captured more often now and has come to light.
- BLM people make it primarily about race
- Most white people make it about police brutality.
- Many white folk see the BLM tag as divisive, trying to diminish the suffering of other races compared to black, and sometimes misguided as some have defended those who are quite thoroughly guilty and should have been punished/killed by police. Since they see this as a matter of police brutality, they see this as offensive, trying to dismiss those who are brutalized who aren't black. So they say "all lives matter".
- BLM people see "All lives matter" as diminishing the disproportionate suffering of black people at the hands of police. Since they see this as a matter of race, they take offense to this.
This is why there is such a disconnect.
BLM people see a racial issue to tackle, and miss the greater problem of police brutality.
ALM people see that tackling the police brutality issue will reduce ALL abuse. They aren't completely blind to the racial part of the problem, but simply see tackling the greater problem as more expedient and focused.